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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 4:45:56 PM | So Bob many other men are posting why they will not date single mothers...there must bw something to that...we have our reasons..if you do not want te answer to why men will not date single mothers do not ask the questions.
Bob I think you would make a good grand father....lol
So why should a man take on another man's responsibility? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:03:45 PM | No Johne, I am a good grandfather. No man should take on another's responsibility. Sometimes in life it just happens. You should do what your heart tells you to do. In your case, well that's accademic you don't have a heart, but if you did it tells you not to date these women. So great, don't, nobody is twisting your arm. Go have your family, that's what you said you want. Now as too the other men. I have respect for several of them Looney, even tempered, intelligent, makes good points. Rhino who comes down on both sides of the issues, but is fair. Kidding another guy who can get worked up, has his points, rarely calls people names. Now I'll get flamed for this but even Smuggler gets his point across, maybe a little less fairly, but still tries to reason it out, even though he is always on the other side of the issue and sometimes goes to far. But you Johne are unique to this thread, you've been on every single damn single mom thread spouting hate, lies, fantasies and all in repetition over and over and over. Nothing new no meat and substance. You are obviously getting off on all the attention. So I have to assume this is your whole life, no women, no family, no tv, just you posting on your computer to get a rise out of these ladies. Sad Johne,really really sad. Bob
PS Johne the question was asked 3 years ago when this started. As far as your concerned you have answered with lies, deceit, and fantasies 7 times a day 7 days a week for over 6 months. Everyone knows what your going to say before you do. Is it a memory condition? Did you forget you posted or are you just playing with yourself while everybody reacts to your nonsense? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:09:46 PM | | If single mom's want better dating options..pick better partners and maybe here's an idea...instead of dating focus on your kids..they are only young once and as they come first you do not need or have time for a man. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:27:03 PM | | Johne, insulting and lying as usual. "you do not need or have time for a man" You get to make this decision? Are you Moses come down from the mount with "Johne's ten commandments" Thou shalt not date single moms" "Thou shalt not give them money" Who the he11 do you think you are you pompus little weasel. They take care of their kids, they have time for a life. Who are you to determine. Why don't you tell them about your other lie your spouting? How about sperm donors being held responsible for child support in canada by law? there is no such law moron. Sperm banks records are sealed idiot. You even have to sign a release to get use of their sperm. You are a liar!!!!!!!Bob | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:28:07 PM | Hey Bob...
No man should take on another's responsibility
Would you mind, since apparently the women here will not, tell me where the single women are, that do NOT have kids???
The question was asked 3 years ago, and in scamming the posts to the original question, several of the 'single men' post along the same lines... And then there are the men, who like yourself, seem to be circling the wagons, protecting the 'damsels in distress'... So, what you are stating, by your post, is that men who have opinions CAN post here, except when the opinion posted does not agree with your views of the world?? OR does not go against the grain, so to speak... We all have to agree that single mothers are in need of defense, and need to be placed on that pedestal...??
Its almost as if the original question was posted in the wrong section, as Ive stated before... None the less, the heart of the question would lend itself to be asked of single men. And because it is answered by single men, they seem to be fair fodder for guys like yourself to rip appart.
Everyones experience is different, your's, mine, johnes... even the "newbie".... but none the less, the answers they/we have given seem to be concise, and to the point. How is it they are deserving of the verbal tongue lashing?? Have you become one of the forum police as well??? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:37:58 PM |
Would you mind, since apparently the women here will not, tell me where the single women are, that do NOT have kids???
Here is a clue....They are NOT in the single parents forum. They are the one at the airport jetting off for weekend getaways at a moments notice. They are the ones out for drinks with their girlfriends after getting off work, etc. etc.
Perhaps if you just decided to stop hanging around here with all us single moms, you might run into one... | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:42:12 PM | | I persoanly don't see the issue with dating a single mother. I do beleive the same problem arises for single fathers. I'm a single father and have trouble finding a women they find out I have my children. I would sooner date a single mother in my situation than I would a single women with no children. I would think they would be more understanding to the situation. As far as men feeling like they are taking on another mans responsibility, not every guy is that way. If you find one that feels that way do you really want to get hooked up with him. As most parents already know, parenthood is a major life change and takes adjustment. It's hard to just get in the middle of it all the sudden because your dating someone with kids. I always feel a little uncomfortable at first when dating a women with a child. There are a lot questions. How does this person handle this situation or that situation? Am I doing the right thing? Is it ok for me to do this. Bare in mind that though I may care or that child as my own he/she is not my child. If something happens with the women and I, that child isn't comming with me. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 5:54:24 PM |
Well, you ask a stupid question, you get an answer that is fitting. You're welcome.
LOL.... Oh?? is that what you tell your darling little curtain climber?? There are "stupid" questions??? I mean really.... You seem very interested in making sure that all guys who do not agree with your 'situation' should be shunned and silenced. Maybe Johne or any number of the single guys have struck a nerve with you??
