| losing erection with a condom
Posted: 3/5/2008 8:16:15 PM | My ex b/f had this problem with condoms too. We'd get in lots of foreplay before hand and then had literally only seconds to get it on & the tool in the shed, or he'd lose the erection. Maybe moving through the motion of placing it on and getting into 'the shed' quicker will help. If we knew the condom was coming, I'd make sure he was really hard first. If we had trouble opening it, and it went soft before it was where it was supposed to be, we'd go back to foreplay and try again in a few mins. It wasn't fear of pregnancy-we were both 'fixed'. He never knew why it happened but it ususally always did. That little blue pill helped, but not all the time.
You need an understanding partner, not a demanding one or it will just cause more anxiety. If she's coming multiple times already-what's her complaint anyways? Maybe you should bring out the toy dildo (before you try the condom) and get her off that way before hand.
OP....Just stay away from the NATURAL condoms made from sheep (sorry-don't remember the name). I was warned at the clinic that because they're made from skin, they actually have pores that CAN allow STD's to pass through and sperm to escape from. They were my ex's fav because they felt so good but they were pretty useless-as the clinic advised.
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