| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/6/2005 9:25:19 PM | | Men are more sexual in thinking than women but if it's a 24/7 thing he has issues and if you don't want to be an object leave him and choose somebody who can make you happy. Women do make most of the choices of who they share their lives and bed with. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:43:04 AM | | i have not read all the post but here i my 2.when you are 19 like you and you are around guys your age.as one who was that age i can is all i thought about was sex,more sex,and more sex on top of that.if could work in sleep and food that was ok to.at my when i think about some of the fine looking ladies i pissed away because of my immaturity it makes me wince.immaturity,being a walking hormone,and a good relationship can be tough to come by | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 1:06:54 AM | | PINK69,thats easy,some people actually dont want to be in a relationship,some people actually prefer 1night stands,does that answer your question | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 1:19:05 AM | | pink69camero: some of us are not the least bit interested in having quick and anonymous encounters. when i compare myself to that sort of man, i realize just how nice a guy i am. it's a bit rough hearing over and over again that guys are only interested in one thing. i know they exist but i'm just not one of them. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 9:12:46 AM | Hey, not all young guys do this trick. I had one 54 year old guy I trusted try it with me too. I knew him in real life for 1 1/2 years. Wanted a F*** bunnie I guess---but no dating in public. Yeah, like I'm gonna sit for that sheet!
I told him right off...idiot! Scared the hell right out of him too! LOL!! That part was fun.
I later learned this dude had relationship problems. Wonder why they kept failing like that? Hmmmmmmmm well probably because he was just a lounge lizard. Plus, if your a Player you can't be letting the other women around you see that your dating some-one can you? Just ruin your whole game plan.
However, he turned out to be a great lesson for me. I learned to more carefully screen who I was dealing with. I then set out to find some real men who would behave in a nicer manner, and guess what? I found a lot of em. All guys are Not Pigs, and do care about what women want, and how they treat us. As a matter of fact a whole whack of em are more shy and more scared than we are. All they really want is that nice woman they can trust. The very same thing we are looking for.
I met some really swell guys on POF, and am dating one right now. They are out there. Just do not give up. The nice ones are waiting for you.  | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 10:20:20 AM | | well, by looking at your profile I can see the kind of guys you are attracting. Look for the winners babe, streetracers and concert goers, are kinda well, superficial. But if you insist, those are the guys your gonna meet there. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 10:22:17 AM | | and watch out for the guys who say how sensitive they are and who say they dont just want you for sex. Those are the biggest liars of all, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Anyone who tells you he/she is honest, probably isn't. Ever met any used car salesmen? | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 10:24:22 AM | | there is another profile for clubbing dancing and partying! Ladies attention!!! YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR! If you wanna be a party girl, you aint gonna get no respect. I guess the next step up would be to make Pornos. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 4:31:56 PM | Sex is enjoyable. We don't need to get to know you better for it to be enjoyable.
It all boils down to propagation of the genes. Men can have sex frequently and impregnate numerous women. We don't need to be very particular since we're using the shotgun approach. Women can only have a child once a year or so, thus they have to be picky about who gets to use up that one chance.
Most likely you're chasing the alpha males (just like every other woman) so he has plenty of opportunities to spread his seed and doesn't have to stick with one woman. Look for a guy a little lower on the food chain and he'll be more willing to stick around since he doesn't have so many offers. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 4:40:12 PM | I get innundated by messages from women saying they want me for a LTR and won't put out for at least a month. Don't these women have any respect for my penis!  | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 5:33:44 PM | | I totally agree, it doesn't matter how old the guy is they are all the same just want to get their ends wet | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 6:37:27 PM | | i will agree we all want to get our ends wet but for me its kinda nice to have someone to share things with and not just a fuc* buddy.i know i am getting to old | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/7/2005 8:49:55 PM | Just looking at the intial post, the answer to this question is easy. To men, especially ones who have been in an extremely hurtful relationship (and this is same for many women) the opposite sex is completely and utterly insane. That and many of us have just plain lost the capacity to love (speaking of myself here).
