| Let's say..... Posted: 1/1/2008 8:19:51 AM | | I dont put weight on pictures and videos, as long as I have his FULL attention while I am there. | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/1/2008 8:32:06 AM |
I challenge a man to find a woman that doesn't have her own little collection. mmmmm..... "The Sleeping Beauty Chronicles"......
Yep, nothing wrong with a little porn, but a gentlemen will keep it under "wraps".... Men are visual creatures and I sure don't expect them not to look, but I don't need to know about it, unless you're inviting me to look witcha.
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 8:54:41 PM | | What he does in his own time, is his business. Why would her opinion matter anyway. 2 people consent to having fun so that is all that matters. If she was starting some drama during the date, can you imagine the drama later on. | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 9:14:54 PM | Why as a single guy no kids are you hiding your porn around the house?
I guess it would depend how much porn he had or the content. Gay men doing blow up sheep porn might concern me a little.
And I wouldn't try to change a man, I don't like it much when they try to do it to me. | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 9:16:33 PM | What makes you think you can change the man??? If you don't like what you see, walk. | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 9:34:37 PM | If it was splayed all over the house, that would be a bit concerning. But if your magazines were underneath your bathroom cabinet, which seems to be where I have found most (looking for TP), then I wouldn't care.
I am such a smart ass..... that if I did see them laying around, I would probably make a comment like, well if we continue seeing each other, you won't be needing those anymore. | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 9:34:38 PM | I'm perfectly fine with porn. I'm not a visual person, so it's not something I enjoy, but that's certainly something many do and that's their choice. When I'm comfortable enough, I usually ask how much they have on the computer because that tends to be a favourite place to collect it. Interestingly enough... I've never yet had anyone tell me that they have none. All admitted it and some offered to share it. I do draw the line at snooping through his computer to find the porn myself.
Now... if it came down to a discussion of shared abode and entertaining regular folks who weren't there for "fun" I'd hope we could come to an agreement that the porn should probably find a more permanent home than the living room table. Just like I don't leave my DVDs strewn about the living or bedroom or my magazines strewn across the living room table, I would expect the same of the porn, except I'd probably want to put it in a drawer. :)
It's all good, though. Porn wouldn't affect my view of him at all other than to illuminate his fantasies without him having to tell me, which lets me be more creative. :) | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/22/2008 11:40:42 PM | Who cares? Men love porn. It's a non-issue.  | |
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| Let's say..... Posted: 1/23/2008 12:14:03 PM | | What am I doing snooping through his house finding "hidden" adult magazines and videos? What does HE think of ME for doing that? | |
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