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MNaja
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Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 977 | |
| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/21/2009 9:43:11 AM | Honestly, a woman is free to make her own choices. If she decides to have sex with someone: It's HER decision. Not his. If you feel 'tricked' then you need to re-evaluate why you feel that way. Did he not call back? How did he treat you once it was over? Once I met this amazing guy and had sex with him on the first date. A year later, we still date now and again and we truly care for and respect one another. We're not in a relationship - but I feel that's my fault for not waiting. I wasn't tricked - it was MY decision - and I paid the price. However, if a woman is coerced - like a man jumping on her when the date's almost over - then I feel some ('ahem' -  ) firmness is due. Let him know you're not having it - and if he doesn't get it call 9-1-1. He' ll get it then. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/21/2009 12:22:31 PM | law / PLEASE I have been dupted by the swave man claimming to be so dam attacted to my ass , and the time your buying it cause you want to .. you do the deed and sometimes for months only to find out the low life is married ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh and lied and warmed his way into your life with claims of forever and always and marriage and commitment // please
What we women NEED IS A HOT LINE ANNONOMAS TO LIST OUR DEARLY BELOVED CHEATERS LIST ,,,,,, name picture screen name and how about work and a list of the bullshit they scammed u with ... REVENGE BABY IS THE BEST WAY TO SURVIVE ,,, iVE MOVED ON BUT REST ASSURED HES STILL ON THIS SITE scamming some other victum of her world goodies ... Im well aware of the games played on this site and now twice aware of what the signs are and what i will or will not do and who i will do it with MEAT MARKET it may be but choice is A WOMENS CHOICE NO law will help us against ourself wake up smell the bull shit a mile away or be draged down by it a EDUCATED SMART WOMEN MAKE BETTER CHOICES lovin in fla | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/21/2009 3:27:00 PM | I got a lot of friends who are hockey players and lacrosse players and they do this all the time. The difference is they get turned down hundreds of times before they come across a girl dumb enough to fall for their stupid comments. To most people, it's quite obvious what is on a guys mind.
So maybe there should be a law against being a dumb, naive girl? | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/29/2009 7:47:47 AM | Does anyone remember waiting until marriage to have sex? For a woman to post a question like this makes me smile, because it is evidence of the backlash of feminism. The 'all of the benefits, none of the responsibility for one's own actions' mentality that feminism spawned is coming home to roost and it ain't pretty. But it's about time.
How about a law against stupidity. I rarely use that word, because I find it intellectually offensive, but if the shoe fits... | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/29/2009 6:04:01 PM |
Does anyone remember waiting until marriage to have sex?
I remember the Mafia, too -- doesn't mean I want any part of it.
The 'all of the benefits, none of the responsibility for one's own actions' mentality that feminism spawned is coming home to roost and it ain't pretty.
I don't think feminism has anything to do with it. I think it's the naivete of some people that tells them that having sex necessarily equals a commitment, and then they feel used/burned/etc. when they find out the hard way that reality doesn't work like that.
People can wait until marriage to have sex if that's what they want, but there's nothing wrong with having sex outside of marriage, either, as long as you approach it with a healthy mindset. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 5/29/2009 6:48:07 PM |
Do adult males actually dump women immediately after they've had sex with them? I thought this was a high school type behavior.
All the time. And get this: women dump men immediately after they've had sex as well. High-schoolish? Well, only if they go directly to the locker-room and brag and embellish. It's just what some people do.  | |
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| Nobody can be tricked into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/2/2009 8:58:04 PM | I do not believe that anyone can be "tricked" into a sexual encounter. We all make our own choices.
There is a man on this site that initially began by letting me know he was doing some nude sunbathing, likes giving and getting massages and offering me a romp in his hot tub along with a bit of wine.
After umpteen emails to that effect, I got a little bit off-color with a bit of help from one of my male friends, and sent him a follow-up email that no man can match the tongue of my dog and there is nothing better than a quality peanut butter smear or something like that. He responded in a completely raunchy fashion, which I also shared with my guy friend.
