| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/8/2008 10:39:43 AM | I think many women hold their sensuality, sexuality in check for whatever reason. All the taboos we are taught while growing up possibly. I've only had this happen once when I was much younger and in check my self, and I found it incredibly erotic. Before your brain can kick in and ask, "Am I supposed to be enjoying this?", you body has already decided, "This is great!"
Whoever mentioned teasing hit the nail on the head. It's all about awakening the senses without awakening our partner. Tease, touch, stroke till her body starts responding naturally. If she wakes up, but pretends she is still asleep just so you won't quit, you're doing it right! | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/8/2008 11:15:10 AM | | personally i'd be kinda annoyed . id like to be more involved in the process. if she doesn't mind then it's fine but it's a bit like finding your fella getting off over u while ur aleap, all about him rather then both of you. make sense? anyway maybe i'm wrong but it's what i think. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/8/2008 11:50:30 AM | | Hmmm doesn't really work for me.... my ex used to try stuff with me when I was sleeping, I am normally a heavy sleeper except i'd wake up to sexual stuff, and it would tick me off. 1) I like my sleep and 2) I don't like to be woken up..makes me grouchy | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/12/2008 4:48:21 PM | Hey fixitfred....
I guess I don't understand whyether you are bashing kellec or asking for a date....... Her comment is real and why not? I would love that alarm clock as well and would love to be the alarm clock too. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/12/2008 5:08:05 PM | | no thankyou not my cup of tea at all. my ex boyfriend mentioned once that he'd considered doing that to me and i was not impressed. i would not like it at all. i'd be asleep for gods sakes! definately an invasion in my book but i can understand why people like it. | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 3/15/2008 12:07:05 PM | I am reminded of a time when I was deeply involved with someone. She told me later, when she could catch her breath, that she was dead asleep then started to have the most amazing dream that I was down between her legs kissing her. And the smooth feel of my bald head in her hands was what kept turning her on and on and on. So when she woke to me doing that, it took just a matter of seconds for her to thoroughly enjoy my ministrations upon her. Definitely made for her telling me I was welcome to wake her up that way ANYTIME that I wanted to.
...and you know what, I did it as often as possible and inconsistently as possible for the time we were together. After all who wants to have Mr.Predictable!
don't know about you because my nickname is...
Mr."Good"DeeDs ...done dirty & cheap!
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 4/30/2008 4:59:34 AM | | had gf who asked me to slide it in her mouth if she was head by side of bed , and f--- her anyway in her sleep or oral , and she blew me and mounted me in my sleep , unbeleavable orgasm waking up to it , cannot beleave and never had a woman who didnt fantasize and talk about it early in the relationship , wouldnt want any other kind , if a woman has bad issues with sex , MAYBE SHE SHOULD TALK TO A THERAPIST ABOUT THEM! i have known quite a few women who had been raped- or incest you name it WHEN THEY WERE YOUNG 66 % of woman i kinow [i am a talker converser ] will tell me more shit about there childhood than i can imagine , i had a woman that was raped at a young age , then married 21 years never had penetration vaginally or anal for that matter and never had an orgasm , it took a few hours of talking that first night but she ended alkmost wild in bed multi orgasms and all ,but conversation is key if she will allow you to get to that hurt inside ,for woman who have had that == i give lessons ,to help you over that hurdle ! | |
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| Playing with her while she sleeps Posted: 4/30/2008 8:40:18 AM | | i am diabetic and have to get up a couple of times a night to go to the bathroom. At least once a night, i pull a sneak attack....she loves it. Sometimes i will try to get her to the big O without waking her...very difficult but it has happened. It helps keep our relationship fresh and she sleeps so well afterward. | |
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