That doesn't mean we don't still have penises.  | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/8/2005 2:03:41 AM | | You've never met a guy whom you just wanted to have sex with at first sight before you got to know him? Haven't you heard of chemistry? | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/8/2005 10:48:42 PM | | CountIbli: just like any area of study, your theory of why guys appear to want sex over relationship is a theory, nothing more. we all have instincs left over from when we were wild and lived in trees. some of us have progressed over time and i don't believe that our instincts control us as they once did. mankind is evolving and perhaps there remains work to be done before we've completely changed in terms of what instincts propel us to action. there is overpopulation on this planet. it has become one of the greatest challenges facing mankind. to lend credence to your theory is to ignore the obvious. environment plays a powerful role in shaping our behavior. in terms of overpopulation, our environment is calling us to action. those who dismiss it all as 'instincts', abdicate the role that we all need to play to control the events that may become our undoing if we don't select the right path to action. so don't blame it all on your instincts guys. rise to action before it's too late. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/9/2005 1:59:07 PM |
some of us have progressed over time and i don't believe that our instincts control us as they once did
There's certainly some truth to that. Guys will typically want some birth control involved so there's no pregnancy involved. There's also alot of peer pressure to find your "soulmate." As if there's one-and-only-one person out there that's right for you and that you'll find him/her.
But note that women generally seek a man who's taller even though there's no survival advantage in being tall anymore. Women still look for a guy who's going to be a good provider even though it's possible for a woman to be financially independent. And women still prefer to get to know a guy before having sex with him, just as they've been programmed to by their genes.
It's funny that guys are now expected to "grow up" and enter relationships of the type that women seek. Maybe women are the ones who should grow up and put out a little more. Then maybe wouldn't have a thousands threads about "Guys are jerks because they just want sex." | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/9/2005 7:17:32 PM | Saying a girl is hot is one thing! Now sex is just a whole other subject!
Our society love immediate satisfaction,and sex is on the top of the list!
Pay per view
fast-food
internet
playboy | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/9/2005 7:30:00 PM | A women mustly needs emotional ties before having sex.Men don't really.
Remember men are the hunters! women don't hunt!
Now some will come up to men and talk.But their not the aggressors | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/9/2005 7:33:39 PM | | I have an answer for ya....if he doesn't do all that stuff you want him to do, then don't have sex with him. You don't have to understand it, that's just the way it is. Good Luck! | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/9/2005 8:01:11 PM | opaphus,u said women dont hunt!that they need emotional ties before having sex!buddy your dead wrong!maybe uv been meeting girls in church!go out to night club buddy!women do hunt!your living in the 1940,s mate | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/11/2005 2:20:14 AM | All behaviors in some way descend from the self-preservation inherent in the DNA of every organism to exist. We want to live. We want to exist forever. Our bodies, minds, et cetera are short-lived, in evolutionary terms, but by propagating our genetic material as much and as widely as possible we can "live on", genetically, through our descendants. Becuase it is more difficult for women to propagate their DNA (at a rate of about one or two per nine months) than it is for men (who could theoretically have a son/daughter every time he has sex), the urge for many, many partners is usually less pronounced - whereas a man has a primal lust to copulate with as many females as he can. He is hardwired for promiscuity.
Of course, our society has adopted a monogamous form of sexual relationships, for whatever reason, and these cultural indoctrinations (which can be powerful indeed), keep many of us mostly in line, aside from perhaps admiring that Bikini calendar on his wall every now and then. | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/11/2005 3:52:33 AM | | I'M WITH YOU ! THAT HAS TO BE THE BIGGEST TRUN OFF WHEN A GUY ACTS INTERESTED AND STARTS TALKING ABOUT HOW MUCH HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. I'M OVER IT!! | |
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| i will never understand guys!
Posted: 7/11/2005 6:03:35 AM | In her profile--
Hot Guys Only...
*snicker* sometimes comes with the territory.
I rest my case.  | |
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