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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/9/2008 7:57:10 PM | There are many factors to consider here. I used to be a divorce mediator. I can't stress enough that your friend should consult a matrimonial lawyer well before he gets married. The lawyer will go over your friend's unique financial and other circumstances and give independent legal advice on how your friend should protect himself before marriage. That might be a prenuptial agreement, but even those can be overturned in some circumstances. CONSULT A LAWYER. IT'S VERY IMPORTANT!
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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/10/2008 4:40:55 PM | This is one interesting post that doesnt die. Quite intelligent responses too. I love starfun7 for her no-nonsense posts.
CS payments are something that I fervently believe should have a cap. Currently if the payor makes too little, the payee (usually the mother) applies for all sorts of government supports and tax credit. However, if she receives too much, she is allowed to do with it what she pleases without even paying tax on it (in Canada).
I also the government should make an effort to enforce access rights. So far, the woman (usually) can withold access to the fathers for as long as they want (or till the court comes in again). Well, she is NOT punished for the "blocked/denied access" aka "retroactive"! Try this with child support payments.
Family law at least in North America is a joke....seems to have been written by a bunch of old farts, foggies, who dont have any kids. | |
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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/10/2008 5:28:08 PM | He should get a very good lawyer that specializes in prenuptial agreements. I don't know Canadian family law but here in the states he could wind paying as much as 50K a month per child for child support plus alimony (forever if it goes over 10 years) and forfeit over half of his assets. On top of that he could wind up being labeled a child molester/wife beater and never get to see his kids, a common tactic used in divorce cases to get the upper hand. What do you think the employability is of a child molester? It is nothing to f-around with when there is significant amounts of wealth at stake. here is a list of some of the common malicious things that chicks can do in a divorce.
This site states the following:
http://fact.on.ca/Info/pas/turkat95.htm
With the increasing commonality of divorce involving children, a pattern of abnormal behavior has emerged that has received little attention. The present paper defines the Divorce Related Malicious Mother Syndrome. Specific nosologic criteria are provided with abundant clinical examples. Given the lack of scientific data available on the disorder, issues of classification, etiology, treatment, and prevention appear ripe for investigation.
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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/10/2008 5:51:49 PM | He's going to get raped by the child support process. There isn't much he can do about that, except to try to get custody and guardianship of the children (often this means proving she's an unfit mother, which can get very mean and very, very nasty, he should actually start documenting this as soon as the children are born).
He needs to make sure she's only going to get HALF of what they make as a couple AFTER they get married.
If he already owns a house, or if he buys a house before they get married, he needs to make sure it stays in HIS NAME ONLY, likewise for any vehicles he already owns. He needs to protect any and all assets he already owns, and as part of the pre-nup agreement he needs to have her sign quitclaim deeds to any and all property already owned by him.
Ain't love grand? | |
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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/11/2008 12:21:40 AM | | Starfun 7 , I have been saying this for years and years. Until they get smart in this country and change some laws the divorce rate will continue to rise. You can't have one benifiting from divorce and one clearly getting took. It's so one sided that when an attorney was doing the figures for my child support payment even he said "damn thats steep". With all that's lumped into child support these days it's very costly. They attach daycare and ins. to these figures now. Its going to change someday just like it did there. SOMEDAY!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 12:26:13 AM | This post, Starfun-7
starfun7 on 12/31/2007 9:35:24 AM
Subject: Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Message: Twisted Sister: No one is confusing Child Support with Spousal Support!!! And men are human too. They love their kids as much as the women do. The courts system here in North America is so warped and biased against men. All the woman has to do is to show up in court with some baseless allegations and she wins. Family courts rules implicitly runs on "Men are automatically GUILTY until proven GUILTY!"
Show me 1 man who has free access to their kids and doesnt want to take care of them and I'll show you 10 women who live off the child support they receive from their rich exs.
Weezygirl: It took 2 to produce the child yet its only 1 that is being fleeced here. During divorce and property split up, each takes what they want or feel they can afford. If you decide to take the gas guzzler SUV you dont go back to court to say you cant afford the gas so the other party should pay. Likewise if you cannot afford to take care of the child properly, then common-sense dictates that you let the person capable of doing a better job take over.
Women in North America has it so easy. Thier ex- are just open banks. Yes..and I stand by it....there are so many women who marry and have kids with the intent to get out and fleece the man at the least sign of difficulty in the marriage. Prove me wrong!
The government of Sweden proved this!!!! Divorce rates are high because the family laws encouraged women to do so and fleece the men. They changed their family law!
Now the law in Sweden states that "automatic joint custody of children upon divorce unless the parents disagree;" in which case whoever disagress should prove in court why!!! as well as show that they can provide for the kids better than the other person, as well as show that the kids will suffer from joint custody!!!
Not only that..the law further states "a child's rights to access to others besides his parents (such as grandparents and foster parents);" !! So now the woman cant deny the mans relatives access. Infact they dont even have to go to court for that.
And guess what? Divorce rates fell almost 42% just 3 years after the law came into effect!! Go figure!!!! | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 7:01:13 AM | Ohhhh boy,
The children aren't even born yet and the fighting has begun. OF COURSE the woman is a gold digger ... hell she is dating a man who has a great income. Isn't that ALWAYS the way ???
The woman is dating a man with a good income so that she can screw him. The woman is dating a man with a good income so that she can screw him. The woman is dating a man with a good income so that she can screw him. The woman is dating a man with a good income so that she can screw him.
Same old crap on POF ... but then most people here don't even know what $100,000 looks like so of course everyone thinks $300,000 is oh just so much money.
I do understand that most here would not think it is even slightly possible that the woman MIGHT just love this man ..... nawwwww that would not even be a miniscule possibility on POF's minds. Just the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ that is the NUMBER ONE thought and posting here. MONEY ...
Anyway Happy Mothers Day to all of us dreadful women on POF, what a joke. | |
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| Prenuptial Agreements and Maximum Child Support payment!
Posted: 5/11/2008 8:50:28 AM | Since she is Canadian and he British the laws of where they reside would come into play. In Canada any provisions regarding CS in a pre-nup are invalid. His best bet in the event of a break-up would be to hire the nastiest lawyers possible and take full custody himself, he could then grant fair access and voluntarily offer to help her out with the stated amounts of money.
To limit the number of kids..... go to ReProMed in Toronto and jack off in a jar a few times then get a vasectomy. Ensure that "withdrawls" at said bank can only be made with his consent  | |
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