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Posted: 9/4/2008 6:38:18 PM | spot on u got it in one some guys get mixed up between porn and reality which is quite sad really
It's fascinating to me how much credit some people give pornographers. It's as if they believe they invented this stuff. I'd wager quite a bit that so-called "facials" - not to mention anything else done in porno - were being enjoyed tens upon tens of thousands of years ago.
I know I partook of that particular pleasure decades before I actually watched any porn. I was surprised a few years ago to learn it actually had a "porn" name. I thought it was just a fun, messy variety of sex. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2008 7:53:33 PM | I want my man somewhere deep in me when he cums.
It is hard to explain but I feel kind of left out like why didn't he just masturbate if he didn't want to cum in me.
I would no more want my sweetheart to cum on my face than I would cook him a nice dinner than mash it all over his face instead of letting him eat it.
Believe me I'm up for anything but the cum I prefer inside somewhere.
I also don't see the attraction for a man of being with a woman and settling for basically a handjob. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2008 3:08:39 PM | | Funrowing....Thats the best answer I have seen so far , I had a girlfriend who liked me to shoot it all over her face and chin, what a turn on for me. One time I was ready to shoot and I said "I have a big load ready for you baby" she said "oh yes thats what i want" I covered her whole face! what an orgasm! when i was done she said with great delight, "my face is covered with cum!" that was great! | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:01:55 PM | | As a woman who is not turned off by cum, I don't mind wearing some to make my man happy. Nothing wrong with that. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:05:29 PM | | gotta admit, any girl that's really into it and enjoys them...it's a definite turn on. I mean, it's just flat out hot...it's not make or break though | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:06:50 PM | See that is the thing. There are small things men or women can do to make the experience that much better for their partner.
If a little (or a lot) of cum on my face will do the trick, all the better. :) | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 4:16:50 PM | | wow, any girl that wants it badly and then wants to lick it off is indeed going in on my "to-do" list...I'm very sexual, but wouldn't do it with anyone either... | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 5:46:22 PM | | omg a girl from work had that happen a couple months ago.. her eye was red for days. looked like pinkeye at first. as for me face and hair are so not an option! | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 6:43:12 PM | Funny how questions like this are really just the same as: "Would you do anything in bed that turns on your lover?"
There are few things I wouldn't do during sex if my lover was turned on by it. If she wanted dwarfs on a trapeze with one-legged ballerinas and a mime playing the accordian, dammit... I'd be hitting the Yellowpages that same day trying to set that up for her. My bedroom is Fantasy Island and I am Ricardo Fucking Montalbán, that's the way I see it my friends. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 6:52:53 PM | | Hey....if it goes in the hair by accident or covers your face,eye whichever. Thats where it flew and landed. Sometimes there's no control!! | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 7:46:27 PM | It is all about perception. A person's perception of something is their own personal reality. I have always thought of the word slut as a term of endearment and have used it in that context.
As to the question at hand..it's a hot button issue and is, admittedly, an issue of submission and dominance. I happen to like facials for that very reason. That does not mean I wish to degrade women through the act or that I wish my woman to be submissive, sexually or otherwise, all of the time. There is a time and place for everything.
And yes, women who openly express their appreciation for facials and flatly stating they get enjoyment from them turn me on! | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 8:23:00 PM | | Judging how men bond with women, how they feel close to their mates it is intercourse i.e vaginal penetration.. .. I would say that sperm facials are a sign of complete disrespect to the women he is with.......... men who are with someone that they love have desire to be "in" their partner before during and after participating and pleasing their partner to climax......... that is what a real man does ...... one who is engaged in a continuous long term connection to a partner that he wants to connect with all the time... If any woman decides to participate in one way sex ........expect that you will receive that before during and after the relationship......... Pornography is pornography ........ great connected sex is about emotional, physical and spiritual bonding ........... real men feel satisfied when their woman is satisfied , they can conquer life and identify with their own masculinity when their women is satisfied . The rule of thumb for great relationship sex is .. "ladies first " and having your face spewed with sperm has nothing to do with sensitizing the thousands nerve endings in the female genitals to enhance climax ... so,, maybe alot of people here should go and .. Read some good books on real long lasting desirable sexuality and you will find that all men who have satisfy their mates have satisfying sex.. it is not in the best investment of women and their own pleasure during sexuality to accomodate the males Porn fantasies ... (there are way too many women on these dates sites that are of the belief that their partners pleasure is forefront and it annoys me to see so many put their own pleasure on the back burner to fulfill some guys fantasies attached to a porn flic.............. this is not a mutual relationship of in the moment sex it is fueling an image that you should not accomodate as healthy sex.) | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 8:57:43 PM | | and maybe some should not pretend to know what is fulfilling and connective sex for all people. That is for the individuals who comprise a couple to decide, mutually and equally, between themselves. To indicate or blanketly say that this lone act cannot be enjoyed by someone or is always, in every single instance, a demeaning act towards a woman on behalf of a selfish, uncaring man is egregiously erroneous. Sometimes, even in the closest of relationships, sex is nothing more than sex. It is not a spiritual or emotional connection every single time nor does it have to be (and probably even shouldn't be). Sometimes it is primal, urgent, animalistic and just as satisfying as the tender, emotive, bonding, soul touching love making that transpires between a loving, happy and satisfied couple. Long lasting relationships run the gamut of experiences sexually (and otherwise). They are balanced and equal....developed, nurtured and evolved through the wishes, communication and exploration of the two people involved. Whatever two consenting adults do which works for them is not something anyone else has the right to question or condem. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 6:08:23 AM | the write stuff............ alot of syllables and a few pair-o-bulls... On this planet I can guarantee that women throughout the history of our ever evolving species have always been subjected to degration,splaying sperm on a womans face is degration unless you happen to have such an accurate shooter you can replicate the MOANING LISA , maybe men should see urologists and have a few more holes surgically added so they can leave a more lasting impression... .
