| Guys with little money
Posted: 1/3/2008 9:10:52 PM | | I work for a seafood restaurant as a cashier where I'm lucky to get 2 days a week. I've applied for Wal-Mart because I'm out of college and need to find something better than the dead end job I'm in now. I say don't just settle for someone at your financial status. Go higher and you may be surprised who would be interested I know I am! | |
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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:13:37 PM | The advantage to being a guy with little money... is that you know she loves you for who you are. (This is a real key advantage) | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 10:39:48 PM | um in a way yes..you want honesty ill give ya some..i have worked my ass off to get where i am and well someday hope to have a family which i well yea i could afford on my own because id just work more but im not willing to do that. I want a man who comes into the relationship with his own cash basically and if you cant afford a fifty dollar meal once in a while then how can we feed the kids?
question for you though..obviously you can be on a computer so how can you say you CAN'T work? there are alot of different things out there to do and studying at home is one of them . No i do not know your situation at all and I am not trying to um shoot whats that word again aww i donno..point not trying to be mean you or disrespect you in anyway but why not try something that you can do from a computer? My cousin sits on a computer all damn day and gets a shiut load of coin for it soooo I dont understand how you can be on one and then come on and say you cant work......... | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 1:01:57 AM | Dear OP,
For 15 years I financially supported my husband. Don't want to do that again. Sorry. I prefer someone equal to my income or more. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 7:57:44 AM | Here's a little rhyme: If a man can't feed me he don't need me!
First date and he can't afford to take me to a nice restaurant? I hear you ladies saying, "it's ok, I'll have a salad and drink water" - but yet you sit with no dates and no steaks! (another rhyme).
These very cheap selfish men are making $350 a month car payments not including Liability Insurance. On this car is $1,500 worth of tires and $2,000 worth of rims. They have a stero system in their ride loud enough for Scotty up in the USS Enterprise to hear so there's no reason for Scotty to beam back down to earth.
They play with their Game Boys ($299.00) and have 20 games to play with. Without leaving their livingrooms they can travel where no man has travelled before.
Oh, and their cell phones, Blue tooth - to the max. Eat-at-h0me ladies, "Can ya hear me now?"
On Sundays they go with the boys to watch the football games, the fights and wrestling matches - they spring another $35 for beer and a bottle of Gray Goose, nothing but the best to sit with each other and watch these gayla affairs!
Now, here comes Long John Joe and Billy Bob, trying to spring you for a Happy Meal and bang your buns off all night, telling you he just don't have enough money to take you places "you" deserve! And you salad/water women say, "It's alright, Honey, as long as I have you!
New rhyme: No steak, no mate! Later, I'm gone  | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 8:16:34 AM | xxxmearse, you make me glad I'm single! 
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And so do all you other posters looking for a man with money.
My money is mine, and I want to spend it on a girl who would love me even if I was broke!
And if I die alone, that's better than dying with some money hungry b!tch feeding off of me! | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 9:02:22 AM |
And if I die alone, that's better than dying with some money hungry b!tch feeding off of me!
I have to agree with you.Better to be alone then with someone who really does not want you as you are or with someone you don't really want either. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 10:26:46 AM | | as i look back i believe i had just as much or more fun when i was young and had less. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 11:04:46 AM | | See, I don't see what the deal is. I always knew from the time I was young, that to obtain what I wanted in life, including the caliber of woman I desire, I would have to have $$. I never ****ed or complained, I just accepted it. I suppose I have a completely warped world view. But I undertsand that beautiful, intelliegent capable women would have their choice and like a job, I would have to improve my resume to get what I wanted. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 11:16:03 AM |
These very cheap selfish men are making $350 a month car payments not including Liability Insurance. On this car is $1,500 worth of tires and $2,000 worth of rims. They have a stero system in their ride loud enough for Scotty up in the USS Enterprise to hear so there's no reason for Scotty to beam back down to earth.
CSIN....the man you describe is not worth pursuing.
He has a car with $350 a month payments....but ONLY liability insurance???? Doesn't sound like he really want to take car of his purchase, just wants to do the minimum legal requirement. Probably the car is out of his price range and he has to scrape by to pay the minimum insurance.
$1500 tires....depending on the car, that is what some tires cost (heads up to those looking at buying certain sports cars---you can't pick up the tires at wal-mart). No biggie, good tires keep you safe.
