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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:20:51 PM | ^^^ Glad you are dripping sarcasam. Nuff said there.
Now, back to the subject at hand -
Gee, this is sooo weird. People actually tell people what they want to hear to get them in the sack? Woooooo, Thanks for the heads up...
Rape? Are you kidding me? Unless she/he is pinned down and screaming, or rendered asleep and/or senseless and you give it to her/him without consent...it is not rape. Rape is someone unaware of what is going on or put in such a position of being overpowered and has nothing to say about what is happening. Not an idiot that falls for a line of crap and sleeps with someone and then - WOW, the next day she/he is gone so that person cries foul or ummmmmmmmm, RAPE... soooo wrong. Give it up.
If whoever is foolish enough to fall for words and false promises at jumpstreet...their bad - cry rape?? Nahhhh, not even close. Cry stupid or naive, but not rape.
I know me and noone is "tricking" sex out of me...I have sex when I want to - maybe people should own their behavoir and not cry about it later...
It takes 2 people to have sex and unless what I mentioned above did not happen and one is dumb enough to fall for lines, so they lay down and do it ...AND this works the same with both sexes...some people are sad enough to buy anything told to them - well 'cause they are needy and lonely...that is another story.. But pleas to take spoken words of BS promises from "smoothe" talkers, I say these people don't need to cry rape, they just need a good old slap to the forehead... too bad they got a pump to the groin instead. Eyes wide open people.
I don't mean to be rude but- Lord - This is just stupid. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 6:28:50 AM | I dont think there shld be laws for that cause it takes 2 to tango an that if u dont want go thru with it you shld be big enough to say no an walk aways aan that if the person doesnt let you then find quickest way outs or make sure u have money call from pay phone get a taxi. Or even a cell phone in your purse or get in your acar an drive aways . I have known a few guys that have been tricked into sex by women so it cld run either ways . My sis claimed a false rape an the poor bloke even ended up marryin hers . Tgh i dont like my bro in law cause i think hes an idiot an a few other words an lowest of life forms . I have had times i didnt like my sister or put any claim towards her eithers . But nowdays u have be almost supisious if aaa guy offers buy u an expensive dinner an u can ask do i need money too pay my half dinner ? I know some guys wld be insulted but u can say i want ak u this before we date so if i do i wont be without it an no way to pay it . Comon people its time use the brains that god done gave you to wise up an be a lil street smarts abt yous.  | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 7:03:31 AM |
i opened this debate for those who trick people into bed with deliberate lies and false promises!!!! its completely different!
WTF???
I'd say they need to be a bit more keen on thier senses!!!! and not be so gullible.
There are lots of little signs that someone is a player; Furthermore, that is a chance you take. deliberate lies and false promises??? again goes back to being gullible enough to believe them. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 7:22:38 AM | I hate to point it out, but if this is happening regularly you might need to evaluate your/their criteria.
There is no trick into bed. If you are going to bed with people you shuold be an adult. As an adult you accept that not all actions have the desired outcome. Choosing to go to bed with someone is a personal decision with uncountable reasons to or not to. Are you implying that men are obligated to stay in a relationship that is unsatisfying to them because they had sex with a willing partner? Or were they just going to bed with these guys to "seal the deal"? If that were the case couldn't it be argued that these women you are referring to were trying to "trick" the men into long term commitments?
I fully anticipate you respondign by saying that this too was not the scenario you were discussing. So lets face it....your friends slept with a loser, sorry, learn from the lesson and move on. Instead of finding ways to punish others wouldn't it be more productive to help your friends realize why this loser's absence is a good thing? | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 8:54:09 AM | There should be laws against people asking this question. This is the stupidest thing I have read all morning.
Seriously, at the risk of sounding like a total cynic here, stop pointing the finger at other people for your own actions and take some responsibility for something. When people engage in consensual sex, they are consenting. End of story.
There are already way too many "moral" based laws in this country that make little to no logical sense. The last thing we need is another one that's equally absurd. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 9:44:29 AM | Hey OP, would you like to get married and live happily ever after? I got a reservation at a waterfront Marriott; let's get together and see how compatible we are. And then we can go and get hitched, I'll pay for the wedding, and give you my paycheck for the rest of my life. C'mon over, sweetheart. I feel you're different from all those other girls! I feel this must be IT!
/laughs/
Ha! I amuse myself with the stupid cattle who post this crap. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 4/20/2008 1:05:19 PM | You can't make a law against it, if you did where would it stop? Swap sexual gain for political gain in that sentence and then what happens?
Shouldn't the reason for having sex being YOU want to, not cos of anything he's promising you, bought you or done for you? If you did do it for one of those reasons isn't it a bit like putting a price on yourself?
If you need to be in love with someone before you have sex with them, then don't you love them for them - not because they claim to love you? If it is them you love then aren't you having sex because you want to make them feel good? If that's the case I don't see how it would come back on you. If it's just because they claim to love you then there should be some self-esteem issues not too far behind.