Your quote: " Sometimes, even in the closest of relationships, sex is nothing more than sex. It is not a spiritual or emotional connection every single time nor does it have to be (and probably even shouldn't be)." Distanced sex is just that, and although women have been forced to participate in unemotional acts of "sex" in our species history ...... very fortunately we are living in a society that may not be more evolved but have laws and rights to protect our emotional well beings... Men and women think completely different when it comes to bonding thru sex ... if you think that wham bam sex is going to be satisfying for a woman .. you need to read the new male cosmopolitan that teaches MEN how to please their women ( my hypothetical new rag mag of reading material for men beyond the picture mags.. ) ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, . if there is no emotional connection for a woman you will be engaged in distance sex with a woman as women are highly intuitive and are very skilled at building walls ... something you may construe as engaged animalistic primal sex can backfire on yah .. guys and gals do not think alike in the bonding process of sexuality. Dr. Kevin Lehman who is a leading sex therapist of couples believes that sex is all day foreplay....... and if that does not exist you got just an animal..
According to the experts the best question a man can ask a woman before engaging in the act of sex is " what do you like.. what pleases your body, makes you feel good?" I am going to gander that honken your horny horn all over her face is not going to be anywhere near the top of the heap for female pleasure ...unless of course it is mutual and maybe her old boyfriend or potential new one could join the animalistic fun and give the guy reciprocity ... hmmmmmmmmmmmm | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 8:47:49 AM | Talk about parables (pair of bull as in bullsh*t lol).....
First of all.......re-read my post. I said only that no once can dictate or determine what any individual couple finds sexually satisfying. That is not for you or I to decide. That isn't for your trusted, lauded, believed-hook-line-and-skinker therapists to determine either. You seem to wish to speak for all women in saying the act of a facial is a demeaning and loathesome consideration which no woman could possibly enjoy. You preach this despite reading several testimonials from women who claim otherwise. I know, I know--they are diluded, delusional, confused, brainwashed by men, etc.
Furthermore, if you think for one moment that women cannot and do not enjoy emotionally detached sex, simply because you yourself do not, you are the one fooling yourself. Do they prefer connective and meaningful sex in terms of a shared, bonding experience? More than likely that is a resounding yes. But so do a great many men. I only stated that sex isn't that soul-melding experience between a couple every single time. That's unrealistic, not feasible and totally implausible.
There are, I maintain steadfastly, moments and experiences of sex between two people wholey committed to one another, in the most loving and healthiest of relationships, where urgent, primal, disassociative sex is not only practiced and experienced but enjoyed. And that can and does include facials if they so choose! | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 11:52:27 AM | I think for most men it is just a turn on, not a show of dominance or submission on the girls part.
I don't mind at all. Sometimes the guy completely misses the target (whether its my chest, my chin, my tongue) and it ends up in the hair, the nose, the eyes, completely missing you!
It really depends on what the girl is comfortable with. The guy has a responsibility if he respects the girl to determine that comfort level. One guy I dated, only wanted to cum in my mouth...didn't matter if I swallowed or not.
What's better is when the guy is expecting you to swallow and you allow him the "facial" opportunity.
Ultimately...it's up to communication, just like all items of sex. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 1:16:52 PM | Dear write stuff ... All I can say is that we are living on a planet where millions of women still cater to ALL the accomodations of men , while men busy themselves with picture books and beer and the game .. women spend time nurturing and catering to male needs, I have never seen any rag mag reading material for men that caters to what women really want ... and their are few men that would buy it anyway.. because society still sees the female human as "subserviant " .... i.e. well as long as he is pleased by it or whatever turns him on ...and as long as I got a penis in my life and no matter what turns his crank even if it makes me feel subversive ... or subserviant that somehow the outside world can see me as something I am not, and believe me we have this element more rampant in society than healthy heterosexual relationships based on "HONEST" communication of how something "REALLY" makes you feel ...why else do we have so many deteriorating marriages and common law relationships...
I always stave off argumentative insights from individuals who dismiss facts ..
"That isn't for your trusted, lauded, believed-hook-line-and-skinker therapists to determine either."
