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 bob2013

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:07:08 PM
WOW!!!! Thank you Steve. I'm sorry I did not do the homework just a blanket read pages 30 to 60. Johne boy, you've been very bad. I guess to sumarize I would have to go with the idea you are just baiting people for attention. You are a truly sick individual if you can read through Malibusteve and my last 2 posts and not see how bad off you are. You degrade these women with a sense of impunity and see your self as some kind of judge and jury? Did your mom and dad stay together? What kind of experience in your life could possibly twist your mind so far off center? Johne there should be some kind of toxic warning on your profile. You disgust me. Bob
 quirkyfishy

Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 2627
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:10:27 PM
How much do we owe you, Steve?
 sireel

Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 2628
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:45:33 PM
Because, some women are collecting child support for the same kid from more than one man. This has gotten around and now men are aware of this.

enough said.
 Kiss_My_Karma~

Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 6/1/2008 9:54:27 PM
Well, isn't that just precious. Steve and Bob worked so hard to beat one off, and another one crops up out of nowhere.

Valiant effort, Bob, and especially Steve....I can't imagine how much time that must have taken you. But I think we're beating a dead horse here.

Shhhhh.....let's watch.
 LoonyTunz

Joined: 8/11/2006
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:04:41 PM
Simmah: Just inform him that pages 1 through 105 are required reading to contribute.
Lol even if he does re-appear you will have a bit of a break.
 MalibuSteve

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:05:59 PM

I'm sorry I did not do the homework just a blanket read pages 30 to 60.

Sadly, I just clicked on page 66 (the oldest one displayed when viewing the end of this thread) and went forward paying attention only to john's posts. Who knows how much I could have come up with by going further back (or including more of the repetition).


Because, some women are collecting child support for the same kid from more than one man. This has gotten around and now men are aware of this.

Good to know. Thanks for bringing this to our attention! This changes my whole outlook on the issue!



Well, isn't that just precious. Steve and Bob worked so hard to beat one off,...

Hey! Watch it with the accusations! I like Bob and all, but not that much... Oh, wait. I think I misread this.

And finally...

How much do we owe you, Steve?

After about 15 different responses to this, I finally decided to behave and delete them all. You know, you shouldn't bait us single guys with such leading questions.
 bob2013

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:11:09 PM
Hey Sireel, do you have a cousin or brother named johne? Bob
 desertrhino

Joined: 11/30/2007
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:11:54 PM

kameraman: Have you ever heard the conversation of a men discussing a man dating a single mother who has a preteen or teen daughter. Phrases such as "It's in the milk" and "steroids in the meat" constantly comes up. Trust me, men can be real howlers(serious dogs). women (regardless are age) are rated constantly-And if they have daughters, their daughters are compared to them!! Some men simply don't want the temptation of a younger girl running around that looks similar and perhaps better looking than their mom-the honest cold hard truth. Best if the girl lives with her dad are grandmother unless the guy is a die-hard Christian and attends a solid church(which simply means he has less probability of being a freak).


Ummmm... whut?

Dude, that is some seriously f-ed up logic there. Or illogic. I'm not sure what it is. I'm pretty sure it's f-ed up though. So, no man could possibly resist making sexual advances against a step-daughter unless he's a die-hard Christian? WTF-ever, mate.

And just a bit of free advice: Get new friends. The ones you've got now (who sit around rating pre-teen daughters) are seriously disturbed.
 quirkyfishy

Joined: 5/6/2008
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:14:49 PM

I finally decided to behave and delete them all.


Behaving is overrated....especially on this thread!

 Kiss_My_Karma~

Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:23:17 PM
You know, I couldn't figure out why I couldn't sleep. It must have been that this thread was silently calling to me. I'm glad I caught this. And now I can rest. Ahhh the sleep of the just.
 fr0gkiss3r

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 2636
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Posted: 6/1/2008 11:58:24 PM
Finally, a new response to Johne's repetitive posts! Thank you Steve... I may just be a selfish [according to some people] childfree woman, but I'm rooting for all you parents! We're all the same even though you have kids and I don't: we all want to be respected as individuals, not lumped into some stereotype. I'm stereotyped as a child hater [I actually love children] just because I don't want my own children, while you're stereotyped for being golddiggers. You just can't win, can you? That's why it's best to be friends only with people who respect you, no matter how much they may disagree with your choices. Life is too short to allow others to insult your dignity.
 Laneybird

Joined: 3/6/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2008 12:32:00 AM
MalibuSteve...Im sure Ive told you before...but I'll say it again...I LOVE YOU!

