| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:30:03 PM | | Well. I read her other thread.... You are a sick person. You profile proves it. Your a very shallow and sick person. I have had very near and dear friends suffer in this way. And now for someone to but something like this up in a "study". Well honestly it just makes me sick...... | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:32:36 PM | You need professional help, OP. You were a victim of child abuse. Go sign up for counselling/therapy.
Unfortunately until you deal with this and take it as seriously as it appears to be it'll remain inside of your emotional body. You're right to be angry but you're releasing this in the wrong place - you'll get a mixed bag of responses on here.
I'm 47 and I'm still learning about the me that was me when I was 19 so how's a 15 year old supposed to have it all figured out? You need to be brave mate and go work with your demons for a while, with support, and you'll come out shining on the other side.
Do that now and you'll be saving yourself another 20 years of heartache. That loving gal inside has pulled back from the pain the body's feeling and you need to go work through it.
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:35:23 PM | ~Tis You missing the point~ NO?
Reread question.
~How would you feel if it was YOUR daughter?~
As in MY daughter. Not anyone ~else's~ daughter, but MY daughter.
MY daughter~the girl in question~ (the girl about whom zee question was asked) has someone to tell lies to. Plenty of Lies to be told~should she choooose to tell lies. In zee case of ~MY~ daughter - *the girl about whom this query was made*- the point is ~she knows that deceit is immoral~.
~Perhaps other people's daughters do not have some one to tell lies to~
~But MY daughter does~
And zat was zee question - NO? You may reread question at your own leisure.
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:41:43 PM | Please....You have been so damaged, and is not your fault. You can recover from this!
Ignor those who have no empathy, their future is bleak, and they lack compassion or understanding. Please talk to someone who can help you understand what has happened. You will be in my thoughts...there is always hope...hang on!
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:44:03 PM | Ok...this disturbs me. She said:
("I've been licking my wounds for years now...but the venom sinks deeper and deeper...")
Years? She was with him 4 years...that would take her to 19..she's 20 now...so does that mean it started when she was 11 and ended when she was 15?
If this is the case then this needs to be handled sensitively and not in some dating forum! You guys have already shown your complete lack of compassion...but that is a big red warning flag for all those potential dates, so not a bad thing! Child abuse has nothing to do with "bad kids".or "morals"..this is NOT her fault!....you should all go hang your heads in shame!!! | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:47:39 PM | ^^^^The OP admitted (in a now deleted thread) that this story was fiction.
She did it to guage people's reaction for a "study" she was doing. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:53:48 PM | | Well, in that case (if that is indeed the case), that is a very horrible and sick thing for her to do...and i don't think we should give her anymore ammunition...or material for her study...but the OP deserves our sypathy because she's obviously not a very well person to make up such stories... whatever her justification for doing so. She is (allegedly) making light of a very serious issue and should be ashamed!!! | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:23:35 PM | | zi persoanally have been waranted some relief and understand by reading this all...rats dont know they are study but serve much purpose. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:31:09 PM | There are a lot of really disturbed people out there, whatever their background or reasons. But child abuse is not something to be taken lightly, it happens more often than we might want to admit. Some people just do not have parenting skills, period, but by the time it becomes evident, it may be too late. They should be denied any contact with children until they get help, and their victims get into a safe environment. Only then can the problems be dealt with, but too often it just doesn't happen.
For OP to start this kind of a thread, there is more to the story than what we are being told, but I doubt that posting it on here is going to be much benefit. 
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 10:49:49 PM | | WTF? I have to agree with the prior message. What were you thinking?!? Go to a self help group or something . Stay the Hell of these sites. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 11:17:51 PM | | My goodness 'little girl' you really shouldn't be playing in the adults realm, go and play with your Barbie dolls; you are obviously still very much a child inside the developing body. Just kiss the boys and run away with a giggle. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 11:20:21 PM | | elle dont let this man get to you like this hes obviously a selfish person who doesnt care about anyone else but himself your so young you have your whole life ahead of you and you will meet the right man one day and u will be happy so just try not let this get to you so much and try to move on with someone that can treat you properly.if u need to talk to someone my name is rachel and my email address is knightsrule_@hotmail.com ok elle try to take it easy and dont get too strung out about this stupid male ok lots of love feel free to contact me anytime | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 11:23:00 PM | prescient
My daughter has enough morals to ensure that something like this would never happen to her.
Dear Gawd "prescient ".... Morals have naff all to do with this situation when you are young and vunrable... I really think you should take that back and pray to gawd that you child does not experience the hand of a sexual preditor! Karma is a nasty thing you know when thats what you dish out !
DONT BE SO ALL HIGH AND MIGHTY !
OP I think the only way you are going to get any closure on this is to seek therapy and to forgive yourself by realizing you were just in fact a kid and vunrable :) good luck sweety! | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/1/2008 11:54:04 PM | At 15 you were a child, were you? Country music star Loretta Lynn had her first child at the age of 14. By age 17, she had *four* children of her own. She was a grandmother by the age of 29....