I really can't see how any serious damage could be done if you have chosen the right reasons to have sex. | |
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Posted: 5/11/2008 7:19:50 PM | Just a thought.....
Someone having sex in exchange for something.... there is a word for that isn't there?
Could it be prostitution? 
Ok turn this person in as a dumb prostitute, dumb enough not to collect payment before the act atleast.
All I can say is I hope precautions were taken because those have got to be one set of wickedly inferior genes. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2008 7:32:39 PM | For anybody concerned....do you think there should be laws against game players that trick you into sexual encounters and dress things up in deceit
Only if there are equally stiff laws against outrageous stupidity and eschewment of accountability, a la women blaming men for their own poor decisions.
Honestly, in my 2 years of being on these forums this is the single most ridiculous thread I've ever seen. I truly cannot imagine it sinking any lower then this. From here on I will measure the sheer stupidity factor of all future ridiculous threads against this one.
I can't stop coming back to this thread. The sheer stupidity is mind boggling. And I mean, it infantallizes women more then anything! I almost want to scour all 15 or so pages, just to see if ANYONE agreed with the OP.
Yea, I can't keep away. This is too mind boggling. I think this thread might be the dumbest thing I've ever read or even heard of in my entire life. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2008 7:13:34 AM | DSI: Date Scene Investigation-The Diagnostic Manual of Dating Disorders by Ian Kerner
http://coaches.aol.com/love-and-sex/feature/_a/dsi-date-scene-investigation--the/20060615153909990001
Is just one of the many books that will educate each and everyone of us as to what to be aware of during the selection process of a potential mate; especially if you are diligently working towards your 'Mrs. Degree'. 'He's Scared...She's Scared' and 'Deal Breakers' are also highly recommended.
DSI Excerpt: Is Your Relationship an Unsolved Mystery?
Are you a Victim of a Crime of the Heart?
Then it’s time to review his relationship rap sheet, and analyze the Dating DNA!
FILE:
The Case of the Cad Who Couldn’t Commit (Abridged)
THE DSI 911
On October 11 2005, DSI received a frantic call from Dating DUPE (Desperately Under to Pressure to Evaluate), Ms. Amelia Jacobs, who’d been dating her boyfriend for 14 months. She believed it was moving towards the "next phase," and the ARSE, (Anti-Relationship Suspect Examinee), gave clear indications that he was of a like mind and heart. Then, without warning, he began pulling away. Boundaries were imposed on the amount of time they "should" spend together. To cap it off, the suspect began reciting all of his faults and shortcomings, as if he were offering up ammunition to seal the deal with his own bullet. At her wit’s end, the woman called DSI with the age-old question: Was it to time to cut bait?
PRELIMINARY DIAGNOSIS
Our preliminary diagnosis of the ARSE suggests he suffers from a Fear of Commitment Compounded by Underlying Pressures (a/k/a FOCCed UP), with an accompanying defense mechanism that someone better may be out there. FOCCed UP is one of the most common forms of commitment phobias (others include "I’m Just Not Ready Syndrome" and "The It’s Not You, It’s Me Complex"). Its onset often comes as a surprise, since most suspects will hide their reservations until their fears become overwhelming and then make a run for it.
Yours in the Dance, | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:19:18 AM | | We have too many laws as it is. If someone is trying to trick you into sexing them, then wise the **** up. SEriously, learn how to handle the world around you and take responsibility for your own actions. Don't expect the government to do everything for you, our tax dollars can't even afford what it's doing for us now. For fukkking shit! | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:28:46 AM | I just NEED to know! How do you trick some one into bed?
That would come in handy on those lonely weekend nights. If anyone figures out how you do this, let me know. Maybe I could trick a few of these hot young college girls.
Unfortunately, there is no law against being "logically challenged" either. Sorry, OP, you left yourself wide open for all this teasing. Use common sense next time. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/13/2008 7:47:37 AM | | would be a touchy subject.people interpret things differently.if you said yes,then thats the bottom line,no charges.you may be able to sue.unless you want a man to do life in prison because you had sex and his feelings were not as intense as yours.thats falls under "grow up".you cannot have it your way all the time.there will always be people that lie and cheat,always.you have to be on guard for that.if you give in too fast,your bad,the man should not go to jail,thats just plain stupid.point is,you could be tried for filing false charges for revenge.perhaps you should learn a little self control,realize words are just words and make the guy work harder for "it".not trying to be mean,but stop setting yourself up,and stop trying to hurt people that hurt you.a lot of women now days like to file false charges,jail is no fun,ruins lives,and if you had to be there,you may understand.the courts are starting to recognize this and are jailing more women for just that,and rightfully so.you cannot make a man love you,and visa versa,just does not work that way.suck it up and move on,and keep you thing until you find a guy that will wait.you owe it to yourself! | |
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