| sex for the first time..
Posted: 12/30/2007 4:00:57 PM | I cant wait.  
I may be too short but trust me this msg will go through | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 12/30/2007 9:51:04 PM | Definitely a couple of drinks , but not beer cos it bloats me. Couple of smirnoff and im good to go  | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 12/30/2007 11:36:05 PM | | I think I would feel a little less nervous if I had had a couple of glasses of wine, certainly no more than that though. Who wants to be blotto and not be in a position to remember what is supposed to be a special moment for you both? Not me, I want to savour the moment. Well hopefully it will last longer than a moment , the experience, as well as the memory ;) | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 12/31/2007 6:34:45 AM | Msg 23
<div class="quote"> My last 'first time' followed a couple of drinks by both of us, but I don't think that the alcohol was necessary.
Surprised you can remember that far back, or wasn't it with the wife? | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 12/31/2007 6:36:30 AM |
Surprised you can remember that far back, or wasn't it with the wife?
Meow lol...
Last time i had sex with a new partner i was plastered
and the dog has never looked at me in the eyes again. | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 1/1/2008 2:55:55 PM | If you need to drink to get over some fear then maybe it isn't right! Either that or you should get happier with yourself - there is only one of you, so be proud of it not wanting to cover it up.
I like to keep my senses about me in that situation and remember it all! | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 10:03:25 AM | if its right there should be no nervousness just two hearts pounding, A memory to last,to hold on a lonely night. it keeps you warm, sex is an easy thing to do any body can do it ,but when you make love with that special person it lasts forever | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 10:10:06 AM | I always make sure I'm sober and they're absolutely ratted! They think I'm fit cos they can't see, and they're chuffed to bits when it's over in 30 seconds and they can get to sleep. Win win!
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 10:49:28 AM | I usually do not drink, sometimes a glass of wine but that ONE glass would make me drunk.
I do not think the drink would make me change my decisions or whatever.. had a few glasses few weeks ago and was quite drunk and with a gent who tried to make me let him visit my home at 2am. Did not succeed.
I guess it all depends on how much you like someone. If you really like someone enough that doesn't really matter when and where you would be intimate. | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 10:50:02 AM | | Oh god ... sober and sober only ... would not like to put anyone in too much danger | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 11:12:49 AM | I don't really drink alcohol so it's sober every time and I prefer it if she's sober too. My rule of thumb is waiting for signs that she'd like more than a good night kiss this time round. If so I'd only ever do anything if we both felt like it. If one of us is unsure then neither of us will be getting any.
I don't think sex for the first time is a bad thing. I've not had any bad experiences really. Make sure she's satisfied and she'll always want more  | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 11:19:48 AM | | I rely on beer goggles to get sex..... even looking like Sting in my pic isn't a help when people actually meet me! | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 12:14:16 PM | a little alcohol is good, but not falling over drunk..
alcohol make the desire greater, but the abilty lessen...
but i reckon first time sex is usually fairly good but generally gets wayy better with a repeat performance.... | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 12:38:29 PM | I think that one drink to steady the nerves a bit is always a good idea. I don't care what anyone says if you really have feelings for someone you are always a bit nervous the first time.
alcohol make the desire greater, but the abilty lessen...
This is a medically proven fact with women. Not sure about men but probably also true
but i reckon first time sex is usually fairly good but generally gets wayy better with a repeat performance....
Have to agree with that 100% | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 12:43:37 PM |
Not sure about men but probably also true
you never heard the phrase Brewers Droop...? | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 12:50:12 PM |
but i reckon first time sex is usually fairly good but generally gets wayy better with a repeat performance....
My opening night performances are second to none and an encore is always demanded of me.
As for the old brewers, I rarely drink so never have to worry about it, though my chances of pulling are dramiticaly reduced due to the lack of beer goggles.  | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 12:51:11 PM |
you never heard the phrase Brewers Droop...?
I have yes. It's not all blokes that suffer though. I think that's just a myth. At least I know I never have anyway.
I've heard of girls wanting mad passionate sex when drunk, then throwing up like in the exorcist before passing out and snoring for 8 hours though | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 1:22:11 PM | personally, I find that alcohol impairs my performance , and as a Doctor of Lurve I have a reputation to think of ...  | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 1:27:45 PM | I wish brewers droop had afflicted my bloody ex!!
I tell you i had made 10 shopping lists,counted up all the artexed swirls on the ceiling(854)
and counted backwards from 100,000 before the poor sod admitted defeat | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 2:05:40 PM | ... and I admire your patience ... he would have been my ex after the 5th shopping list  | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 2:10:46 PM | No more than a beer or glass of wine for me.
And no gassy soft drinks either! | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/17/2008 2:33:22 PM | I tell you i had made 10 shopping lists,counted up all the artexed swirls on the ceiling(854)
and counted backwards from 100,000 before the poor sod admitted defeat
Im supprised you didnt get a nurse in to turn you over from time to time if you were bedbound with so little movement from yourself for so long.
bedsores are a terrible thing!
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:52:16 AM | | Sweet suffering Jaysus I tried this recently and it was an unmitgated disaster, I could die everytime I think about it It cured me of my loneliness for another wee while. I was drunk an' all........nitemare................. | |
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| sex for the first time..
Posted: 7/18/2008 11:54:53 AM |
Im supprised you didnt get a nurse in to turn you over from time to time if you were bedbound with so little movement from yourself for so long.
bedsores are a terrible thing!
Trust me i was willing to do my fair share of the work,but its a bit difficult when the blokes twice your size,full of ten pints of stella and sleep humping on top of you | |
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