These days though, everyone's a victim... Damned sheltered kids and their round bubbly plastic toys, safety padding, no sharp corners anywhere... you get one little owwie and it's the end of the freakin' world. Pull your head out of your own spoiled little self centered ass for one second and consider the fact that real children half your age are starving to death in sub-saharan Africa. Whaaaanh waaaaannnnnh!!!  My boyfwind bwoke up wit me!! I can't go on!!
Grow up. You're problems are miniscule.
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 5:27:29 AM | HELLO???? This is a fake post, the OP has admitted to such in another thread. Will someone please delet this s**T, so that others don't waste their time feeling sorry for a hypothetical "study" ?
PATHETIC. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 5:59:53 AM | OP you are responsible the next time:
- a Real Victim is not heard or believed - YOU have created an air of mistrust in those who would normally be sympathetic and helpful. Now (because of You), there will be more skepticism and mistrust shown for someone who REALLY has been devastated by an abusive adult. Shame shame.
- YOU have created yet another 'excuse' for women haters to bash us more
- You have made it Unsafe for a Child to speak out about their abuser. Yes - you have.
I have Always maintained that Anyone who falsely accuses Anyone of Any kind of abuse should be charged for that accusation. It is too bad the law doesnt take care of people like this op.
For anyone who missed the now deleted thread - I read it. This OP admitted that she created this fictional story just to see what "our" reactions would be. I hope no one else falls for this crap. And I hope this Child is removed from this Adult Site.
JMHO
A.S.is
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 6:26:37 AM | WOW THAT IS SICK !!!! BUT I STILL DONT TAKE BACK WHAT I SAID TO THAT GUY
AS FOR OP... I hope you realize the numbers are as high as 90% for sexual violated girls/women !!! and now I feel violated by you! how could I be so vunrable as to think someone would reach out with hurt and anger !?!
I HOPE AND PRAY THAT THIS IS NOT SOMETHING YOU HAVE EVER SUFFERED AND HAD TO LIVE THROUGH ! YOU ARE INDEED A VERY SICK B1TCH! | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:35:31 AM | Elle,
I read your "explanation" for why you created this fictitious thread. You were, for totally scientific purposes, conducting an "experiment" to see how people would react.
You confirm my belief that most human being are idiotic asses.
When I first read your posting, my first instinct was to write something along the lines of "hey, that's life, overly dramatic, whiny girl," but I conquered my tendencies to be blunt and tried to answer in a way that was kind--on the off chance that you were truly on the level.
Now, I regret my kindness because you are not worthy of it; nor are you worthy of any of the other kind comments that people wrote in an effort to help you.
You are the epitome of the hated drama queen, and give honest drama queens such as myself a bad name. You are the epitome of the person who clamors to be the center of attention; you are not interesting enough to grab it on your own merits, so you make things up. If it had been a fantastical story that you made up, sheer hyperbole and funny, that would have been one thing, but you touched upon a subject near and dear to the hearts of caring people. You picked a topic that, like rape, should never be treated lightly or used for an "experiment."
I can only hope that you will be bounced from an adult site. My advice for you now is to go play in traffic, little girl. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:42:53 AM | | Why?, i wonder, was she even conducting this so called "experiment?" She isn't a psychologist or a social worker...she doesn't say what she studies? Very odd? I have studied BOTH and it has never entailed me to carry out something like this! Why was the OP so desperate for our attention that she would write something like this? Was she really abused? I don't know, but all i know is NO psychologist would deem such an experiment valid...it's HIGHLY unethical and lacking in all kinds off validity! She didn't do this for any kind of experiment, that i know!!! | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 9:44:40 AM | OP, now look what you've gone and done.
Not only have you damaged your credibility, you have compromised the position of people who are genuinely hurt (as many posters have pointed out). On top of that, you've made things a lot more difficult for women who fabricate stories to garner attention or falsely accuse. Shame on you.
All is not lost, however.
Simply start yet another thread about how this REALLY happened to you, and how you got scared by the mean people who did not post favourable responses. This will work wonders. You will be welcomed once more by the yaya sisterhood of the stationary sweatpants for some more tea and sympathy. The POF mangina tabernachal choir will once again be singing your praises. You will be able to relish the sweet familiar sensation of false victimhood in a more acute setting, that of a double-victim. One who wasn't believed.
Hurry, time's running out. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 10:50:29 AM |
^^^^The OP admitted (in a now deleted thread) that this story was fiction.
She did it to guage people's reaction for a "study" she was doing.
yep.
she's probably cackling & laughing at the attention shes getting. | |
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| Why Would an Adult do This to a Child?
Posted: 1/2/2008 11:13:39 AM | Yep is right ~ and stupid me got caught in her web. But you know what they say Elle, "Oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive...."
Nuff said, any more just adds fuel to OP's fire (which is quickly burning out).
This post should not be in the Broken Hearts section, let's vote to start up a "Nut Case" section. | |
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