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Posted: 1/3/2008 11:49:46 PM | well, I am still a virgin at 25 year old...
why am I still one?? not by choice or religious reasons. More like women are asking for fAR too much out of a guy, well the women in here in Los Angeles anyway. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 2:15:23 AM | I don't think sex is a meeting of 2 souls, I don't think sex is anything more than a bit of fun, I don't think virginity is a sacred thing because I don't even like the girl I lost mine to, well not anymore.
However, I don't go around sleepin with anyone, I tend to think of it as a matter of honor and that kind of non-sense to keep your number of partners within some kind of reasonable level so when you meet someone special and you get into a relationship she asks you a silly question like "so how many partners have you had" and you give her a silly answer like "I lost count when I ran out of room on my bedroom wall for notches"...
Basically, I don't think people should be just sleepin with everything that walks but purely for the reason that when you do meet that person, it's a bit more obvious they ain't just another notch on the belt and that even if no where near sacred, it's still meaningful and a little less likely you'll end up gettin bored and hookin up with some random person at some point. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 3:07:03 AM | everyones going to have their own opinion. and i think its obvious the way things are going to go on here...
people who don't have their virginity, think of it as something that's no big deal.
people who have it, think that it's special.
meh, whatever floats your boat. :P | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 3:19:58 AM |
That was just plain STUPID on your part and I have no compassion for someone that would think of something so highly and waste it on a dumb bet!!!
ch, if you never did anything at all that was stupid when you were 12, you are a rare person indeed. Way to be supportive.
I've had thousand dollar offers on my virginity (from a nice friend)
gosh...you and I clearly have different ideas about the definition of "a nice friend." Your "nice friend" wanted to make you into a prostitute. Sweet of him.
OP, I don't necessarily agree that virginity is anything sacred either, except in its scarcity (not scarcity as in there's a scarcity of virgins, but scarcity as in each person is only a virgin once). Like another poster said, though...you're a lot of things only once. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 3:20:30 AM | This post should be read as: A "Moments of Clarity" by,
Im a sucker for a woman that wears satin lingerie or lace maybe both lol!he is very hygenic.My sexual intersts include as following:
bondage,domination and submissive,fore play,oral sex,petting,he is open and willing to try new experiences as long as it's in my comfort zone!.
Best of luck with your move. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 6:36:36 AM | | its better to lose your virginity at 12 than to go to your grave a virgin.....society forces people into a freakin midlife crissis when theyre 20 years old we all have an expirey date and there comes a point where its too late to start because societys rule is if you are a virgin over 20 you MUST have something wrong with you and 9 out of 9 women say they will never date a virgin so trust me there is a rush...sex is like getting a job...if you are 17 and have no experience its not a huge deal you gotta start somewhere but if you are 25+ with no experience not too many ppl want to hire you...so there is a rush and if youre 17+ still a virgin its time to panick because the society imposed expirey date is nearing.....VIRGINITY IS ONLY SACRED TO THOSE WHO GET LAID. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 7:36:31 AM |
people who don't have their virginity, think of it as something that's no big deal.
people who have it, think that it's special.
Not true. I don't have it on a pedestal. Heck, I'll lose it to the first floozy that comes along.  | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 12:15:06 PM | When my mom talked to be about sex, she told me something that's stuck with me to this day.
When a man and woman love each other, they like to express it physically, and that
my body is the best gift I could possibly ever give my mate. Would I consider giving him a used gift? Not really, no.
Just mho. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 2:23:20 PM |
Would I consider giving him a used gift? Not really, no.
It's a vagina, not fruitcake. "Regifting" is perfectly acceptable. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 2:39:43 PM | | the one fully moral emperitive that all the apostles, whom our redeemer claim would sit on thrones and judge the 12 tribes, delivered to the nations was "avoid fornication" but that is the one thing that when mentioned as important to one in these united states of brothelica will get you screamed at, ostracized, accused of hate-mongering, being judgemental, (ad-nauseum) the most. Go figure. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2008 10:05:54 PM | no thank you i had one of them years ago and it hurt me more than her. poor little jr was skinned up for two weeks . if i am with a lady i want her broke in.yall other fellows can have the cherry i will just take the box it came in  | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing----Virginity
Posted: 1/4/2008 10:55:25 PM | In fact I wish I was still a virgin and be able to share it with the woman I love but I dont have that innocense anymore.
First let me say all of us have done dumb stuff at 12 a few learn from the mistakes that are made. Anything in this world that you feel is sacred, is or was to you. What other's say about it means nothing. Do not let the clowns ,inmoral, insensitive, or whoremongers cloud or change your thinking. You have a lot of great quality's that you show here. Remorse,Character, Integrity, Pride, and have learnded. The other poster's have a lot name less face's and meaningless encounter's, as I also do. I lost mine at a very earlier age and cannot even remember most of the details. And the one thing that I did learn. It has nothing not one thing to do with manhood. The three best men I have known all said they had not had sex before they were married. They all died married to that first woman, who had waited on them also. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2008 5:02:40 AM | Sometimes you fall in love and they just don't really love you back, happened to me, I'm not against premarital sex, because marriage isn't final and holding out for marriage leads more often than not into a rushed wedding and a messy divorce.
