| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/30/2009 11:36:23 AM | well, i don't know about differences of opinion, but i used to have an entire roll of condoms right under my mattress, under the pillow, that side - god knows that if things get heated, they better be close or i know for myself i see red before my eyes and might not make it to the night stand, too far to reach when ur hormones are raging.
i don't trust the nightstand.
i used to have a roll of condoms in my car too. i knew, no matter what happens, if i find something irresistible, i can always run to the car and slip few in my purse if am feeling signs of 'danger'
i can see, though, why it would make a woman uncertain w u having them in all pockets. they r worried u r looking towards the outside and not to the right where she is - women worry that while u r sexually active w them u r constantly seeking more w others. it's the feelings of uncertainty that gives that makes a woman see that as negative, they are situational negative feelings, not per se. i'd consider keeping them in key spots, for efficiency purposes - if it is a problem w ur dates, why not ease their minds if u can, makes for a better date? just food for thought.
i say keep condoms in bed and car, but if u do want them in 15 pockets too, why not, i'm worried about those who dont carry any, not those that do, honestly
plus, a man that's so into sex is a good thing, there r plenty asexual men, at least i know this one has a healthy sex drive, that's what would go thru my head... lolol... 'ok, this one would hang in there for 3-4 times for sure, just from the number of condoms everywhere...'...
gimme a freak and lemme rip that bottled-upness apart, that's what i pray for...
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 3/31/2009 1:20:52 PM | I think it is just you carrying something because you never know. Women can get laid anytime they want, small percentage do not fit this bill. A man has to be prepared because it just does not come around that easily.
How many times have you been with a woman without a condom and horny as hell? You go to the drug store, wait another night, etc. Then you are greeted with I can't do this or lets wait. In my cases it has been the woman who started the engine.
Nothing worse than leaving and having trouble walking. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/1/2009 3:11:26 AM | 
The Ace in the Hole With a name like that, and a post like this; tell me this wasn't a fishing expedition, 
If you're IN a relationship; I'm wondering myself WHY you would stock condoms everyplace you might consider traveling in the forseeable future. If you're NOT in a relationship, what are you doing, putting a blue light special beacon on these things? HOW does EVERYONE know you have condoms everywhere? Do you get in the car with your date, lean over and check the glove box, and say, "Yep, condoms in place"; then pat your chest, open your coat, and look in your inside pocket, "Yep condoms in place, we can go now." or "Hey dear, thanks for picking my stuff up at the cleaners; now I just need to stock all my coats with condoms, and they'll be ready to hang up."  Work with me dude; lots of people carry condoms; but people who aren't going to help us them usually don't see them.  | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/1/2009 6:25:41 PM | I am responding to posting message #13 here. You have your 14 year old son carry a condom. That is saying " go ahead , have sex" .Are you crazy?
What ever happened to letting kids be kids ( that includes not being sexually active). My sons are 9 and 11 and I have urged ( almost ordered) them not to have sex until they are married. I am trying to raise them to be Christian gentlemen, which means they know what is right and what is wrong. In my opinion, you are short changing your son by making the option of having sex acceptable.
I hope his father is in the picture and lets him know that this attitude is not acceptable.
You have forgotten one fact --- 14 year old children should still be virgins. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/2/2009 2:49:12 AM | ^^^^^^ This post is so stupid it's scary!
You have your 14 year old son carry a condom. That is saying " go ahead , have sex" .Are you crazy? NO, idiot it's saying "while I may not want you to have sex; I'M NOT STUPID ENOUGH to believe that, at this point in your life, my opinion is actually going to stop you from doing something you want to do anyway; and I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, that I would MUCH RATHER you NOT catch a disease that could KILL you, or father a child."
My sons are 9 and 11 and I have urged ( almost ordered) them not to have sex until they are married. Are you STUPID ENOUGH to believe for a second that that might actually stop them? Are you willing to bet the lives of your children on it; or the lives of your grandchildren? IF your children happen to have sex WITHOUT a condom, they could catch a disease that will KILL them!!!! YOU are WILLING to RISK THAT? You realize, of course, that IF they DO get a girl pregnant, it will be with YOUR GRANDCHILD!
In my opinion, you are short changing your son by making the option of having sex acceptable. And YOU are gambling your childrens LIVES! I assume that this means that your children have NEVER been in trouble; that they have NEVER disobeyed you; and that they have NEVER made a silly or irrational decision. Because if ANY of these things have EVER happened, it is absolute irrefutable PROOF that your children MIGHT not do as you have "almost ordered" them to do; and if they DO that WITHOUT proper knowledge, instruction, and access to CONDOMS, they could risk an outcome that could alter their lives. All because YOU ARE TOO SELFISH, AND SELF CENTERED TO BELIEVE THAT SOMEONE MIGHT HAVE TO LEARN SOMETHING ON THEIR OWN!!!
You have forgotten one fact --- 14 year old children should still be virgins. You used the magic word, "should". But what if they aren't? Should they die? or be made to alter their lives to raise an unwanted child? People who ride motorcycles don't wear helmets because they WANT to wreck; or because they WILL wreck; they wear helmets because they MIGHT wreck; and they want to be able to walk away from the wreck without dying, or being crippled. By the time your children are 14 you have already instilled in them all the moral, and decision making capabilities you are capable of instilling in them. We ALL learned a great deal in life by making the wrong choices. Don't you want your children to be able to survive, and walk away from something if they also happen to make a bed decision; just like everyone else. Over 50% of 17 year olds have had sex at least once. THAT'S the SAME ODDS AS FLIPPING A COIN!!! Would you flip a coin, if the wrong call meant destoying your childs life? Because that's EXACTLY what you are doing.
