| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/11/2007 10:29:36 AM | | Could you please provide a link showing that the cases are in fact isolated and that a step parent is not obligated to pay? The way I read the federal guidelines, which are part of the act, is that once you meet the criteria you are obligated to pay since the basic tenant of child support is that it is a right of the child. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/11/2007 10:56:20 AM | luvinglife2: Why do you not do some research? I gave you a link to a woman's supp ort group site that clearly states a step father has to pay and how to go about getting support.
Show me where this is an issolated case of paying child suppport for a step child?
If someone does not want the drama of dealing with an ex spouse and child that may not respect them and do not want to risk financial liability they will aviod dating single mothers. Many single moms are good people but some are not. The problem are the ones who are not. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/11/2007 3:38:58 PM |
I gave you a link to a woman's supp ort group site that clearly states a step father has to pay and how to go about getting support.
By god, if it says so on the internets it must be true!
I've done my research. I'm not the one here trying to make people believe that it's a law, when it's clearly not. There has to be a demonstrated intention to treat a child as a child of his or her family in order for the support to be considered. Following that, there are a myraid of considerations.
I'm done with you. After browsing through some threads on here it is easy to see that you have a strange obsessions with single parents and $$$. People make compelling posts in a futile attempt to respond to you but you pick and choose what to listen to without giving notice to what you don't want to see. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/11/2007 11:06:07 PM |
Its a two way street just thought I'd throw in that it seems to me single dads have a harder time finding willing women because everyone seems to think we are lacking and just out to find a mom. Maybe its the same but I am partial to my side haha ;)"
You Have NAILED it ..... in fact I hit the Not Looking for a MOM in My profile HARD!! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/12/2007 10:10:42 PM | """"I'm done with you. After browsing through some threads on here it is easy to see that you have a strange obsessions with single parents and $$$. People make compelling posts in a futile attempt to respond to you but you pick and choose what to listen to without giving notice to what you don't want to see. """
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Johne is f*cking realistic..you have to be on the other side to know.. i guess each one has their own situation depending where the f*ck you stand
Go find yourself someone who is f*cking willing to pay for child support or stupid enough or too smart to make this decision. NO DECENT MAN who has a job and has the average looks will take a single mother without considering his options...Unless that dumdfack DO NOT HAVE a logical brain and does not think about the consequences or he is too desperate that he wants to tap that sweet ass of the MILF..OTHER THAN THAT...the normal guy will not find it an easy decision to date a single mother.... | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/12/2007 10:20:37 PM |
some of these kids might even degrade you calling you a dumb motherfacker which you might be since you make the dumbest decision to stay with the mother to raise them.. and pay for the bills and this is how you repay my gratefulness motherfacker
Sounds ironic but true. Some kids might even despise you and I do not blame them -- that is human nature -- but who is f*cking putting food on the table -- you little ingrateful **stards.
And when the shiit go down, the mother always side with the kids no matter how wrong the little kid is and if things do not work out, you are kicked out of the house but MIGHT still have to pay for the bills WITHOUT getting the booty..ENough is enough...
Financially speaking, I was dating a single mom who has lots of loans because she got pregnant while going to college and I have to help out with her loans -- indirect COSTS of dating a sinle mother..
I can give you another million reasons why I am right not because I chose to be right but rather because the situation dictate so...Shitload of useless drama all for nothing..Move the f*ck on
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/12/2007 10:36:07 PM | | I am a single male and I have no problem with and/or dating single mothers. The single mothers that I have dated don't play any games and are honest and up front. Plus, I feel they know whats important in life- family, friends and quality time. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/16/2007 9:43:42 PM | | Disney: Parkerkimm could use better language but he has a very valid point some jut refuse to se it. (I am not talking about you but the poster who said she was through with me, she lives in Ontario and refues to accept the laws.) | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 10:25:19 AM | Sooooo.... "money" is the reason why single men do not like single mothers?
I realize the previous two or three pages are all about how a single parent can get money out of a non single parent... but is that really EVERYONE'S motivation... MONEY?
What ever happened to liking someone for them. Regardless if they have children or not.