Hmmm | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:08:21 PM | single women without kids? There are quite a few of them around here. Go ahead and search around 80301 with "no kids" selected.
Maybe you need to move?
Or maybe they just smell the stench of mid-life crisis before you get in range and *run*... or play the "sorry, I'm gay" card.  | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:24:12 PM | Keep chippin your teeth, jackoff.
It was kind of amusing to watch you throw bob under the bus when he was defending you.
You might want to get that bitterness and jealousy dealt with... it can't be good for you. I actually know a good therapist in Quincy... one of my ex-wife's classmates. Want me to hook you up? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:24:13 PM | Here is a clue....They are NOT in the single parents forum. They are the one at the airport jetting off for weekend getaways at a moments notice. They are the ones out for drinks with their girlfriends after getting off work, etc. etc.
Perhaps if you just decided to stop hanging around here with all us single moms, you might run into one...
Hahahaha! No kidding. I like tall men, maybe I should be in the "why don't women like short men" threading, beating them up for not being what I want. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:26:43 PM | Smuggler, I love ya. No police here. In fact I risked flaming from the mob to give you kudo's in a post above. You are more balanced than some, far better then many. I just think, that there are many ways to post, to answer the question. You get rowdy on occasion but maintain your spirit in a more positive place, most times. But others seem to take delight in torturing these women like pulling wings off a fly. I'm not saying date them, I'm not saying their views are always right. They are just people, like ALL us single people seeking a relationship with somebody. They are just women looking for good men who happen to have children. This place is for all kinds and I think they deserve their shot at happiness, just as you do. But if you don't like them, then don't date them. Here they seek answers as to why some won't, can't say all their reactions are good. The ones on here now seem more balanced then some who flamed earlier in the thread. Why is it some guys can get on here and say "no I won't date them because of blah blah blah" and not be derogatory in doing it. Yes some women will say "that's not right" or "that's not a good reason". Let's not forget some carry their own baggage, and I've seen women who won't shoulder up if it's way out there. But take now for instance "bugatimoron" oops, sorry bout that. His post was derogatory, hateful and juvinile. He has his mind elsewhere and probably wouldn't date these women anyway, not his style. But to spit on them, make rash judgements, be all cute in doing it. No problem I like cute, so I gave him back cute. Bottom line we're all single people looking for the same thing, a connection with another human being. Bob
PS smuggler, most women in my age range have or had kids, their usually gone by this time so it's all good. But there are a few w/o down here in Hotlanta
PPS besides that was between 2 NYC guys. Bugattimoron was from A sstoria pansy part of town I was raised in alphabet city on lower east side, shootings every night. Went to school in the south bronx. He was taught to fight to win. I was taught in fights to maim or kill. LOL | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:37:45 PM | :)
LOL... Unlike the suggestion of my 'pet' Im not throwing you under the bus. Nor did I know that he had a 'gay' card.... But none the less, I have always enjoyed the common sense approach you seem to bring.
Just seems that lately, anyone who posts.... ANYONE... if its not along the lines of 'political correctness' well then.. its all open for the flamers (<-- get that pet?)
To try and shame or humiliate them into submission. As for the single moms who seem to patrol this thread... it always seems to be the same ones who get thier feathers in a ruffle, and are the first to jump up and down about it.
And yeah, its difficult, some dont deserve the lot they have been handed, and personally I think there are some guys that seriously need to be snipped.... as I said to a single mother here, if the guy isnt going to step up to the plate (be responsible) then he doesnt need the balls to play with!
My major frustration lies with the women who go against all odds... knowingly get involved with one of those guys that are responsible for creating that stereo type... then come here to **** about how terrible men are, after the fact.... | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:44:53 PM | sh!t, smuggler (get that?)
You cost me $20. I had an over/under on when you'd call me gay, since calling me a woman wasn't effective... and you missed it by 2 days.
I just find it deeply amusing you think it *should be* effective. The $20 is just money, after all. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:46:20 PM |
As for the single moms who seem to patrol this thread...
I think I will pass on my promotion to patrolwomen. The outfits are not flattering and there is way to much running for my taste.... I wish everyone well finding exactly who YOU are looking for.  | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 6:55:37 PM | Dont you just hate it when a pet wont listen.... You try to train, but it doesnt work...
Oh.. BTW pet... I havent called you anything. Other than being the 'manly man' that you apparently are... wooo hooo...
Quirky... There's more to life than being on patrol, unlike the pet, you dont seem to need much help. You have it together. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 6/18/2008 7:49:37 PM | Wow, reading today's posts, I have to wonder, are the parents posting today, or have the kids taken over the computers? Everything posted today spawns from ignorance, bitterness, and/or anger. I haven't seen a single post today that was worth the time to read it.
To paraphrase Rodney King: Can't we all just grow up? | |
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