Please don't get me wrong; I am 100% supportive of you with your goals of raising your children. But, if they make a mistake, I'd rather they not pay for it by destroying their lives. | |
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| Why make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 1:49:56 PM | | I;m praying for the same things, but want a girl I can keep so we can go bareback from the first time and feel comfortable that we will never need to use condoms ever again, including the 3rd and 4th time that night or the 30th or 0th year after the first time. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:25:29 PM | | it doesn't it makes you a safe person who is being responsible for having sex! Your preventing yourself from getting infected or infecting others! Yeah sex feels good without it but i would rather have a guy that carries condoms then none at all. That way i know that we are both safe! trust me take my advice. unless your going to marry it use a condom! Because an STD can last as long as a marriage can... A lifetime! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:29:13 PM | Scarlet Marie:
Kids should be virgins at 14 but they aren't, some of them anyway. I had a friend who gave birth at 10 and a half years old and the father of that baby was 13!!!! Kids are having kids everywhere. It's not right but they do it. People have got to stop giving their kids too,too much freedom and make sure they are being supervised at all times. I was 16 when I first got pregnant and at 5 months pregnancy lost my baby. I forced myself to grow up quick and passed through a tragedy at the same time. And you want to know something else? My parents never knew I was pregnant until I lost my baby. Kids are good at hiding things and will let you know when it is too late. I was a good student and got good grades in school so that let their guard down. I was fooling around with my boyfriend who was also 16 and we got ourselves busted for it. I never gave my parents a reason to doubt me and my freedom until I got myself into 'trouble'. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:47:12 PM | If I didn't have one and the opportunity presented itself I'd walk away from the sex, and that would be a travesty!
First, do you really think it's a "travesty", missing an opportunity to have sex? If you do think so, are you certain what the word "travesty" means?
I'm covered on all bases? I don't carry a value pack of jimmy hats on my persons or anything! No Stiffler packs in my wallet. Just a single in every inside coat pocket, in my wallet, and in my glove box. Tell me if I'm wrong here.
Second, your statments trivialize sex! You make it out like having condoms is what every good boy scout should have. Be Prepared! Are you looking for a BSA badge for having condoms always at the ready?
Tell me if I'm wrong here.
You are not wrong, but arrogant, immature, childish, and sophmoric are better terms to describe this whole fantasy that you are living within.
I don't give a shit what other's think! I'm confident and have high self-esteem. I wouldn't say I have random sex.
If you don't give a shit, why bother posting this infantile thread? Did you expect people to say that you are being a responsible adult? If you truly had "high self-esteem", why would you even think about having condoms always at the ready? If sex was so available to you, you would not concern yourself with when and lost opportunity. It would purley happen when it was right for both you, and the poor women who think that you are a hell of a guy!
My question to you is, in your place of work, in your home, or where ever it is that you find yourself and slither around in, do you insist on having an emergency condom despensor? You know the type, the red metal box on the wall, with a little hammer on the side, and a glass panel on the front that says, "Break Glass In Case Of An Opportunity to Get Laid" | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:38:56 PM | I am laughing not at the post but at the fact that I thought this was a woman who posted this at first and at myself for having a spark of bias.
My mind started to ask the question... what would the responces have been if it had been a woman poster?
I'm having a moment. Don't mind me. Spent to much time in these forums today. LOL  | |
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Posted: 4/22/2009 10:27:31 PM | why are you only carrying one condom in your coat pockets? what if it breaks or you try putting it on backwards the first try... gotta be smarter, carry two or three.
When I'm in a relationship my glovebox in every truck has several... then you can grab one at your convenience, i'm thinking if i carried them all the time I'd go to buy gas and hand the clerk my card, they'd look at me while holding a condom and say I'm sorry sir we don't accept this type of payment.
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/22/2009 11:09:35 PM | You are taking responsibility for your life. That is smart. You never know when you might get into a situation where the guy doesn't have one and part of you really wants him and your desire moves you to a place of undesirability...pregnancy or worse an STD. Besides, you couldn't possible truly enjoy the act of sex without reservations if you don't have one. Remember, we women are more mental than physical so it can ruin an otherwise perfect opportunity to enjoy yourself.
I intend to keep one on me for the rest of my life even if never have sex again....cuz girl...you never know.
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/23/2009 9:22:01 AM | It does not make you a whore it marks you out as a person who cares about them self and the health of the other person, you have thought about the possible situations you may find your self in and have taken resonable steps to protect your self and any possible partner.
You dont walk into your local pub or bar with it pinned to your dress or top, so only the person who you are going to have sex with will know you have a condom! | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/23/2009 3:47:46 PM | When I was in high school, I used to carry condoms in my backpack... and I kept having trouble with them breaking (3 trips to get the morning after pill with my girlfriend). The problem... I live in a cold country and the condoms were freezing and thawing, freezing and thawing...
Be careful that you are not ending up with substandard goods. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/23/2009 3:57:40 PM | | You are being cautious just in case! Makes sense to me. We all want to think we would have morals, but when you both are hittin it off and you are both gettin hot and heavy...well things happen sometimes because afterall we are human, and sometimes we just go with it. So always good to be safe than sorry. | |
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