$2000 rims..... ummm, why? Those "tricked out rims" look dumb. It is one thing if your car looks silly on it's own...why would I want to ride in something purposely made to look ridiculous?
Super loud stereo system... sounds like he's trying to compensate for something. I need a man who respects his neighbors more than his desire to show off his taste (or lack thereof) in music.
CSIN....you need to rethink your appeal to the "flashy" things. Many who have them cannot actually afford them and therefore go "flashier" instead of "higher quality". (This is why Mitzubishi is so successful. Cheap, flashy cars.....bad engines.) | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 11:34:38 AM |
These very cheap selfish men are making $350 a month car payments not including Liability Insurance. On this car is $1,500 worth of tires and $2,000 worth of rims. They have a stero system in their ride loud enough for Scotty up in the USS Enterprise to hear so there's no reason for Scotty to beam back down to earth.
Ha! Another Victim of MTV's Pimp My Ride.
And Brewality, you can't fish without bait  | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 1:23:03 PM |
I can easily look into some kind of qualification to work at home on a computer, but I don't know of any jobs that are like that.
OP, I understand your position perfectly, because I've been there, myself, since a motorcycle crash left me with partial paralysis. I cannot be certain that I have found a way out of it yet, but I do know I have given myself a chance, at least. Yes, there are jobs that can be done from home, on a computer! However all will require some sort of formal training. Myself, I chose to train to become a web Developer. (building web sites) This is NOT a quick fix, however! So far, I have attended 5 years of Jr. college at my local school, picking up two Associates degees, only to learn an Associate's doesn't mean much to anybody. So, I am currently taking classes, with an online University, to get a Bachelors. Can't afford all this schooling? Sure you can! When you are on disability, Govn agencies will pay to learn you a trade. See your local DORS agency, with a plan to put yourself back into the workforce, & they will be all for it! To re-train the disabled for a new line, enabling their ability to get back in the workforce is the primary function of that agency. They have even promised me financial assistance with getting a business started, after I obtain the Bachelors. I have tried to point out to them, that I have the ability & desire to do this,already, only to hear, "Sorry, we are not allowed to help out, until you have the Bachelor's to prove you have the ability". Merely showing them some of my work was not good enough, because the approval had to pass up through several higher ranking offices, as well. Therefore, its another 4 years of schooling, for me. On Uncle Sam, & done on my home computer, though, so nothing I can't deal with.
I am not saying you should get into web development, because it certainly isn't for everybody, however there are many other computer related jobs, done from home offices, if you get the traning first. And, this training can be gotten for free, when you are disabled. Simply select one you feel you are capable of learning, and ask the Govn to help. Yes, it takes some time and effort, but there IS still hope for us disabled! Just don't give up. If you would like to view my business web site to date, it is at WayneCountyNetwork.com No doubt, this site will see many changes in the future, as I am I still learning new methods, weekly, but everything hasta start somewhere. Tom42149 | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 4:15:11 PM | | I have to say ,I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone Brew.Sometimes we never find them and sometimes when we think it will never happen they pop up.Keep posting questions like this and maybe Miss Right will see it and drop you a line bud.One thing I have learned over the last year and believe me I am going through allot and am shy to boot which doesn't help on here! Remember this NEVER SAY NEVER! and may that perfect woman come your way!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 5:28:37 PM | Keep fishing man !
Not all woman are money grabbing ****es!
A lot of us women are actually capable of loving someone for who they are and not for how much they earn,what car they drive or what make of shoes they're wearing !
money doesn't matter if you love someone! I'd rather have a lifetime of love with someone special than a flash car and designer shoes anyday !yes,money can help but it's not everything!
There are plenty of things you can do without spending a fortune,just use your imagination !!!good luck and I hope you find your someone special xxx | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 6:08:02 PM | The sad thing is that for some women... your situation is a big deal and will cause many to over look you. The good thing is... not all of us women care about money. What matters most to us is how responsible you are with the money you do have. As in... do your bills come before your entertainment, do you spend more money than you have and spend it foolishly?
Me personally... I don't care how much money a guy makes. As long as his bills get paid, he doesn't 'mooch' off of other people with no intentions of paying them back. He has his priorities straight. Understands and respects that money doesn't grow on trees... many of us work damn hard for every penny in our wallets.
I have never been one to care for the materialistic possessions in life... I do appreciate them when given but they aren't priority on my list.
