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 Aroara1982

Joined: 6/13/2005
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Posted: 1/1/2008 8:59:01 PM
This is strictl JMO.

I prefer to date older men. But won't rule out guys close to my age. I have the minimum set at my age and the max should be set at an age that is a few years younger than the half way point between me and my father. I just think that I shouldn't date a guy close to my dad's age than to mine!
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 1/1/2008 11:51:41 PM
Women want a younger guy. It's true that there are likely to be far more guys who can fulfil the list who are older than younger, but women have been told that they can "have it all", and they seem to think it's true. Can they? Really? I don't know. I just know they keep chasing it. I think it's called "Girl Power" here in the UK.
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 2:15:19 AM

Women want a younger guy. It's true that there are likely to be far more guys who can fulfil the list who are older than younger, but women have been told that they can "have it all", and they seem to think it's true. Can they? Really? I don't know. I just know they keep chasing it. I think it's called "Girl Power" here in the UK.


Oh my lord Mr Scorpiopower, still generalising about all women? Haven't you learned anything yet from the tonnes of threads you have been posting in that it doesn't do to categorise 'all' women as wanting a younger guy, because some of us 'who don't want a younger man' find it rather annoying. Also, what about all the threads that younger men start complaining that older women won't give them a chance? could this be a problem for some younger men if all older women wanted to date them? The world is full of individuals, with individual tastes and preferences, some of us go for a young look, some of us go for character, some of us go for both. We're a bit like men actually when take your head out of your a*se and actually stop to look at it.
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:33:58 AM
^^^ OK. SOME women. The women the OP appears to have a problem with.

Shouldn't I also include the women who feel insulted because I said guy, and they want a woman? Or the women who want a woman or a man? Or the women who think that a younger guy is far more likely to fulfil their list than an older guy?

Is someone in a bad mood today?
 Pamperpooch000

Joined: 11/7/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:22:10 AM

^^^ OK. SOME women. The women the OP appears to have a problem with.

Shouldn't I also include the women who feel insulted because I said guy, and they want a woman? Or the women who want a woman or a man? Or the women who think that a younger guy is far more likely to fulfil their list than an older guy?

Is someone in a bad mood today?


Just a bit tired of seing the same people churn out the same kind of rubbish, even when they have had countless other people tell them differently, it just seems a waste of time doing forums when certain people are so closed minded that they refuse to even look at the other side of the picture. What you believe projects itself onto women, and they find you less attractive, so you then accuse them of all liking younger men because they don't find you attractive. It's because you can't handle that YOUR attitude is the problem, and not the women.
 j-j-b-kozack

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 12:19:13 PM
I dont see age as a restriction, althou it does have something to do with maturity ive met some very mature 18yo's
I would prefer someone close to my age so we could grow old together but a ten year gap either way wouldnt bother me
gawd i had a 24yo gurl on here call me a "creeper" when i was four years older than her, im almost totally cpu illiterate so i had to ask a buddy what that meant
 TheArtofDave

Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/2/2008 12:34:08 PM
Goodness gracious, man Trev I'm so sorry other posters, (not all of you) had to ruin the simplicity of your thread. I don't know and an exact answer to your question, but I'll do you the favor of being simplistic and giving you a simple guess.

Maybe the women in your area have been burned by a few older men so if one comes up that is younger, and their interested in them perhaps they're looking simply to find that rare one who understands, listens, and despite the inconsistency in age can have a meaningful relationship. Thats what I'd guess these ladies are after.

I've often been told age doesn't matter. So I'm not too sure why there'd be age restrictions, unless it was just based on preference. So good luck Trev, this should not however prevent you from finding the same either here, or outside of the site.

As for Mister Mann, look man you need to worry about yourself before saying anything to anybody else. We all know what do to when it comes up on getting dressed up when we go out with our date. In summer you dress comfortable. I wouldn't want to be wearing a suit and tie on a 100 degree day unless I was forced to. Who wants to sweat their balls off in that kind of heat unless they just couldn't help to.

Now there is just one other thing I wanted to point out. Because of a simple general statement I'm wondering why you had to mention dress up along with cologne to begin with. The answer was very uncalled for and I'm sure there are better colognes, and after shave than old spice. But thats not for me to decide for another person. Let Trev handle that area I'm sure he is a hell of a lot more skilled at it then you are.

So I hope we have all learned a lesson here regarding topic. Why go way off topic unless its necessary. Also let me say before I end this post that it matters who you are and not just how you dress etc. Ok sorry that I had to address this other topic.

Dave
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 1/2/2008 2:43:33 PM
Some of us are very selective. That is not a bad thing you know.
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 1/2/2008 3:00:02 PM
OP, unrealistic expectations and contradictions are of course not gender exclusive. You're pointing out arguably irrational restrictions that contradict your understanding of logic. Welcome to the club. Don't worry, those restircitons fade with our chances as time marches on.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/2/2008 3:13:30 PM
..."Some of us are Very Selective " ...
*CHORTLE!*
While I can't deny anyone of their parameters, or personal preferences . .
It's just a Pity . . that I'm a few ~Months~ outside _some_ peoples -Age-range- . . !
. . but since I can't write them , because of it . . they'll never know what they've Missed . . !!

. . . C'est la vie . .
 trev01us

Joined: 11/18/2006
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Posted: 1/2/2008 4:17:44 PM
First off I would like to thank RogueGnome and The Art of Dave especially for their posts. Although I thought I had ended this thread right after RogueGnomes post I guess I was wrong. I am aware that everyone has their own views and interests and are entitled to them. It was just a simple question that i had asked.

I would like to thank just about all the other posters as well. Good luck fishing.

Oh and Marius66 I'm sorry for accusing you of attacking me seeing as that wasn't your intention.

Trev
 Barbies Older Sister

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/3/2008 12:55:22 PM
I'm trying really hard not to pay so much attention to things that don't matter such as one's birthdate, but instead to who he is as a human being and a man. Mainly the man part.....
 whatdoyaknow

Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 1/20/2008 4:49:29 PM
wow..you asked a simple question and got all sorts of attacks. bummer dude. I guess I wont be asking any questions here.

My advice...just let it go
 creativelust

Joined: 1/22/2008
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Posted: 1/26/2008 12:07:06 AM
a good friend of mine who is old enough to be my mother says older women like younger guys cause we got more energy in bed lol.
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