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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:24:21 PM | When I first read "carrying protection" I thought for sure you meant a gun...haha.
Here I am thinking, why would a gun make you a whore?
Carrying a condom around...is IMHO a bit greasy...but if you have lots of random sex...who cares what people think...
Unfortunately I don't carry rubbers and have had to reject 2 or 3 oppotunities for some hot sex cause I had nothing on me...so I would suggest keeping one handy at all times, just incase. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:25:35 PM | | If carrying condoms makes you a whore then i guess i must be a whore too then! It's not bad, it's called being sensible...i ALWAYS carry one in my bag....and i aint even anywhere close to looking! Infact, it's probably past it's use by date by now! But there's plenty more where that came from anyway! I aint promiscuous, just very, very sensible!!! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:42:05 PM | from coytusmaximus'profile
If you have a vag that needs semen squirted into, contact me. First Date 1. Doorbell rings. 2. I open the door. 3. We fcuk. 4. I cum 4. You leave. 5. I drink beer, watch tv.
that is rude dude you need to edit or delete that..or admin will do it fo you!
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 2:02:09 AM | Hi. First of all, you are not a whore,what is a whore anyway? some word man make up,and it is very dis-respectful,when man should use it for him self who wants sex most all the time I see nothing wrong in protecting yourself from HIV, which Kills. you never know when you will have sex, so its best to have something on you to protect you from catching something you don't want. And if someone calls you a whore, ask him or her,did you have sex before you got marry?? and how many times?? have a good day all.  | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 2:02:48 AM | Just make sure you change them out every so often....cars, pockets, wallets...all get exposed to extreme temps. Not good for the rubber.
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I HATE it with a passion , when I recieve new information, on sites like these. The turkeys who have the nerve to preach and carry on about safe sex should be providing a total, public, information and and advice package into these matters.
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To this day I don't know if you can catch AIDS from gay bashing.
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I carry a swiss army knife. Does that make me a street thug? I swap stories with da boize on the strangest uses for comdoms and panty hose.
No firend. This is nothing.
Who called you a whore anyway. (Male or female for starters?) You put them onto this site and let them try calling you a whore, in front of the rest of us. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 3:56:18 AM | .. are we talking like, you leave it there in the jacket pocket when you hang it up.. for next time?
.. a wardrobe full of the things?
You can see how a girl who discovered this might think it a little odd.. perhaps just stash them at home, and nab one before you leave.. that wouldn't seem nearly so odd. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 6:15:20 AM | EtchedOut,
Carrying a condom around...is IMHO a bit greasy...but if you have lots of random sex...who cares what people think...
Does anyone else find this mildly disillusioned? What you have said is that it's ok for me to have lots of random sex but it's greasy that I carry condoms around to protect me! LOL
BachelorInBlue, and many others for that matter who have commented on the effectiveness of these condoms long-term, they don't stay in the coat long. If I'm going somewhere and know for certain or fairly well that its going to happen then I make sure the one in the coat gets used and I bring a couple more in case of encores if there's time or desire for it. So they really only sit in my jacket for a few weeks to a month at the most I'd say, and they are in a pocket by themselves usually so nothing can poke holes in them, except the exwife! LOL And no there isn't a wardrobe full of these jackets! I have two jackets that I wear during a season usually...a casual coat and a leather coat. The one coat doesn't get worn too often so when I need that extra pack for those nights when I know its going to happen I take the one from the other jacket to use it up. And actually since I had the first convo with the ex about this I've taken them out of my car and wallet too, as the wallet is bad and I knew that, and well as for the car I'm always in a jacket unless it's 30 above out, and I'll adjust then.
The reason I dno't just leave them in my drawer at home is I am a cluster**** when I go out usually. I live an hour from Winnipeg so I have to pack a bag and I get home later than most from work so the person I go into the city with is usually ready to go when I'm off. So this way I have no risk of forgetting and having to stop by a 7-Eleven and spend 4x the price!
Someone asked if it was male or female making the comments. They were female, and all in the presence of the ex when she brought it up. I don't think it was their actual views, just sort of supporting her by proxy. She still thinks its greasy. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 12:16:09 PM | deuce, You're confused and confusing ...as your merely starting this thread automatically led others here to respond to what's not a bad way to be if you let your 'woody' do your thinking and loving for you. To say that you don't care what others think, though, only supports the growing-collective hunch that you just might be an "attention-seeking ho". Self-esteem and arrogance are not the same.
I used to buy condoms on occasion, but only out of wishful thinking that one-size-fits-all, and that I could detach myself from negative consequences by merely putting a thin layer of latex between myself and who I cared to make love w/ at the time. I once met a girl at a friend's wedding, who despite how alluring and willing she was, turned me off to having sex w/ her via a rather noticeable glass jar full of yet-to-becondoms on a shelf above her bed. There was something to be 'said', and not for my confidence regarding this display.