Lol...well Im looking forward to seeing Johns response, but somethings telling me he wont respond...
 sireel

Joined: 4/13/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 4:28:58 AM
I guess sometimes, some men don't date single mothers for the same reason some men sometimes use birth control (condom).

You may as well, ask why some men insist on using condoms !!!

Sorry folks. This third wave of lipstick feminism is just not very persuasive to this man.

and wassup with the new fetish for being cuckolded ?? Is this something similar to the other feminist strategies ahhh this is funny
 Kiss_My_Karma~

Joined: 7/4/2005
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:22:21 AM
Hm....when I've met new men, and the time comes to be intimate....guess who is 99% of the time the one to bring up the condom issue? Not them, I'll tell you that.

Who's "cuckolding" who here? I've seen your other posts, dude. You don't seem to like women much. I'm not sure what a lipstick feminist is, but the feminist movement was 30 years ago...let it go.
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:41:07 AM

but the feminist movement was 30 years ago...let it go.


And we are seeing the reprecussions of its 'activism' today...

Something to be proud of....
 Rachel_Mae

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Posted: 6/2/2008 5:42:30 AM
I have been there too...but I found that I need to keep a positive head about it all. I posted a forum about a different topic and a very rude person responded telling me that no guy is going to line up when a mom has baggage. Wrong! I dont have a problem finding guys, its just i wanted my family..with the man I created it with. Yes there are some guys out there that dont want kids, or are not ready to step up to that plate yet. I would just advise you that when you are on here or any dating sites, you make it a point to show you have a daughter right off the bat. So if a guy responds..they know whats included from the get go...Good luck to you!
 Ms.Beavenhouse

Joined: 5/7/2008
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Posted: 6/2/2008 6:15:40 AM
Steve
You rock dude!

sireel

Lipstick feminism? Who is c*ockolded? I'm trying to see how this relates to single mothers. Are you sure you know what the terms means? Both terms are related to sex and you seem very angry, hmm...



 fr0gkiss3r

Joined: 10/1/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2008 9:43:30 AM
Smuggler, what repercussions are you referring to? The fact that women can divorce men and financially rape them? That's a legitimate concern, but it's not as though women put a gun to the judge's head and forced him to create that law. If men despise that law so much then why don't they start a petition against it? If employers didn't give female employees considerably smaller salaries than men, we might even feel obliged to help you. How bout all of us, both men and women, just storm into the U.S. Supreme Court and demand equality. I'm sure that'll get their attention!
 rock_hunter

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 10:14:05 AM
The fact that women can divorce men and financially rape them? That's a legitimate concern, but it's not as though women put a gun to the judge's head and forced him to create that law.

We're not discussing who's guilty of that law. We're explaining that the law is there, and therefore we won't run the risk of getting married. Your argument is like a murderer saying: "yes, I shot him, but hey, I didn't manufacture the gun, I just used it.".

If men despise that law so much then why don't they start a petition against it?

Have you heard the term "voting with your feet"? That's what men are doing by discarding marriage. It's YOU who are interested in marriage. YOU are the ones complaining because men won't commit. Therefore, it's YOU who should do something about it.

If employers didn't give female employees considerably smaller salaries than men, we might even feel obliged to help you.

Myth, so many times debunked that I fail to see why a smart person would pull this card. Anyway, if you don't feel obliged to help men, why should men feel obliged to relieve you of your singlehood?
 fr0gkiss3r

Joined: 10/1/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2008 10:25:15 AM
Actually, I don't want to get married. Nor do I want to even cohabit with a man. I've been [and still am] in a LAT relationship with the same man for 3 years, but I don't ever want to marry him. It's great just the way it is, so why are you telling me I want to get married? I believe single women are happier than married women -- why else would they initiate 75% of all divorces [excluding golddiggers]? Also, there are lots of single women out there who feel the same. Sounds like you ASSume too much.
 MzMia

Joined: 12/31/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 11:47:46 AM
I may be late but ill tell you exactly why we single mothers are having a difficult time. Its because most men dont want the responsiblity of taking care and providing for another man seed. im a straight forward female so i asked this question to a couple of my guy friends and they said the same thing so im like wow. it really isnt about providing for the child cause personally i can do that by myself, i dont need help in that dept. and i also got this answer too, a female with kids isnt always "available" and/ or always busy. and that it isnt the same as with dating a motherless child because they can do whatever whenever with no worries and things like that but , i have run across a couple that didnt care but it all became very overwhelming for them really quick so they left. but it takes a strong man to step into a relationship like that i think. and vise versa . it might take a while to sort out the men from the boys but they will come when its time i believe (hopefully)
 fr0gkiss3r

