| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 2/22/2008 2:32:37 PM | | hmmm the most i've had sex with, i ****ed two different chix in a night, the longest session for a blowjob was about 4 hours before i came in her face, the longest sex session was about 5 hours where i came 4 times....wow! what a stallion! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 2/22/2008 3:20:55 PM |
Most sex will last 5, 10 or 15 minutes. Some lovers can go as long as 30 mins or more. What is the longest sexual experience you've endured? Was it pleasurable or did it become long and boring waiting for a man/woman to cum?
Situation #1:
My now-ex-girlfriend.
Two-year anniversary.
Ages: 21 and 22.
Celibate, no-intercourse relationship.
Alternating oral sex for 1-2 hours at a stretch. Probably a total of 6 hours that Saturday.
It was exciting waiting for her to cum. We'd been together long enough that I knew all of her hot buttons and how to read her body's signals. I'd bring her to the edge, then pull back, bring her to the edge, pull back, and do this a few more times before finally letting her have an orgasm.
Then I'd be so worked up she'd only have to go down on me for a few minutes for me to get off, then I'd get right back to Eating-at-the Y.
Situation #2:
Post-relationship sex-friend.
Just for fun, seeing how long we could go *without* cumming. We'd grind until one of us was at the edge, give a signal to stop, and wait for it to die down. After about 45 minutes to an hour she started going (she was a one-off cummer. Too sensitive for multiples.) and wouldn't stop, so when she was close to the edge I rolled on top of her and pounded one out. We actually had simultaneous orgasms that time. It was awesome, but we never had the patience to try that experiment again.
We decided delaying orgasm is for Lovers, not friends.
In your experiences is the best sex wham bam over in 10 minutes or making it last as long as humanly possible?
With an intimate partner I love? Making it last.
With a sex-friend (something I don't really do anymore, btw)? Quick and dirty.
- Christopher93 | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 9:40:42 AM |
Regardless of how great the sex was with him, I could never understand why he didn't cum each and every time as stated in my following posts.
With reading some of the great info here from fellow posters, I have been enlightened and know more of how a man can have much stamina and still find sex enjoyable even if he doesn't shoot a load.
I have been lucky with lovers like the type mentioned above. I used to worry about them not climaxing with our first go-round, but have since realized I prefer it that way. They usually get off with oral sex, or by one of the penetrations of the night/morning. I am so used to this type of partner, that if I happen upon a new relationship starting with a Typical man @ 1/2 hour of for play- resulting in 5-15 minutes of penetration, with a one shot deal at the end, I generally run............
Most men mistakenly believe that being able to regain their erection as soon as possible after ejaculation and reaching another climax within some arbitrary period of time qualifies as being multi-orgasmic. This is false because the true multi-orgasmic male does not lose his erection between orgasms. Multiple male orgasms include only orgasm and not ejaculation. The only exception being, when ejaculation accompanies the final orgasm in a multi-orgasmic experience.
I like to spiral higher and higher with each orgasm until the last one, which I consider to be my climax. There is no set number of prier orgasms that gets me there, sometimes a few, sometimes many. They can be like little tornado's that spiral up to one large one or just start off at the top, fast and hard. My partner will not be able to deny it when it happens.......It generally leaves us with a ..."shower".... so to speak, and me exhusted...... for a little while.
I prefer a partner who is compatible......... chemically, physiologically, and emotionally. It makes the sex fantastic. For me that is one of the things in life worth waiting for. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 10:12:28 AM | | I think making it last a little while is good, but not TOO long. I once had a session that lasted about five hours, but by the end we were tired, sore, etc and couldn't finished! I think it was just an off-night and there were other factors though... Usually I like to try and make it last maybe an hour, give or take; but once you're close to the edge, you just want to go! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 12:11:24 PM | I think sex is best when it changes up. There is absolutely nothing worse than knowing what to expect and when to expect it. This includes how long it will be, where it happens, etc etc etc.
Sex should be spontaneous. Sometimes its quick and sometimes it lasts longer.
I actually have made love with someone all night. It involved about 8 hours of touching, feeling, experimenting, with several orgasms for both of us over the duration. It was amazing. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 1:38:27 PM | | I think I have a problem sometimes. Usual time is atleast 2 hours but I've been known to go 9ish without getting 1 orgasm (mind you this is foreplay and the whole ordeal before I started penetration) and feel like I was in a car accident the next morning lol. Was gonna call the hotline for the medicine but realized I hadnt takin any >.> | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 1:59:28 PM | | ^^^9 hours? Either you consider gentle petting and kissing foreplay or you are a little delusional! Now, if you want to compare foreplay to actual penetration you need to go on a hand job or a blow job and solid for 9 hours! Some guys can't cum either way but I think most, even with problems, would peak eventually. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 2:17:47 PM | | I dont consider alot of the softcore stuff foreplay as much as I do a warm up for foreplay. Its a mental thing cause growin up I always heard about all these crappy performers and I wanted to be better than the rest , but mostly the 9 hrs is after a few drinks lol not like its an every time occurence. Delusional, nah, just hard headed lol | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 2:34:39 PM | My friend told me to try 'Red Bull. I went for 3 hrs. straight! She had multiple orgasms. I had to finish because they were buzzing us downstairs at the hotel to leave. But I still coulda kept goin..
My best friend told me recently, "You're an idiot you shoulda paid for more time!