You will run into the women who will overlook you but you will also find the women who will understand your situation and know that you are doing the best you can with what you've got. It's all hit or miss... no one is perfect, but there is someone out there who is pretty damn close to perfect for you. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2008 6:15:47 PM | I'm a guy without alot of money. I get a disability pension and I have to make that stretch for myself to live on. This takes away dinners in restaurants and going to see movies. The cost of that nowadays is beyond ridiculous. A steak dinner for two can cost around $50.
Does a restriction like this play alot into the dating factor for you? Not being able to go to places you want because of money issues. I can't work, so it's not as if my situation will change in the future.
no, it doesn't "play a lot" into the dating factor for me - it's the person i'm interested in spending time with, not his money - doing anything can be fun, with the right person..
and if i did want a "steak dinner for two" then i can always do the buying myself, with a lil budgeting (besides, i prefer wendy's any day ;))
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Posted: 1/8/2008 12:26:13 PM | The part with the drinks tie into insecurity.
Alot of women like to go to the clubs, and its usually those women who want drinks.
Why did you get so pissed at my comment? It in no way was disrespectfull, or out of line.
I just hate when someone has to pick apart everything someone says. Like there is a hidden meaning in it or something. What I ment was what I said....some men and women have problems with silence, and enjoying somones company.
Thas it, plain in simple. When the drinks, and the club is involved....there is going to be some money flying around, and the OP and I cant afford that.
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Posted: 1/8/2008 3:29:08 PM | I had a pretty crazy experience with my last girlfriend.
She was a bit younger than me (I was 33 when I met her and she 26). A struggling law student doing her Masters she didn't have much money. Not that that was a problem.
Anyway, she was totally money obsessed! I'm wouldn't say that I was loaded, but I did ok, so I was fine taking her out on many occasions. But what bothered me, was that she reckons that it's right for women to spend men's money and that the woman shouldn't have to pay for anything, not even dessert or popcorn for a movie.
I was more used to going out with more financially dependent women, who on some occasions, INSIST that they pay for the meal, movie or whatever. In this so called age of equality, this is the sort of behaviour I expect from women. Sure, I'm not dead set on 50-50 (although that WOULD be nice), but so long as a woman is happy to contribute from time to time, then I don't see why guys with little money should have to suffer.
I assumed it was all about a man's character and looks... But these days, money seems to take precedence. Look at how many old guys are out there dating beautiful young women. Those women sure ain't dating them for sex (Viagra or no Viagra!). It's the money stupid!
Anyway, how my ex law student girlfriend explained it, was that women look for a man that can provide them with the means of creating the perfect "nest". So that means, ideally, they have their own property and PLENTY of money.
Personally though, if you meet a woman that's just more into your wallet than she is into you, then, unless you're getting something out of this arrangement, my advice is move on.
Then again, you could try and seduce her by strutting your stuff on the dance floor, as you dance to Timbaland’s, "The Way I Are". | |
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Posted: 1/8/2008 4:31:01 PM | To be honest, yea - it's an issue. Some of us are accustomed to a certain lifestyle and a change like that is too much and it can't be accepted. But people who aren't used to doing those things anyway...it isn't so much. I don't go after guys for money, but if they're deep in debt or have a very low income, I pass them over because I know they can't keep up with me financially and I can't afford to carry someone else's weight.
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Posted: 1/8/2008 5:54:33 PM | No. That’s alright.
When push comes to shove, if anyone is going to support someone else, it really should be the Man supporting the Woman.
My mum took care of my dad for ages (until she kicked him out). He was like another kid in the family. Not good!
Thanks to that experience, I think I'd rather be homeless than have a woman look after me LOL! (Mums, of course, are the exception ) | |
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Posted: 1/8/2008 8:17:37 PM | | no man likes to support a woman and neither does a woman want to support a man, as long as you're able to come to a happy medium with someone then there's no reason to stop fishing. we're not all rich and some of us are even poorer than others. sure it's nice to go out to a fancy restaurant for that steak dinner but it's just as nice having that same steak dinner at home as well. try to stay away from materialistic people and you might just find the perfect person. imo. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 10:42:41 AM | xxxmearse, you make me glad I'm single!
do you mind explaining yourself on this one!!
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:56:05 AM | | Women generally prefer dating at their social economic level, or better. If you want better quality women, you have to move up the food chain or risk scraping the leftovers at the bottom of the barrel. | |
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