I can say the same for your ex g/f ...and the light of the subject that she tries to make for your "overlapping" partners. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 12:38:16 PM | | Lonestar, I'm not confused, and you're confusing confident with arrogance, and not self-esteem. I can see your alarm when in a new woman's room and you spot a jar of condoms. I'm gentleman enough to keep them stored in my sock drawer underneath everything. And everyone is different in terms of their sexual morals. Some have to wait till marriage, some need to have an emotional bond, some are comfortable with or without a bond if there is an attraction to the person (this is where I fall), and some will just give it away to the highest bidder or the next in line, not caring really of the quality but rather the quantity perhaps. I guess some will see this analogy as me having below-average sexual morals, but I think of it as being comfortable in my sexuality. They say that no one is truly comfortable with sex and that there are always some sort of hangups. I think that's horsesh*t. I have matured over the years (yes I know, only 28) into the person I am today through a lot of trials and tribulations. I don't have a hardbody, my nickname isn't tripod and rightfully so, and I'm not the best looking guy or the most successful. But I don't think any of those things are required to be comfortable with who you are and what you are capable of, and why should sex be any different than making a presentation or closing a deal when it comes to what a person is comfortable with? I take it rather seriously, even though I don't scoff at the idea of sex on a first date. I'm respectful about it and very respectful of women. I think you may have more of an issue with the fact that some of us carry condoms for protection because of your obvious issue with them and their uses, and that is ok! You are entitled to your opinoin and your feelings. I don't "let my woody do my thinking and feeling" as you so eloquently put it. Read my profile. If I was an attention-seeking ho, why would I merely be looking for friends on here?! Are you going to imply now that I'm a new breed of stealth player, with a nice guy cover waiting to ransack the girl when she's not looking now?! I'm sick of people thinking that what you see is what you get is not really as it appears. There are many crazies out there, but I assure myself I am not one of them. I'd assure you but somehow I don't think that's enough for some! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 2:14:17 PM | | In my mind and heart I am divorced. Our relationship was virtually over three years ago. I can't move this divorce along any faster dude! Trust me, if I could and get all you naysayers off my back about having to wait to date people until AFTER I'm legally divorced, I would. But again (feel like I'm beating a dead horse repeating myself all the time on these forums and to others), in Canada you HAVE to be legally separated for a year before you can file for divorce! I can't change that. I can't go back and change my phone bill to show that I lived separate from her BEFORE may of 2007. Nothing I can do! Our divorce agreement is all written up and waiting for the end of may to deliver it to the courthouse for processing. It's uncontested on both ends. What more do I need to do to be worthy of moving on Metalvxxn?! Should I wait the year and a bit? That's mighty unfair! She's been seeing a guy very seriously since we split up. Why should I wait?! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 5:37:08 PM | Duece, I'm not confusing self-confidence and arrogance ...or implying that you are the latter. [You are doing just fine for showing your true colors w/ each additional post that you make here.] I'm absolutely sure now that you don't care what others might think for these ...or you'd have left this thread be after an earlier responder first mentioned her suspicions for this thread being attention-seeking.
You're a gentleman? I seem to recall something about your keeping condoms in each and all of your jackets, your car ...and in your wallet. Now you claim to you keep them hidden in your sock drawer. No, I'm not confused or changing my story, but you seem to be. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 6:33:42 PM | | I personally carry a condom with me in my purse where ever I go and I don't see anything wrong with that OR the idea of a man doing the same thing. In fact, I think that you're a very spart man to carry protection with you at all times because that means that you're prepared. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 6:39:09 PM | | lol...i think theres nothing wrong with be prepared...hell its better for u to have a condom on u that to just randomly have sex without one....i always keep one in my purse...lol..and hell ive had the same one in my purse for the last 3 of4 months...maybe more..its just a precaution ...no i dont plan on having random sex with a person either...but hell u never know when might need it...better safe than sorry..... | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 8:39:38 PM | I think you are being responsible, not a whore, unless you are charging money when you use the condoms then maybe you are are whore,???
I started giving my kids, (3 sons 2 daughters) condoms in their xmas stockings and keeping them stocked in the bathroom when they were teenagers, and starting to date; kind of made a joke of it with them, like "I don't want to be a gramma".. I think it is good to be prepared!! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 8:49:08 PM | | LOL Lonestardaddy, I'm not really sure how me owning condoms means I'm not a gentleman. You are making it sound like I've got them stashed all over my house now, and in a bunch of coats. I've said twice now that I keep TWO coats for each season out....a casual car coat and a leather coat. And in each jacket I keep 1 condom. I used to keep 1 in my car too in the summer as I often don't wear a coat in summer obviously, and also in my wallet, but I've removed teh wallet and car ones recently. THE REST, still following me, are in my sock drawer BESIDE my bed, where I think everyone keeps them! Standard protocol dude. I'm not sure why you're being so cynical about it. Do you have an issue with condoms? You seem to be a little bent out of shape over the idea of me having them. | |
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