| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/5/2008 3:45:37 PM | hey guy im new here i see all of you talking about what you all do while she/he sleeps and im like what are they talking about can some one tell me what you all do and how u all do it sounds like can any one help some tips needed | |
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Nergal
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/5/2008 3:52:36 PM | | Its all about just teasing .. and being very gentle .. you have to know her body though .. breath on her nipples .. really light stroking ... anywhere you know she likes it ... | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/5/2008 3:56:56 PM | Welcome Dreamer...
I'm sure you will get many good responses here, but first and foremost, you should ask your partner first if this is something that she would like you to do. If she's not into it, then don't do it. Period. If she is intrigued by the idea, then have fun!
I will let the guys take over now as I've never had the experience of playing with a woman while she sleeps... only a man. Mmmmmm... just thinking about it... wowie!
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Nergal
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/5/2008 4:12:12 PM | I treat it as a game, its got to be someone I've been with for a while, so I know i'm not going to get kicked. Its got to be really gentle, the lightest touch possible ... the lower back or the neck where the nerves go straight through .. as Libra said just thinking about it ... wowie .. but I have done it until her breath start quickening and the hips start moving of their own volition ...  | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/5/2008 8:13:29 PM | | ...works for me....but then I am aware who I am in bed with beforehand....so it is not so much an invasion or a surprise to me. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 7:48:29 AM | | MMMMMMM what an alarm clock!! why on earth would a girl or guy mind being woken by there partner paying attention to them? i'd love to do that to someonexxx | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 8:58:40 AM |
MMMMMMM what an alarm clock!! why on earth would a girl or guy mind being woken by there partner paying attention to them? i'd love to do that to someonexxx You again, how many times can I hit the snooze button? | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 10:44:09 AM | | just wondered if this is pertinent? but i started, while she was asleep, the morning after a great night.....she didnt wake up..couldnt wake her up....scared the crap out of me....i left at 7am , and broke up next day..then i thought/ was she on sleeping pills or ?..anybody have similar? | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 10:58:08 AM | | I love it love it love it.... especially when he spoons me with a nice surprise poking me between my cheeks......GAMES ON... | |
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Nergal
| Joined: 4/29/2007 Msg: 112 | |
| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 11:02:03 AM |
just wondered if this is pertinent? but i started, while she was asleep, the morning after a great night.....she didnt wake up..couldnt wake her up....scared the crap out of me....i left at 7am , and broke up next day..then i thought/ was she on sleeping pills or ?..anybody have similar?
It actually sounds like she wasnt too impressed by your performance the night before and was wanting you to leave ....  | |
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denero
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 3:13:31 PM |
works for me....but then I am aware who I am in bed with beforehand....so it is not so much an invasion or a surprise to me.
I'm aware of who I am in bed with as well but my consent is required. Whether its your husband or boyfriend etc, my consent to touch me is always required.
Anything beyond that? is assault :) and that was my point
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 8:27:16 PM | | I must say my man does this often , and for the most part i love it, and yes you wake up and have no idea why, but you are sooo excited all day until your completely satisfied. (and sometimes it completely backfires on him too... lol ) But an invasion of privacy, not at all. I think its pretty hot i mean hell he cant wait he has to try now.. even if its the middle of the night ! | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 8:47:29 PM | i deff agree with u, there is nohing wrong with it at all or in anyway,
i also would like to wake up my guy while he sleeps with a lil playful action its only human
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/6/2008 9:17:02 PM |
I love it love it love it.... especially when he spoons me with a nice surprise poking me between my cheeks......GAMES ON... Okay this one really bothers me. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 5:11:19 AM |
works for me....but then I am aware who I am in bed with beforehand....so it is not so much an invasion or a surprise to me.
I'm aware of who I am in bed with as well but my consent is required. Whether its your husband or boyfriend etc, my consent to touch me is always required.
Anything beyond that? is assault :) and that was my point
LOL so do you have a contract you have to sign before being intimate EVERY time ? | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 8:42:33 PM | Hello Arugula.... Great lettuce actually....
I am writing to you here because I read your profile and you wouldn't get my email... I enjoyed your candor by the way . I just wanted to tell you I like your take on this forum. You are so correct...in a loving relationship where the partners are truly equals and touching is welcomed at any time...what can be better? Being awakened eventually from sleep by your partner touching you, sexually or not, can only be a compliment and a turn-on at the same time. It doesn't matter if your partner is just horny...the fact is, your partner is horny and is thinking about you and wanting you...and yes, what a wonderful way to begin sex when you are relaxed and not stressed out from a day of real life. And it should go both ways.
I wish you the best in finding it again. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 10:24:53 PM | Invasion of privacy?... No.
It's hot and usually makes you feel great all day... as long as it happens close to when I need to wake up anyways. When it happens at 5am and I don't have to get up until 7:30 for work then I am probably gonna be annoyed because I will miss out on 2.5 hours of sleep.
Usually it's great though. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 10:30:52 PM | | Sweetiepi and not to mention you would now have to get up and have a shower as well! its a **** getting sex without asking...lol | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 10:54:20 PM | Oh la la ..my former boyfriend use to love woking me up like this , some mornings it was good sometimes not so good..he use to woke up EVERY morning 5 am on the dot.i stop him from doing that..but sinces i was so use to that loving so early i was the one woking up at 5 am for more and it was heaven all yr round.. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/7/2008 11:23:28 PM | love messing with women while they sleep, i don't know what is is...but the **** is soooo good while shes sleeping. i like this thread because i've always wondered if women really liked that or not. some women get pissed when you try to stick it in, i don't like having my****slapped away.....that shit hurt ladies!
can you ladies cum while sleeping? or do you have to be awake? i'm just wondering while your man screwing or licking you while sleeping, can you cum | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/8/2008 8:46:37 AM | I dnt see a problem with it at all. Im sure there will be many women on here who will look way to deeply in this though. Shes your gf and its fun and no one is getting hurt so continue i say , unless she says otherwise fo course. This is a very common thing and my ex used to to it all the time and I also used to play with him to while he sleeping.
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