I fear for the woman or women that would take him up on his offers. I think he is really creepy, and buyer beware!
No names because that would not be fair of me, but please exercise good judgement | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/2/2009 9:30:02 PM | As far as bringing the law into the bedroom no I do not think we need to do this . This is an unusual situation for that matter.
If someone has seen someone for a number of months and feels they know them and then has sex and the other person decides to end the relationship there could be huge issues with the person who is ending it.
Maybe this person feels they were not up to par and rather than risk embarrassment they save their pride by ending the relationship. Unfortunately most first time things don't work out to perfection and had this person really hung in there they might have a totally different scenario. or.........
Maybe this person thought they had real feelings but after being with the other person figures out that sometimes loneliness masquerades as something more than what it actually is.
Or maybe they can not take no for answer so it becomes a game for them.
There could be all kinds of reasons Unfortunately this is a very dysfunctional way to carry on life.
There is no sure thing in life but it's all we have. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/3/2009 7:14:03 AM | The last email I got from the aforementioned man responding to the last email I sent him:
Original Message YOU sent on 6/2/2009 7 37 PM
My dog and I just finished up with a large jar of peanut butter.
Not really.
I guess you missed the part where I said I wasn't looking to meet anybody but like to write on the forums.
I think you are an internet predator and your pick up lines are pathetic. Are there really women out there that are so desperate and stupid that they fall for such garbage?
I can either block you or you can simply do me the courtesy of not emailing me anymore, since you already told me that you have no time to waste chatting, and simply want to get naked and massage each other.
I guess I was ambivalent the first time around, but I am going to be less ambivalent this time in that I am not here to meet anyone, but purely to write on the forums.
I hope that there are not too many women on here that take you up on your propositions, because I find you very repulsive in your approach towards women.
How am I repulsive? You're the one with the dog.. You are just a downright psycho. I think you need psychological help. I am not an internet preditor. I am a single guy who is looking to get married so I can leave my stuff to someone I love. What pick up lines, I say whats in my head and in my heart. I am a romantic, I am caring, I am fun. I am a photographer. I do like to be naked. I got the impression there's something wrong with you from the beginning, but I overlooked your faults and thought you could use a friend. I believe ALL The women on here so far have only proved to me that their husbands must have left them because they couldn't take their psychotic s h i t anymore, and I believe it. There needs to be a psychiatrist on this site to councel all the women on here. I've never seen so many stuck up women who think overly highly of themselves. There's only maybe 1 percent out here who actually want to meet someone, and they're fat and ugly. The other 90 either want to show pictures of themselves or just want the type of guy they're used to, the ones who f uc k them then leave them. Women love to be abused for some stupid reason, so when a nice guy like me comes along who is accepting and accompidating, they blow him off. You cant relate to people in person and go to the internet, you have the problem. Try going out and association with 2 legged people you freak. The women who know me, love me and my personality. I don't care what you do since you don't want to meet me. Oh, and getting naked and massage are not my only talents, but you'll never know...go get your stupid dog and let it stick it's disgusting penis in you you freak.. bye.
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Ladies, please be careful and exercise good judgement! | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/7/2009 9:16:39 PM | | This is ridiculous for the mere fact that if someone did say they loved someone and wanted to get married and slept with the woman or man, (the alledged victim) and somewhere down the road this person changes thier mind for whatever reason. The person who felt tricked could lay charges? I dont think so. That would make the act of having sex a contractual agreement between two parties with criminal consequences. This is life, the person feeling tricked would be better off to start improving his or her self esteem and confidence there by avoiding relationships where he or she feels the need to have sex with their partner to keep them . Lets face it, if your sleeping with someone on the first date because of promises made you are bound to be let down or disapointed. Sex is a consensual thing, rape is an act of violence,the two are not even close in comparison. Where would we stop. My ex girlfriend wanted to get married have children and all that goes with it. A year later without reason other then she didn't want to move to canada she broke it off. Should I be able to lay charges because we slept together? I think not. You get hurt,you get knocked down,you get up and you walk tall again. That's life. | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:29:15 AM | Theres a TRICK? Where the hell have I been? LOL
Wow. Ive never been tricked into "having any sexual activity" with anyone. Ever. There has never been a MOMENT where "because" I had too much to drink I was taken advantage of. OR taken advantage of someone else. If a person feels they have been "tricked" in some way you can't place blame on a person you AGREED to do anything with. The decision was yours. Your actions are your own. No one elses.