Emotionally detached sex,"disassociative " is for emotionally detached people and they are people I usually stay away from as they have more problems than just connecting to and bonding thru sexuality... and I dunno where you got "soul -melding" from the context of my written statements, it is not something I believe in, nor soul mates .. deep connections start with individual deep people,sex or no sex. Ejaculating in a womans face would definitely not be high on the priority list of sexual pleasures to the female body/mind as there are no sensory connections between your ejaculate and Her brain .. and to receive an infection in your eyes for the sake of male pleasure is disrespectful to the womans body to the woman ... so much for safe sex...
I dunno a woman goes to the doctor for an infection in her eye and she feels ah "what" ... just friggin great .. I doubt it ,, or you are living in dream land or oh yah there is the disassociated ones ... who are OK with everything.... geesh come on ....
And because I seem to be in the minority on this being degrading as to female opinion on the regaling of the wonders of sperm facials ... I would say that also proves yes that women are and do indeed spend way too much of their carnal pleasures catering to men mindset and if they spent less time catering to men and more time catering to their own needs we might see more respect and longer lasting unions of healthy associations to sex... Any gal here says yes to a good eye wash and the possibility of infections is indeed very ignorant ( naive) to the potential damage that can happen to their own ah ah ah eyes site ... but then as long as HE is happy right .. who cares !!! If you don't give a crap about your human health as a woman .. ain't no guy gonnah... I can guarantee that ... so if you wanna play russian roulette with a loaded gun.. that is ok but don't cum bawling when the seeing go blind... and for the disbelievers .. the proof might be in the pudding put-on... | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 1:34:21 PM |
howbigisyourlove: "All I can say is that we are living on a planet where millions of women still cater to ALL the accomodations of men"
I'm glad to hear that. Perhaps you could cater to my accommodation by using your Enter key twice at the end of every paragraph so that it doesn't hurt my eyes trying to read what you post. Oh and tell the other millions of women to do the same. Since I am a man I'm sure you'll comply. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 1:48:51 PM | I don't even know where to begin or if I even want to. You are clearly riffe with anti-men issues. Clearly. Whatever damage has been done to you, at the hands of a male, is your issue. It is not a societal one. Are women really as oppressed as you'd have us all believe? Any intelligent person knows the answer to that and will readily admit women have more power than men.
Men cater to women just as much, if not more, than women do to men (and I believe more so); most everything a man does is to either appease a woman, make her happy, get in her pants, win her affection or place her on a pedastol. Men constantly sacrifice themselves in innumerable ways for the sake of women. Chivalry, despite your own personal beliefs, is not dead.
And I stand by my earlier comments.....facials can be enjoyed (and they obviously are being by many women) whether or not any nerve endings are involved. Sex is as much psychological as it is physical. However they are doing it, menatally, physically or otherwise, a great many women enjoy the act. Simply because a woman derives satisfaction and gratification from an act simply because her partner enjoys it, thus tying in to her own pleasure, does not make her weak, in denial, subjigated, brainwashed or anything else. I suppose any time a man buys his lady a diamond or goes with her for hours on end while she shops or goes to any event he loathes just because he knows it will make her happy and smile that he too is under this same societal stupor of brain rot.
Some people......it takes all kinds I suppose. Projection. Look it up. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 2:09:17 PM | | if i don't want it in my vagina, for whatever reason that day, i sure as heck don't want it near any other orifice of my body..especially if you don't know where it's been before you. on the chest is fine..it can't get your pregnant or give you a STD there. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 7:01:28 PM | dear write stuff.. nah not brain rot.. to the latter .. more like projection issues .. any guy that goes shopping in a mall with his partner for hours on end would likely be more inclined to enjoy a good ejaculate facial from any of ewes "real" guys ...I dunno last time my group of hetero female friends got together .. the subject of bursting enjoyment over sperm facials was not on the list of 2dues so kudos and now we need spurting dildoes for the gal who has everything butt the real deal... although loaded it could cum in handy as a weapon of mass eruption depending on how you load the doe for a dilly... eh... haha ...,,.and ass-humptions aside .. Az zah formeah.. nah no damage goods here .. are you kidding ?.. besides if .. I was damaged so called goods as a man and coming from your profile .. the behaviour of all men towards women should be "your issue " .. in case you haven't heard noble men are sexy ... much sexier than fire hydrants... hmmm and oh yah as for society ... read the paper and read the world and go talk to people who investigate insidious crimes against women and children and wake up and live on planet birth caus' it ain't exactly facial or racial or gender balanced paradise ..
Now you by admission seem to have difficulty reading books that might open you to different insights on our planets current social status and what women are subjected to by men ,,I can send you to scads of reading material from experts to victims but opening a closed mind can caus' brain ejaculate to enshroud the captures face .. hmm It would be interesting to see a study of long term partners ... people in marriages of solid fidelity meaning one on one intimacy with no lies attached .. a rarity in the first world . .. to find out if facial sperming was high on the list of desires and benefits of keeping their intimacy alive ... I seer-ee-ass-lee doubt it !!! | |
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