| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 10:24:19 PM | | duece, I'm not bent out of shape for your being a good Boy Scout if/when it comes to your having safer sex w/ a stranger ...and/or girl who's not ready yet to be mother. If I seem cynical, it's due to your 'managing' to keep one more condom thread 'alive' ...adding to the many others here that didn't get deleted for being "redundant". Congratulations, dude, you're a 'daddy' now. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 10:34:12 PM | | Doesn't sound like the two things have much to do with one another. You're not a whore because you carry protection. You're a whore because you have sex with lots of different people whenever the opportunity presents itself. You are a smart whore because you carry protection. Bravo! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/2/2008 11:01:14 PM | carrying condoms makes people *smart* , not whores.
skanky behaviour makes people whores, period.
although it isn't smart to carry condoms in your wallet just for the heat/breakdown faster factor.
I do think it's kinda funny the way the OP put it though.... I have a condom in my wallet, in *EVERY* coat/jacket *AND* in my car, seems a lil great expecations dontcha think?
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/3/2008 8:04:51 AM | | hapeenurse, I met a realtor last year that had a fitting license plate for this type of conversation. It read AIM HIGH. Positivity is the key to life, isn't it?! LOL I don't mean that by having one in my coat when I leave teh house I intend to come back without it. But you never know who you meet along the way. What if you'd dated someone in the past and either did or did not sleep with them during the dates and suddenly you meet them at the gas station. Maybe they invite you over for a drink or to go grab dinner that evening and BAM you're into it suddenly. Why waste the mood by not having one? I don't go walking through the aisle at Superstore looking to score at every corner! LOL I just like to be prepared. You put your seatbelt on when you get in your car but don't anticipate an accident do you? And yes, heat in cars and friction in wallets damages condoms....bad idea. But I never said EVERY coat...again people jumping to conclusions or reading too quickly or not enough. I said each of my two coats I keep out. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/3/2008 11:12:43 AM | No I think your being a save person.
New Heaven's my father told me to do this cause you never know what that women has, and you don't want to get her pergent. Not that it will stop all of that but at least it saver.
I think your a good person for it.
I'm sure you dont go looking for sex(if you know what I mean) but if it does happen at least you have it.
I hate to say it but I think the women you must talk to or the one's given you crap about it, must not care about STD's or getting pregnet.
Well I allway's have one in my wallet's and if I had a car I would have a box of them cause man just don't want to run out. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 6:00:25 AM | Actualy.
If I've picked up a nice girl who wants to sleep with men that night.
And I suddenly found I havent got protection.
What does that make me?? Anyone like to take a guess????
Er...I'm guessing that it either makes you 1) very happy because you discovered that 'nice girls' carry condoms too, or 2) sexually frustrated because you refrained, or 3) a Daddy, or 4) a Daddy with an STD. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 6:26:33 AM | It doesn't, it makes you cautious and prepared. The women who complain about it might just be feeling a little insecure with the idea that you *might* actually find a use for those condoms - with someone else.
For the record, I carry a couple of condoms in my purse at all times too - though I usually just end up replacing them after they become too old to be considered safe anymore. But I've gotten the same reaction from people, implying or directly stating that I must be a whore to feel the need to carry condoms with me at all times.
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 6:50:09 AM | Psssst.... OP, I carry them in my wallet. Does that make me a hooker? No, it just means that I care that IF something were to happen, I'm prepared, even if the guy isn't. Although, I prolly should change that thing out..... it hasn't seen the light of day in a couple of years!  | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 11:55:22 AM |
Hopefully your son's carrying a condom is not a replacement for you teaching him right from wrong and explaining why he should wait before risking becoming a father. I am more comfortable with teaching kids morals and responsibility in life before responsibility in sex. 14 year olds don't need to be having sex. They need to concentrate on finishing grade school.
I quite agree. I have been having "the talk" with him since he was seven (he had older stepsiblings who *desperately* needed the "talk", so we sat them all down and talked to ALL of them. Every few months, I embarass the hell out of him with "the talk".
