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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 1/3/2008 11:02:20 AM | Well I have to come to think that sex is ment for marrage. To me sex is just sex.
Sure you might find that some people make love, or say that they have made Love with you, but it would have to be someone that your going to marry.
Well that's what I think. I have come to this cuase I think that sex just messes thing's up, unless you wait till marrage, but then it still could mess thing's up if it's is no good.
But if it is Love then you will know it. I guess if it just happen's then that would be more love then just callen someone and sayen :this is a boot call. | |
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| Can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 1/3/2008 12:50:41 PM | | Ahhhhhh, those elusive feelings... "Feel the difference". Can you know what was in his head? No. You can only judge what was apparent to you at the time based on the look in his eyes, his words, his touch, etc. So to go back and try to say he wasn't making love to you three weeks ago when you thought he was and you felt he was at the time....what is the purpose, I wonder..... | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/10/2008 11:58:01 AM | | No not at all. Sex is lust. They just want to get off. Making love u have this strong energy flowing between u and fireworks and anything goes. Lust is just wanting to be with someone but not really knowing them, being curious and to reach your ultimate goal of getting off. Yes u can love someone and they not be in love with u so to u it is making love and to them it is just sex. | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/10/2008 3:32:20 PM | The feeling is driven by self...we want therefore we believe....skewing data, truths and keeping us in our happy bubble.
Is he kissing your hair/head....holding your hand...reaching out | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:49:28 PM | i think one should make love to his partner until she becomes comfortable before he trashes her about with passion...
sex is best when both sex and love making happen.
it should start with love,graduate to sex and then end with love..i feel thats a perfect session. | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:08:54 PM | | Of course! To a man, it is having sex period. Women think they are having sex but something happens during in which she decides it has to mean more than it does and the next thing you know, she has scared the guy away planning future stuff that was not even on his mind when he entered her to put it bluntly. | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/12/2008 12:31:07 PM | Having sex is fun and good times... The most fun is usually had by people doing it with someone they love... but if people think one is the other, it can cause big relationship problems.
No fun sex= boring sex
Boring sex can kill love.
True love= Altruism= I am part of you. You are part of me. I will sacrifice my safety or well-being or pleasure for yours if you need it. I will sacrifice my comfort for yours if I think or know you feel the same about me. I will care for you and protect you.
This can be done while having sex by caring about your partner's comfort and pleasure while doing it... However, this also means not making it such a solemn occasion that it can't be enjoyable and fun and a little bit nasty, in my humble opinion.
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/15/2008 1:18:10 PM | To make love, one has to be in love. Sometimes women use the man's desire for sex to hold on to them. Having sex too soon in a relationship suddenly becomes the bassis of the relationship. Once the novilty of sex wares off, there is nothing holding the two people together. It is so much better to first be friends, then date and really get to know that person and once love sets in, make love.
Sex without love is so empty, without feeling. May as well do it to a piece of meat because that is just the way you're treating the woman.
When you're having sex, is it love or lust? | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/15/2008 5:25:04 PM | absolutely....we are creatures of ourselves....we can only feel what we feel....
sometimes though...we are fortunate enough to genuinely feel what 'they' feel....from the inside out....
take notice of those times, "they" are few and far between...(the others are fleeting fancies)....and "they" are what I tag ' making love'... | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:23:14 PM | Already answered, a Him and Her answer, but simple and uncomplicated.
Though, "making love" IS a skill, as well as "rabid monkey sex", Tai Chi Karate Chop Sex, amongst other things. You CAN make love, then go have sex.
As always, it is in your brain, not in your**** that decides what you are doing when you do it. | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 6/21/2008 1:30:14 PM | No there is a big diff between the two.
Its up to the two adults at the start to know what they are getting into.. and make it clear what they want..
If someone chooses to play games with you thats diff.
But having said that dose any one really know what they want when they meet someone and see them for a while.Some do a lot go along for the ride | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 6/22/2008 9:25:03 AM | "Making Love" is what we men ask for when we really just want "just sex".
You know you're Making love is when you really don't care if you get off, just the act, the intensity etc, are all that is needed...
You know it's Just Sex is when the goal is to get off... | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:23:53 AM | | Yes, I would say it can be confused. I imagine that often times just as people are in love with the "idea" of someone, they are in love with the "idea" of love making. They can mistake what they want for what they are really feeling. Also, many people think that just because they attempted the slow motion of what they call "love making" they have achieved it. That is not the case. Love making is a feeling as well as an act. But you cannot have one without the other. But, I will say that just because you do not actually make love to someone and get that incredible feeling that it gives, does not mean you do not love the person. | |
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| can having sex be confused with making love?
Posted: 7/15/2008 8:32:37 AM | | that is entirely possible, to make love, both parties need to be on the same plane of of emotional attachment. if one is a few levels behind, it may be only sex to them.. | |
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