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 Nergal

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 151
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/2/2008 9:58:10 AM
You can only do as much as you can to protect yourself ... if you spend all your time worrying about catching AIDS then when are you going to have fun .. get a pack of condoms and get a life ...
 The Ace in the Hole

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 152
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/2/2008 10:43:39 AM
Exactly Nergal. Borucai Papi, 9.9%?! That must be a statistic right?! Geez, I'm tired of hearing all these bogus statistics. If I walked through a burn unit at the local hospital and asked all the patients on the floor how many of them have ever had a severe flesh burn I bet I'd get a high figure as well. I'd like a research study to go through the death records for the past 100 years and find out how many heterosexual people in Canada or the United States contracted an STI or HIV over their lifespan and report that figure back to us.
 Boricua Papi

Joined: 10/8/2007
Msg: 153
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/2/2008 1:43:12 PM
Nergal,

I have a life, and it is not going around and having sex with any woman I find on the streets. I'm more smart than that, and yes, I have my fun too!
 cjack2003

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 154
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/17/2008 11:41:47 AM
It just depends on someone's view about the issue. Me...I would rather have one and not need it, than need one and not have it. They say practice safe sex right? Well...if it comes to that, I'll have protection on stand by.
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 155
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/17/2008 12:16:47 PM

I have a life, and it is not going around and having sex with any woman I find on the streets. I'm more smart than that, and yes, I have my fun too!


boricua papi---It sounds as though you and Deuce on are the same page as far as life style goes...so why aren't you in agreement with carrying the condoms?

Deuce....I carry condoms (most of the time) and leave a few in my car. Like Garnet said, I've had occassions where my g/f's would need one (in case their partner didn't have one) and I don't see why that would make me a 'whore' either. If anyone's ever read the threads where I'm called the Virgin Mary, Puritanical or whatever (for my belief that casual sex is not for me) this may as come as a surprise......

Even when I was in a new relationship-we didn't always have sex just in the house. Ever been out on a romantic picnic and not had a condom? Or a cozy night on the beach? If no one carries them-what good are they when they're needed?

Boy Scout Motto - Always Be Prepared - Though I don't think it originated for the purpose of condoms.

HR
 HulaH

Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 156
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/17/2008 1:13:18 PM
I carry it with me because you just never know where you might be when you get that all of a sudden urge to get it on. That doesn't make me a whore.

In reality.. I'm a walking drug store who has everything her friends need in desperate times.
 floridianfun

Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 157
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:04:10 PM
It makes you smart, sometimes things happen, and if your protecting yourself and the other person good for you
 HazelGreen77

Joined: 4/16/2008
Msg: 158
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:09:31 PM
i personaly think your doing a GREAT thing.. your looking out for yourself and for the person your about to bang.. i mean hell you dont know when its gunna happen! maybe the ex and your friends that are girls are just mad that they dont get to hit it with you!
 peregrinate

Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 159
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 7:09:34 PM
When I was a teenager, my dad told me I needed to start carrying protection.

So I bought a pocket knife.
 Lick it Up

Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 160
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 10:55:56 PM
It's better to have it and not need it, then to need it and not have it.

 Marius66

Joined: 12/28/2007
Msg: 161
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/5/2008 11:42:06 PM

Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!


I didn't know carrying mace made you are whore......unless you used it on your clients, so they couldn't stiff you.....ummm you know what I mean
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 162
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/6/2008 8:51:25 AM
First off, the odds of getting an STI from someone who has been tested, found they have an STI and informed you, are 0%.
The odds of getting an STI off a woman who will sleep with a guy within minutes or hours of metting him are probably a lot higher. Afterall, the odds are you're not the first guy she's done that with in her life. (Possibly not even the first that week) I've dated enough women that I get suspicious as soon as I hear a line like "Oh, I'm not usually like this...." Then later on you find out that well, yes, she was....
I don't carry condoms because:

A: I don't expect first date sex. Yes it can happen, but then it's not the 'end of the world' to do without it either. Oddly enough AIDS is the 'end of the world'.

B: Condoms can and do break. The seat belt analogy is good until you realise that Seat belts don't have a % of breakage and failures....

C: Condoms have a limited shelf life and should be treated with care. If they just came out of a wallet, or a purse, or a glove compartment, they're probably not reliable anyway. (From an STI website: Condoms should be stored at room temperature away from sunlight. Extreme heat harms condoms, so if you keep them in a purse, wallet or glove compartment replace them after a few weeks. )

D: Condoms do not protect you against... HPV, Gonorrhea, Herpes, Scabies, Pubic Lice These are spread by skin to skin contact, and there are others.

If you rely on condoms for safety, then do you use them for Oral sex too? Most people don't. It's ridiculous, the woman putting it in her mouth without a condom, then insisting on wanting one for intercourse????
At least with STI testing, and being with someone you've developed a relationship with, you have a better chance.

Finally, I konw a woman who was a swinger. She and her partner had used condoms regularly and carefully the whole time they were swinging but not with each other. She got Hep-C and HPV and has irregular Pap smears and now worries about Cervical cancer. After they separated, her ex, got HIV. Again while using condoms...
He won't be around much longer as he now has full blown AIDS....
 SheKnowsWhatSheNeeds

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 163
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:17:22 PM
It's smart to carry protection with you as long as it's in a good place to prevent breakdown and damage. I often carry condoms around with me, just in case. It doesn't make me a slut or whore, just a smart, informed chick.
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 164
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/7/2008 6:14:28 PM
Let them think and say what they want as long as they spell your name right. All that hypocritical holier-than-thou bullcrap really makes me nauseated. Some of the women who will down you for this have seen more cream than a fukking dairy, probably without a condom.
 RetiringIn5yrs

Joined: 12/20/2007
Msg: 165
Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/7/2008 7:08:46 PM
Well I think thas a smart thing to do. I wouldn't have sex with some one without a condom. In the past I have had a few opportunities and I walked away because I don't want to have a few hrs of fun and regret it for the rest of my life. Just keep changing them often because the temperature and other factors destroy the rubber. So always good to change them if you have not used them lol in either case change is GOOOOOD lol .
 charmed2008

Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 166
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Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/7/2008 8:38:38 PM
I don't think that carrying protection with you at all times makes you a whore. It makes you an opportunist.
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