I made a private mental note: In the future I'll take his advice. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:19:11 PM | Longer is better.... By far. You can build up all that cum and then "KAPOW!", you explode in conflagration of sheer pleasure as you finally get that much sort after release.
A really crazy, oversexed ex of mine (sigh... I sure miss her... even though she was nuts LOL!) and I sometimes had some wild all night sex sessions. She liked her toys so that helped to keep my endurance up. We'd try all sorts of positions and tricks, while making sure I didn't come too early (she on the other hand, just came and went as she pleased LOL!)... And then, when I just couldn't hold back no longer, I'd explode so that I could finally rest before going completely mad.
Saying that though... Quickies can be good too... Sure, the orgasms might not be as intense as in the long sessions... But sometimes it's nice to "just get on with it and explode". And if you're in tune with your women, a little tongue work (with perhaps 1 or 2 fingers) can quickly get them off too. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 4:37:08 PM | Deuce98 :
Now, if you want to compare foreplay to actual penetration you need to go on a hand job or a blow job and solid for 9 hours! Some guys can't cum either way but I think most, even with problems, would peak eventually.
I was taught a long time ago it is like riding a wave......Find the pressure points, the rythum......It's gonna happen. The fun is finding the clickiy thing that makes it work!..........Then Hello!..................
Tim1342:
but mostly the 9 hrs is after a few drinks lol not like its an every time occurrence. Delusional, nah, just hard headed
9 hours for me would be broken into many different faucets, like a dimond or a snow flake, or reflections in the ripples of water. For play is like the "beauty is the beholder" -and humor, taste and appetite, dancing. Only if the two are on the same page does it transform into forplay no matter what we are doing, oral, hand, kissing, clothes, roll play, chatty over berry picking?...........timeless. Being on each others plane is timeless. You make your own times.........BUT the " right time", could now be a wait?
Let everyone jump on me for that statement.........Once you have had It..makes it worth waiting for again, like.......LIFE? itself...........
Fantasy over past....it's all inclusive. We masturbate over the past lovers or thoughts that satisfied us, 60-75-90 percent of the time?....cus nothing YET takes that ones place........Selfish........I doubt it!
Stimulants can play a contributer or a hamper......BUT the real stuff is there with or without stimulants ( or I guess downers?)......arten't we amazing creatures?
Lucky we have conversation and don't just die off for a dysfunctional circumstance, like the more instinctual animals
Gotta love life......I do...It's amazing.........! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:08:29 PM | i was so used before.
if i ever keep it up for 2-3 hours again i better get a tennis bracelet for the hard work i put into the relationship. oops, that's for women. what could a guy want? sheeesh, guess i can't function in a relationship then, cuz sex should be given freely. my head is all mixed up.
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 4/24/2008 5:35:48 PM | The longest i have ever went is all night.Me and my ex girlfriend started at about 7:30 pm and didn't stop until 6:30 am and the only reason we stopped then is because she was starting to get raw.So yes it is possible to do it all night long,but you just have to watch out for the rawness to sneak up on ya. Now to the second part of your question:In your experiences is the best sex wham bam over in 10 minutes or making it last as long as humanly possible?
Answer: TO be honest its really has never been the length of time for me,its the emotion and involvement during the sexual intercourse. Someone who enjoys it and shows it either by expression or sound.
Now to add something else: Something that counts is the before and after actions.   | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/1/2008 11:59:28 AM | | three hours it takes mind control and you have to nkow what your doing how to change it up you have to be in shape to mess with me if not and you can go for three hours good for you.ten minutes wow your getting cheated. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/5/2008 4:23:16 AM | I am going to repeat myself.
I'm not going to shave my legs for less than 60 minutes. I want to be limp, spent, sweating and exhausted.
A quickie by necessity ever so often is acceptable but other than that - 60 minute man. Step up babe. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:04:33 AM | | in my opinion, making love all night is not all about being inside a woman, making love all night means that and more, touching, kissing, tasting, caressing, and so on, foreplay, during play and after play, making love is about the entire experiance.. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:44:07 AM | | I must be one of the few, my drive is huge. On my 1st "o" I can go anywhere from 30-45 min..then give me 5-10 min to catch my breath and Ill go at it again, and again ect..My last experience-she had 21 orgasms to my 3. I take pride in knowing what spots to hit | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/5/2008 12:57:33 PM | | this is a tricky one i can go all night not because im a good lover but i wa circumcised 2 years ago and they must have cut something because find it very difficult to orgasm some men would pay for this but im 50 now at 18 this would have been great lifes shit sometimes anyone else had this happened as for the question quick or lasting depends on the woman or the man who knows the answer | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/5/2008 4:21:58 PM | My "sex buddy" is awesome. Once a week for three hours. Not boring at all. He can last forever, while I squirt right along. I have never had a dull moment with him.  The longer it lasts the better. I end up tangle-haired and sweaty. Thank goodness he showers first cuz I can't move for about 10 minutes due to all the muscle twitching and spaghetti legs. 
Beso, Beso | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 5/6/2008 7:10:41 AM | | Well i think it depends if you are in the mood or not like if your not really in th emood and your partner is id say i like it quick but .... yet again a night long of ****ing is amazing like hours and hours on end of ****ing its great because your both sexually satisfied by then and you are able to both come out happy and after that you both get a good nights rest cuz your tired | |
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