| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/23/2009 4:17:01 PM | ~OP~ There's nothing wrong with what you choose to do. It's much better than risky behaviors.  (And if you saw Must Love Dogs, it can be a real nightmare/mood-killer to try to find an open store that stocks condoms right at the very moment you may need one.) 
<div class="quote">What ever happened to letting kids be kids ( that includes not being sexually active).
Most "kids" today are not kids for very long. This is "the world we live in today" not "the fantasy world I want my kids to live in."
<div class="quote">My sons are 9 and 11 and I have urged ( almost ordered) them not to have sex until they are married.
Well, good luck with that. I assume you're probably a Sarah Palin fan ~ take a quick lesson from her "family values" success story.
<div class="quote">I am trying to raise them to be Christian gentlemen, which means they know what is right and what is wrong. In my opinion, you are short changing your son by making the option of having sex acceptable.
And you very well may be shortchanging your's by not giving it to them straight-up.
<div class="quote">I hope his father is in the picture and lets him know that this attitude is not acceptable.
HUH? Paaaaahlease. A good woman is just as positive in a child's life as a good man.
<div class="quote">You have forgotten one fact --- 14 year old children should still be virgins.
Yep. And 14 year olds shouldn't do meth. They shouldn't steal. They shouldn't cheat on tests. They shouldn't talk back to their elders. They shouldn't sneaky-peeky at porn. Etc., etc., etc. There are a LOT of things a LOT of people in general shouldn't do ~ that doesn't mean they don't. JMO  | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/24/2009 7:52:50 AM | Oh. Don't get me wrong...
I never leave home with out them. I was just mocking my own sillyness for having made an assumption...
I'm a silly but confident person so when I catch myself doing something like making assumptions I call myself out on it... and I am not bashful, doesn't bother me that others know... We are all human...
Back to condums issue... Condums are so important to me that I use them dispite my allergy to them. (Latex) Thankfully it is only a mild allergy, meaning it takes a few hours of contact to become an issue.
Sex with one person is better, but when that is not the situation... condum time with a close friend or two... (not at same time... although I have in my youth... lol) | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/24/2009 12:26:12 PM | | The real question to my way of thinking is why do these people even need to know that you do this? I mean provided you are keeping the condom(s) somewhere smart and not, say, sitting clearly on the dashboard of your vehicle, there is no need for this drama. Now if you *do* slap a condom down on the table randomly in front of someone without having had some discussion about having sex then yes, that is indeed a different story. Anyway, thats my take on it. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/24/2009 1:30:57 PM | I know my sons are not perfect. Yes, they make mistakes. But I know who their friends are and what they are up to most of the time. I have talked to them about the importance of not having sex until they are married, just in case a child is the result. My middle son passed away at birth with a heart defect. My sons could carry the genes for the same thing to be passed down to their kids. So they know that the possibility of having a child with similar issues. They know they need to be in a good situation ( having a good job, insurance, etc) before they even risk becoming fathers.
And yes I am a Republican and proud of it. If you bothered to read my profile you would have figured that out. I am not close minded about things that are optional. But on certain issues, my sons know right from wrong. Some parents have forgotten that you are their kid's parent first, not their friend. Today's society is too liberal and everything is expected to be approached with a politically correct attitude. NOT
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/25/2009 9:43:42 PM | ^^^^ it was the glow in the dark kind wasn't it??? 
OP from over a year ago... doesn't make ya a whore carrying protection...ffs, it's 2009, honor thy temple and honor thy johnson with a lil condom (extra large for those egos).... besides, look around... do you really want to be doing weekend visits a few years down the road with what you thought was Vin after a few  's.... wrap that rascal  | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 4/26/2009 5:08:04 PM | What are you saying??? Are they REALLY friends??? No two people are the same. What works for one may not be for another. Let them think what they like.
Ask them the question.....DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND CARRY CONDOMS?? See what replies you get.
Its nice to know that there are women out there who enjoy sex and prepare for it...whenever and wherever it may happen. I just wish that you were in my town.
I could go on..but ..its a forum..If you want to chat more let me know. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/31/2009 4:15:26 AM | if you meet someone for a date and you are getting al the signals right,
what's worse:
1) they find out you have a condom in your wallet/purse;
2) you get down to your boxershorts/knickers and neither of you has condoms.
A man with condies doesn't make him a sex pest;
a woman with condies doesn't make her a sex pest.
Perhaps try not to wear them round your neck on a string... that's all... :-) | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 5/31/2009 1:23:08 PM | Every time I get in my car… I put on my seatbelt..
I am not planning to have an accident but just in case.
I would rather be as safe as I can.
It NOT only protects YOU
But it also protects ME……
remember..
Someone who doesn’t protect themselves … will NOT care if they protect you..
Your protection is always left ……simply up to you..
Safe sex can be worth the cover... | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:32:55 PM | It doesn't, it makes you smart about protecting yourself in a world where far too many people are free with sexual intercourse. I had the talk with my sons when they were very young and I STRESSED that they must protect themselves and the girl they are with at all times and to this day they do. There is nothing wrong with a woman doing the very same thing. As a matter of fact I do the very same thing and not only that but I have myself tested on a regular basis. In addition, if I hook up with someone new and there is even the remotest possibility of any type of sexual intercourse I insist that they are tested too before I will even allow them to touch me.
Love yourself first by being safe. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:39:16 PM |
Every time I get in my car… I put on my seatbelt..
I am not planning to have an accident but just in case.
I would rather be as safe as I can.
It NOT only protects YOU
But it also protects ME……
Comparing seat belts to condoms?
The analogy is flawed... it would only work if you carried a seat belt(s) in case you meet someone who had a car without seat belts that you chose to go for a ride with.... and not asking to see the paperwork that proves he/she is a "safe" driver...
Aside from that, you cannot choose to have or not have an accident, one assumes you can choose to have sex or not.... | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 7/23/2009 5:11:09 PM |
Not only my ex but a few of my female friends have commented that the fact that I carry a condom in every one of my jackets and my wallet and my car is disgusting and that I am shaming myself because of it.
Isn't the Girl Guide motto Be Prepared? There's no shame in being prepared.
If I didn't have one and the opportunity presented itself I'd walk away from the sex, and that would be a travesty!
I don't think it's the fact that you carry condoms that makes your friends view you as a whore, that's very responsible, but more the fact that you view missing an opportunity with a random stranger to be a travesty. | |
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| Why does carrying protection on my person at all times make me a whore?!
Posted: 7/24/2009 8:52:45 AM | That does not make you a whore.. I have several in my purse..I have no intentions or hopes of having sex.. I give them out in bars and dance clubs when I see people hooking up with complete strangers.. Its called being Smart.. So tell them where they can go.. At least you are taking steps to protect yourself from STD's and such.. WTG!  Now if all people were that smart.. | |
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