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Posted: 1/7/2008 11:06:14 AM | | How did you get three charges out of that? | |
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tomi33
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Msg: 27 | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:09:55 AM | | cops will charge you for anything they possibly can. thats why. The systems all about money, and not about justice. | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 28 | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:13:08 AM | | I soo do not need anger management. Im the calmest person ever. 4 Months of built up frustration caused the events. not anger. :S Its to late to argue about it. I got myself a kick ass lawyer, so i have my fingers crossed and hope he gets me off everything. But the mischief..i'd plead guilty too..because I actually did smash that purse. but still. Better a purse, than her. N better than breaking my wrist on a wall. ugh such stupid shit. That was a baaad night that should have never happened. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:51:55 AM |
i think what people are not realzing is that there is more to this story then meets the eye.
And how would any of that excuse her cheating?
You're right, there's more to it than he's said, but that doesn't make her cheating OK. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:59:09 AM | True enough swfl_dan .... but how is his making a scene in the mall and getting charged because of it make everything right. It doesn't..... anyone cheating isn't right... but making a scene and acting like a child because of it isn't right either. He should have handled it like a responsible adult.
Unfortionatly were still not getting the entire story there is more then likely bits and pieces still missing. | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 31 | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 2:53:35 PM | | the story is on here. funny how girls seem to think, guys are always the bad guys and a girl cant do anything wrong. lol.I didnt make a scene at the mall. As I recall..umm i tried walking away n got attacked. Which is what led to the arrest. but Thanks to Canadian law, all a girl has to say is * he beat me up* n the guy gets totally screwed. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 3:03:44 PM |
funny how girls seem to think, guys are always the bad guys and a girl cant do anything wrong
and it's sad how you take one bad incident and lump all of us ladies into one generalization. You're not winning any points here.
What she did is wrong--there's nothing to justify her cheating. You are well rid of that joke of a relationship.
But public humiliation on both of your ends--first on your end for trying to have such a serious discussion in a public place, and her end for reacting the way she did and getting you in trouble--is also wrong. OP, you said yourself that she caused a scene at the mall WHEN YOU CONFRONTED HER. Why confront her at the mall? Why not wait until you two are alone? It shows a strong lack of judgment. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 3:40:23 PM | tomi don't generalize us women in that catagorie. i didn't say that men were always the "bad" guy. Women can be the "bad" guy also.
Why would you confront her in a PUBLIC place. that always leads to bad news.
It was wrong of her to cheat, but it was also wrong of you to have such a serious discussion in such a public place. | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 34 | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 10:52:10 PM | | We worked together lol it was on our break. I was apologizing to her for not trusting her...lol and it turned into all this crap. I even dressed up nice. Who knew! aha this wasnt my plan! | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 7:12:42 AM | | yeah... thats also another mistake.... of doing it AT work... even if it was on your break. Thats a discussion left for outside of work in a more private setting. | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 36 | |
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Posted: 1/26/2008 10:30:49 AM | | w.e it was a total waste of time, and I was an idiot for thinking I had found the girl I always wanted. Im the evil bad guy. We'll leave it at that. Shit happened, it turned out bad. I went to jail. Im a criminal and a woman beater. There! topic discussion over. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2008 11:35:26 AM | It is difficult to sometimes convey emotions and or events in person, let alone trying to put them into writing for others to understand and visualize.
I have to agree with much of the above: THERE IS GOT TO BE MORE TO THE STORY.
As a guy--without sounding self centered---yes I tend to lean towards your side, but my man your story is very unclear!
How old are you?
How long were you with her?
Where did you meet her?
Anyhow, lots of gray area in the original post and the poster has not come back to clear things up, perhaps elaborate a little more.
For what is worth, yes a deceit is probably very painful. I have never been in your situation.
Emilio | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 38 | |
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Posted: 1/26/2008 2:52:40 PM | | As I said topic discussion over. She was a total waste of my time. End of story. I will not be posting any further into this issue. It was very immature of me to post it online in the first place. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2008 4:11:35 PM | | Sounds like your pride is in the way. In jail. Be honest, you did something here. What is your role in your problems here? | |
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tomi33
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Joined: 12/16/2007
Msg: 40 | |
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Posted: 1/26/2008 4:16:37 PM | | I said drop the ****ing topic. Its Done. | |
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