I think I fall in between a lot of demographics with this, cause religious abstinence ain't attractive but havin sex with anything that smiles at you kinda diminishes the whole thing when you get around to it.
What's even harder to explain is I don't even think it's an expression of love, just a good time to be had between 2 people that love each other. You know you're in trouble when your beliefs don't even make sense to you haha. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:37:37 AM |
When I was 12 I had lost my virginity over a 50$ bet, I kinda feel ashamed. To all of those people out there that are still virgins and/or are ready to give their virginity to someone let me have a word.
Virginity is such a sacred thing that we alla re born with. It is a resemblance of love, life, freedom and purity. When we lose all of those thing we realize in the end that we really should have kept it for someone we love. Your virginity is something that you should share with your loved one, someone that you are sure your going to spend a good part of your life with or even the rest of your life with.
In fact I wish I was still a virgin and be able to share it with the woman I love but I dont have that innocense anymore. Be careful ann remember
Will I be with them forever??
Please people put your words out there and let the rest of the world know how you feel about being a virgin or about how virginity is sacred to you or would have been if you hadn't lost it!
word!
you are running against the current of popularity tho...
well done. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 7:16:22 PM | As a philosopher, I can say that virginity was so highly valued in the past because of STDs. There was no way to treat them in the past. Nowadays most STDs can be treated, and as thus it is no longer a big issue.
That said, I am a virgin and while I want a girl that is pure, having a girl that is not a virgin is not a big deal to me. Being a guy that does not want to waste time with a girl he has no chance of spending the rest of his life with, I am waiting to lose it to that special someone.
I believe that sex is more that something pleasurable. It is simple to say that one only wants sex for the pleasure. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 1/19/2008 7:22:49 PM | Well.....SEX.....
Firstly.....educational sex......
Secondly.....intimacy.....privacy.....do your thing, but do it like it's the last time you ever will!
Most people when intimate.....become selfish, foreplay and touching, talking, carressing.....and then the longer it takes, the better the climax.
Take care all, and enjoy it!
Badbeatannie | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 8:57:26 AM | | Sex is no big deal when you are not conservative about with whom you have sex. If you are particular, then it is a big deal. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 11:54:17 AM | | Religion is a huge factor that comes into play when it comes to one's Virginity. Sex is sex and is a beautiful and enjoyable thing. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 12:03:34 PM |
Sex is sex and is a beautiful and enjoyable thing.
I agree and I think I probably have been at it longer but I don't give Christmas presents to just anyone either. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 12:20:44 PM | Those are such sweet words posted by the Good Wrench. I totally agree on what he said that virginity is a sacred thing. A lot of people think differently as they have different beliefs. The important thing is to lose it only when you feel ready.
For me I'll wait for the right right right person and I will never be ready until I've found him. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 1:28:21 PM | the idea of virginity may have it's origins in a useful way - but it has been re-defined to attempt to keep our children from having sex at a "too young age" (go ahead - I'll let you all define that)...
we, for years, haven't been teaching our children values and morales in a constructive way - in fact, you're a case in point. You're feeling guilty because you did something that - if you had it to do over again, you wouldn't...
don't beat yourself up - it'll all be fine. You've allowed some stupid rant by some self-righteous groups to crawl into your life and make you feel ill about yourself - which is neither appropriate nor healthy. | |
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| SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity
Posted: 2/2/2008 2:11:03 PM | I honestly couldn't tell you when I lost my virginity. I guess I didn't lose it so much as it kind of slid away from me. I probably didn't lose it when there was half-naked groping going on. Did I lose it when I first gave a girl head? When she gave me head? The first time I put it inside, just to see how it felt or does there have to be actual piston-like motion? Of course the first time that happened, I was having sensitivity (some condoms are better than others) issues and had to 'think outside the box' to actually orgasm, so maybe that doesn't count? So... does it only 'count' if my penis is inside when I orgasm? If I'm wearing a condom, am I disqualified because my ejaculate didn't reach the target "god intended"?
I'm really confused now. I guess I lost it sometime between the ages of 21 and 26.
Putting any special value on the hymen is also kind of retarded, in my opinion. Plenty of girls lose theirs to a saddle-horn and a brisk gallop or a bicycle seat and a steep curb. Just as infant boys are frequently circumcised at birth, there ought to be the option to nick an infant girls hymen, so she doesn't have to stress about it (actually, it's playing on my memory that some doctors will do this, but I might be mixing fact with fancy).
Ignoble... my answer to your question re:why people make a big deal about it... 2000 years of preaching by bitter, envious men who have taken a (frequently hypocritical) vow to never have any sex. They have been invested with an artificial authority because of a book written by a host of peyote chewing shepherds. No... I don't claim that this is a good thing or makes any sense... I'm just laying it out for you. | |
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