Meh... carry on with your senseless rant (because you can). | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 12:53:35 PM | Diggy03:
I do not want to pay child support for a child that is not mine and as I am looking for a lifetime committment that is why I would be nervous about dating a single mom. Some wonder why men will not date single mother's. I have known a few single mom's with 3 kids each from differant men. In each case the single mom's said they loved getting support from 3 men from one child but as the man was not the child's biological father he had no rights. Why get into a situation where you have no rights and it may cost you money to support children you did not bring into this world?
I am looking for a life partner, not a leach. I have had a few bad experiences dating single moms and will not do it again because the risks out weigh the rewards. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 1:50:00 PM |
I have had a few bad experiences dating single moms
No way! Ya dont say. You shi.ttin' me?! I dont believe it! I mean, I could never guess by the countless redundant posts. Wow. Im just in utter disbelief! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:10:30 PM | You need to reverse the tables here! A man that shuns the fact that you have a child is not the kind of mature, loving man you'd like to have in your life anyway. He likely needs a bit of maturing to do to handle this relationship package as a whole. You and your daughter are a total package and you probably need to raise the bar in regards to whom you'd choose to bring into your life. Make a list of the the qualities you require in a man and I think this would be a good start in the screening process to wead out the incompatible men that, by choice, choose to not date or be with a woman with child(ren).
Hope this helps!
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:13:22 PM | I am confused by something here Johne,
I do not want to pay child support for a child that is not mine and as I am looking for a lifetime committment that is why I would be nervous about dating a single mom. How do you pay child support for someone else's child if you are in a lifetime committment relationship? You do not pay child support if you are together a lifetime. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:30:10 PM |
I do not want to pay child support for a child that is not mine and as I am looking for a lifetime committment that is why I would be nervous about dating a single mom.
So you are implying that a single mom cannot bring a lifetime commitment?
I am looking for a life partner, not a leach. I have had a few bad experiences dating single moms and will not do it again because the risks out weigh the rewards.
We all have had some bad experience in one form or another. The difference is, some dont paint them all with the same brush. Because I used to be in the law enforcement field, I dated a slew of them in my time. They have a tendency to have a high divorce rate and infidelity, however, Im not sitting in a law enforcement room REPEATING how badly RIPPED I was. My god. Grab some balls and quit the pity me load of bullsh.it that spews from your mouth. Im sick to death of your repeated crap.
I
GET
IT
you
have
been
burned
by
many
single
mothers.
Help ME help YOU. Its apparent you are looking for some form of validation(yea, Im shrinking you now)
You made your choice not to date them. Im in agreeance. You shouldnt. We GET THAT. You explain it over and over again. What exactly is it you want to hear? What MORE exactly DO YOU WANT?! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 3:41:59 PM | The men that turn and run when you mention your daughter to them and she is part of the package. Its because they only want your full attention, and its their loss not yours or you daughter. There are guys there what would love to date you and have your daughter in their life. Don't give up on dating because I haven't because their are guys out there that would like to be in my life and my kids life and bring them up as their own. Sometimes guys
just don't want to deal with the ex or the father of your daughter because if they do something wrong or say something wrong then your ex is all over them. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 9:44:47 PM | Canoe and Disney: When I say I am looking for a lifelong committment, yes I know a single mother could make a loife long committment, but it goes back to my experiences dating single moms, let's just say (and I have posted about this before) I once knew a woman collecting child support from 3 men for one child. That is a red flag and with the experiences I have had it makes me shake my head and wonder why many single mom's are not upset and the behavior of some single mom's when dating because it can scare men off. I have listed previously how I have been used by single moms and with the number of men posting on these forums saying the same it is not an issolated case. While many would not use or attempt to use/get someone to be a meal ticket some do and that is the problem in my experience is that some use their children as an excuse to be gold diggers. Yes a woman without a child could be a gold digger or a man could be too, but when there is a law that encourages someone to be a gold digger it makes me nervous and as I have not dated a single mother looking for a lifetime committment it makes mer nervous.
There are many who are looking for a life partner, the problem are those lookiing for an extra wallet tht happens to be attached to a man. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 9/17/2007 9:51:56 PM | this is me pulling my hair out. see? i have no more hair cause Ive pulled it out while typing to you.
you truely are a lost cause.
im going to kick myself too, for continously going back to this thread. I thought repeating myself to my 5 yr. old was bad. wow. | |
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