Joined: 10/1/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2008 11:48:08 AM
And if the court system is afraid to say NO to people and simply give in to their complaints [or threats], then maybe the court's fear is representative of the gun in that analogy -- not the women. They're shooting themselves in the head. What are the courts so afraid of, women hating them? Boo hoo. People hate the government for not giving them tax breaks, but that's not stopping them from increasing taxes. So why should it be any different in this case? Give me a break.
 MzMia

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Posted: 6/2/2008 11:52:49 AM
UMMM I AM A YOUNG SINGLE MOTHER OF FOUR RECENTLY DIVORCED AND I DONT COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT FOR NIETHER OF MY KIDS . I DONT BELIEVE IN FORCING SOMEBODY TO DO WHAT THEY SUPPOSED TO DO. CAUSE IVE SEEN THAT EVEN IF U DO FILE CHILD SUPPORT AND THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO PAY THEY STILL DONT PAY SO WHAT NOW.
 Smuggler1

Joined: 2/2/2008
Msg: 2649
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Posted: 6/2/2008 12:08:09 PM

Smuggler, what repercussions are you referring to? The fact that women can divorce men and financially rape them? That's a legitimate concern, but it's not as though women put a gun to the judge's head and forced him to create that law. If men despise that law so much then why don't they start a petition against it? If employers didn't give female employees considerably smaller salaries than men, we might even feel obliged to help you. How bout all of us, both men and women, just storm into the U.S. Supreme Court and demand equality. I'm sure that'll get their attention!


Wow...

Just maybe you should take a look at the last 30/40 years.

Feminism started out on paper, and looked like a really good idea... then when put into practice, it didnt turn out so hot. Womens Lib and the Sexual revolution... yeah, they wanted all the rights to do with thier bodies as they saw fit... fine.. they want to have as much sex with as many men as they can.. fine.. now come the babies... And who is it thats going to help raise them?? Ooops.. forgot about that little spin off..

Equality... Nah... Not going to happen.. women say they want equality, right up to the point when the check comes... then they want chivalry.

And before you start... Ive said it before... at the age of 18, men in this, good ol US of A, have to sign up for the draft. Failure to do so holds stiff penalties... 5 years in prison, and/or $25000 in fines. In some states, failure to sign up for the draft, does not allow you to receive student aid, or get a drivers license... Women dont have to sign up for anything... They get it handed to them.

And no, the judge didnt create that law... if you think judges create laws, you need a civics lesson... They are inforcing the laws created...

As for employers paying less to women... Studies have been shown, that women are more often put on the fast track for advancement and pay, than equally qualified men. Simply because they are... Women.

So... why dont the women jump up and start signing your petitions for the draft?? Most feminists think we menfolk are useless anyway. Although I dont recall how many women were killed building all of our infrastructure, the railway systems, the power lines across America, the subway tunnels... hmmm
 sireel

Joined: 4/13/2007
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Posted: 6/2/2008 12:12:06 PM
let it go? lol Inform yourself cutie.

Since you asked, Lipstick Feminism is what they call the current and third wave of feminism.

The distinct attribute of third wave (Lipstick) Feminism suggests that women should "embrace their sexual power", and has brought us stuff like pole dancing lessons for suburban soccer moms at the local YMCA and the very popular tv show - Sex in the City.

It's manifesto further states that familiarity breeds contempt. (shrug)

I'm not making this stuff up. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lipstick_feminism

Cuckolding - Paternity fraud estimates are as high as 30% now. ie if a man has a family of 4 children, it's virtually guaranteed that one of them will not be his. Such cases have been appealed while the courts and judges have basically said, tough luck to these men and said that someone has to pay and these irresponsible women need help otherwise these children will fall through the cracks of society. So, the courts are knowingly holding men financially liable for and responsible for the children of their wives and or ex wives studs. Don't make me paste that url too. Just start to open your eyes.

http://www.canadiancrc.com/Paternity_Fraud.aspx

I love REAL women whom are pro family within a definition that includes fathers and men. Regretfully, that seems rare. Most women today are in a state of arrested development, forever stuck in the matting and courting station of life. Pity.
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