I have gone over the emotional benefits of not having sex with a girlfriend just yet and "saving himself" for someone he truly loves, etc. However, I am not niave nor foolish. I was not a virgin at his age and kids today are far more sexually aggressive then we were then. Girls are outrageous today! Therefore, I am not counting on him being a virgin until *I* am ready for him not to be (say, about 21 or so...) and while I will continue to reinforce the positives of waiting and the risks of sexual activity, I am not going to be foolish enough to believe that he will necessarily wait - I will make sure he has protection available should he choose to become sexually active. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 12:00:35 PM | My son is 14, still a virgin ...and I make him carry one with him at all times.
God save America's children from their liberal parents.
Yes, indeed, far better to put on the conservative blinders and pretend that teen pregnancy doesn't happen.
Got news for you - I am one of FEW parents (in my area) who talk candidly with their child about sex and prepare their teenager for sex... and yet, amazingly, my teen is one of the ONLY ones who has not had sex yet.
So, tell you what - you wear your blinders proudly and pretend that not preparing your teen for the realities of sex will keep him/her a virgin and when your teen becomes a parent before 17 and mine goes to college unfettered by an unplanned pregnancy, you can continue to pretend it works, ok?
Just like all those who believe (despite studies showing a dramatic increase in the rates of teen pregnancy) that Abstinence-only sex ed classes work. Woohoo, nothing like DENIAL. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 1:15:18 PM | Jayderaven, I LOVE how you say GIRLS are outrageous these days! LOL I don't know whether to attack or to laugh out loud! I think kids in general are outrageous. I think it's our fault as a society for becoming so liberal and at the same time so busy to not keep up on what kids are up to. I'm not blaming us in general, but the past few generations. I think boys are ridiculous! While girls get more promiscuous in high school generally speaking the boys get more eager and apply more pressure to said girls. It takes two, and if that's not the case the pitcher may become the catcher in prison someday if he continues his behaviour.
I'm curious why the words "desperate" and "optomistic" keep coming up here. Why does having a condom in your wallet or purse or whatnot make you desperate?! If someone pulls that condom out and plays with it at the table with strangers or friends alike, and says they wish they could put it to good use, or talks about how it's been there so long it's got it's own P.O. Box that to me might suggest desperation. I don't carry it and think that Im' going to have sex wherever I go! I just know how forgetful I am, and the last thing I want to do is head out on a date or to the bar and expect to have a good time and meet some people and NOT have one on me in the case that things go really well that night. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/8/2008 3:12:29 PM | | Dude you never carry them in your wallet! At least that's the consensus on here! I've changed my attitude towards that in previous months. And what is she doing reaching into my pockets in the first place on a first or second date? If we are that comfortable with each other to be fetching gum or lipsyl out of each other's bags or jackets then we've likely already HAD sex and it really isn't going to matter if she finds the condom now, is it? And I think most women, and based on the comments this question has received on here I don't think that statement is that far fetched, would be ok or better with the idea of the guy carrying protection. It says he's prepared and is willing to practice safe sex. It says he's concerned about his and hopefully her safety and about preventing unwanted pregnancies. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/10/2008 8:15:15 PM | | Well it is a double standard, if a girl pulled out a package of condoms she would be considered to be a whore. You are a gentleman for thinking of something that might make a lady feel uncomfortable with, and if you didnt have it, and could not resisit the temptation, the expression "Whose Your Daddy", may follow you for a long time. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/10/2008 8:27:57 PM | You're only a whore if you charge.
If you are giving it away for free, that just makes you a slut.
JUST KIDDING
Oh wait. OMG. You are a GUY??????
Wow, then you are merely politically correct and have a great deal of concern for the stoppage of STD's, pregnancy prevention, and you must be one hell of a good lay to have THAT much need for condoms at all times.
Can you please send me your phone number?
JUST KIDDING
P.S. You are..............CUTE. Here's your pink armband..................... | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 1/10/2008 9:00:53 PM | What's a pink armband for? That won't attract the homosexuals bc I seem to have that disease already! And I don't wear pink to begin with so ADDING pink is only going to make mattes worse! LOL
I think it's really unfair that a guy can do some of these things but a woman who does it is deemed socially despicable. | |
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so good on you for taking responsibility.....and no it dnt make you a whore.....