Now... I understand that for some individuals the lights are on, nobody is home... and the dog is just taking a big fat dump on the floor. But in the end... YOU exchanged bodily fluids on the DNA baked bedsheets. Or in the parked car, or motorhome... or trailer.
I think this is just an excuse to blame someone else for your poor judgement and actions.
What kind of trick could possibly take place? Give me oral sex for a quarter, put it under your pillow and tomorrow youll find a million bucks in the trunk of your car? Damn.
-gives you a big hug- | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/9/2009 1:25:03 AM | hi there . i have just read your post and found it most intresting to say the least. first and fore most i am sorry you feel that you have been conned, mislead and used... this is coming across loud and clear, and i can only imagine how hurt, and used and let down you must be feeling.
yes it can hurt to be mis-lead. how ever one should always remember ... if your esteem was so low that you felt that you had to engage in intimate relations which a man who's ultimate goal was to get your knickers off... i would like to draw to your attention two things.
the first, you must ask yourself as to why ,you felt so vunerable and trusting with some one who is a stranger.... (i have not read all the posts as im at work... and taking a break..) to engage in this... when you clearly felt that by sleeping with him, would make the relationship go further, or perhaps bring you closer...
remember men are physical....women are emotional... do not confuse sex with love... for if you do you will end up feeling as you are not, hurt, rejected, unloved.
no man should be slated because you were a willing partner. you decided to remove your clothes and lie down with him. you decided to open your legs, you decided not to choose the word no!
some women tend to confuse the notion of being loved by the fantasy of how it could or should be... the reality is very simple it is what it is... yes there are some players out there and you you got played... and really my heart hurts for you. it must have come as a huge dissapointment, but my dear... pick yourself up... brush yourself down, and get on with it....
im sure there are a lot of men on this site also that were dupped in this manner. example women getting their kit off for them...and expecting to have their every need and emotional taken care of ... or they expect the ultimate in material things... the hotter they are... the more expensive it gets... yes it happens to then two!!
might i suggest you look at your own life at the moment and ask yourself as to why you are so let down and hurt.. value yourself on all the wonderful things about you... not that you got your kit off and threw caution to the wind... yes there are so smooth taslkers out there...if he is worth it... he will wait, and if he's for you he will pass you by... however also accept some times things just do not work out, and sadly if things are not right, or compatable in the bed department... well that two can make a difference... dont beat yourself up... its over now, im sure you are a terrific person, and there are sure to be plenty of others out there of the opposite sex who feel the same...
let it go... dont give this man any more head space...
think twice the next time...and state clearly what you want... no head games or suprises... shoot from the hip... if he can accept this, well it is a good start. i wish you all the best of luck in the future..... remember to by pass the sharks and look for the few little angel fish swimming out there!!
love from ireland.
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:02:04 PM | Here's a better idea:
Take responsibility for your own actions, and make an informed decision as a consenting adult. If the person is selling you the world, you don't have to buy it. Have your own set of values and morals to live by, and stick to your guns no matter what the situation is. Then the only person you have to thank or blame is yourself, because you did or exactly what you did or did not want to do.
Imagine | |
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| Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters!
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:56:08 PM | | yes i know exactly what you mean! i fell for it, and feel so bloody stupid, like im 42 this week and thought i was smart but no not smart enuf.. i wish there was something in this site were you could post names and warnings for us women to go into, so we could watch for them....im afraid to write his name, but what i can say the girl that rang him on the night that i was with him, is also from in here and im sure shes not feeling to good at all either.... altho she did take it out on me instead of him.. | |
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