| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:19:59 AM | | There are some men who will date single mothers but most (or at least most under 35 will not from my experience) so maybe there is something to it...I think a single mom should try harder to prove she does not fit into the stereotype that I have experienced. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:37:16 AM |
I think a single mom should try harder to prove she does not fit into the stereotype that I have experienced. A single mother should NOT have to PROVE herself to anyone other than herself. You either accept her as she is or walk. It's that simple. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:51:26 AM |
I think a single mom should try harder to prove she does not fit into the stereotype that I have experienced.
This was an idiotic poorly thought out statement.
Why should anyone have to PROVE anything?
Single PARENTS (you need to get off this beef that its just single mom's) do not owe anyone an explaination. If they are ignorant enough to believe in stereotypes, and want them to disprove, then they are not worth my time.
Your perception of single mom's is astounding and dilusional. It reaks of bitterness. You really need to seek some counceling on how to better control your own stereotypes. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:12:44 AM | Single mums are hot 
At least you dont have to worry so much about them wanting to move in after a few shags, expecting you to be joined to them at the hip (or groin) 24/7 and you know in advance they SHOULD have some ability to support themselves, manage their own lives and face responsibility etc etc
And obviously you wont need a sex manual or L plates for their jimjams to have fun with them lol | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 1:26:29 PM | Hello, well i do not think that all guys will run, for example the lovely lady that i am now going with has two kids, they are great.. i guess some guys may feel its a burden but there will be others out there who will love you and your kids...
Keep looking and keep fishing the right guy will come alone sooner or later....     | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 3:50:20 PM | I realise I am bias because i am a single dad.
But i love single mums, because in general to fulfill that role successfully they have to be both loving and caring. These are the main qualities i look for in a woman (not only as a father but as a man). | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 4:11:46 PM | Many men have had bad experiences in the past with single mom's that they may want to aviod..so for me personally if I was to date a single mom (a big if) she would have to prove she can suport herself without my help, she woud need to prove she would be a great potential wife and she would need to prove she does not fit into the streotypes of many of the single mother's I have dated.
A single man needs to prove that he will be a great husband and can get along with the kids for it to work right ladies? If the kids are not happy you will leave..right? So why should a woman not have to meet certain criteria as well? That is all I was saying when I said she would have to prove herself. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 5:15:44 PM |
Many men have had bad experiences in the past with single mom's
No. YOU have had many bad experiences. Sh.it. How can we forget that? You remind everyone in every post you make. For Christs sake Johne. Your a whiney a.ss cry baby right now. Seriously. Dude. What is it you want? WHAT? You are a broken record. EVERYONE here GETS you were taken for a ride. But seriously, you need to look within yourself to perhaps find out what it is about YOU that draws them to you or you to them. Start with you first. Then, step away from a single parents forum. You drive me ape s.hit with your whiney redundant "I got screwed by a single mom" posts. Its so comical to me now. Cause in every post you make, there is a smidgen of bitterness in your own situation.
What are you doing here? Are you trying to save the single parents here? Are you trying to spread your "almighty wisdom"? Cause ya know, all you are doing is talking in circles.
A single man needs to prove that he will be a great husband and can get along with the kids for it to work right ladies?
No he doesnt. Husband? Arent we jumping the gun? I didnt know dating turned into a spouse interview.
If you want people to start taking you seriously, you need to stop throwing your bad experiences into the mix EVERYTIME.
That is all I was saying
No it wasnt. You make your SM stereotypes 35783654634653754873264786324785237864375490743597347594365826136 times in every thread.  | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 5:24:29 PM | Haha, Rivergirl, I want to have your babies
That was soooooo funny
Although I think you might find its actually only 35783654634653754873264786324785237864375490743597347594365826132 times, so for the millionth time will you STOP exagerating woman!!!
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 5:40:55 PM | ^Oh hunnie, if I wasnt done having babies, perhaps Id give you a try. Damn. Was that all it was? I think you are off by a digit or 2.
BTW, everytime I look at your name, my mind goes elsewhere. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/28/2007 5:53:43 PM | Well admittedly my username can turn out to be a tongue twister and turner n stuff, which is, I'm sure what you mean 
But who mentioned you having babies? I was trying to be equalitarian
Where your mind goes isnt that important tho, its whether your eyes roll back in your head that matters | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/29/2007 6:20:04 PM | | I personally admire and respect single mom's! To me, it is amazing that a woman should work so hard, but come home and take care of her child(children)! personally, I would not run from a single mom, having to go through the death of my only son. I would welcome that opportunity at being with that woman, and a child or children would be a bonus. Rivergirl is right! NO one should every have to prove themselves to another, if that person truly loves, respects, and wants to be with you, whether you have a child or not, then I would say it was probably meant to be!! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:05:42 AM | Maybe just Maybe it may be shining examples such as the one below
"a 21-year-old Australian mother is advertising for sperm to impregnate herself from more male donors with the expressed purpose of having 11 kids from 11 different men. She proudly states that she wants no man in her life, or any father in the children’s lives. She wants lots of children and has a planned target of 11. Her choice is based upon being entirely supported by the government. This modern woman promises not to ask for any contribution from any of the fathers (don’t hold your breathe), but it isn’t clear whether the government will heavy handedly not go after the sperm donors as lately this aspect of non-support for sperm has come under question in the US and other countries.
This is all a step further down the social suicide, as this women is announcing it to the world before she goes on her quest to have 11 kids and tap out the sperm bank nearest you.
We will surely hear that once the children are born that we shouldn’t be so heartless as to not fund this Medusa’s brought up flock, as the children are not at fault in this mess as she will no doubt get a huge fund to bring up so many kids! So we as taxpayers must fund this feminist mother desires or be angry white males. Aussie men will be paying for this one way or the other as such taxes are mainly taken from the blood, sweat and tears of men, such as those who die in Australian mines.
No representative of fathers’ groups was interviewed for the news item, the usual fair and balanced news we come to expect in Helengrad’s feminist New Zealand and in our own countries? The feminist ideology has so effectively become part of the average states belief system that now they are probably gallingly pushing this woman as a kind of test case (which will open the flood gates to any women wishing to have a flock of her own).
The state will either stop this woman from her sperm bank sphere (and thus control a woman’s body, I can hear the hysterical chants now) or let her do all her little Medusa mind desires.
The young woman in question and her mother expressed confidence that the biological father involvement is irrelevant to children’s development, and the state will have to take the Mangina role for some time to come, in doing whatever this women wants (as she has attached herself, as many women do, so tightly to the children). There is no hiding this taking from men to fund women’s choice, via the states cut, any more. This can’t go on much longer, for the apologists are already doing insane metal gymnastics to excuse such women and under the pathetic guise of chivalry find some man to blame and punish.
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 4:48:38 AM | | aww first all congrats on bringing up daughter ,i knw its tough i have an 5 old autistic son imagine explaining that but have had few dates and u knw what they loved my son more than me coz the way he is??so dont gav up hun hes out there dont rush it u will meet him soon and get in2 other activaties also u never knw may meet s,one then ok i gone back college to train in this field [dont gav up laura x] | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:22:42 PM | I dated a single mom before. She was beautiful, smart, and had a great body. What I didn't like about the dating was the lack of freedom I enjoy with a single non-mother. We always were waiting for a babysitter, dropping her baby off at her parents (which would be out of our way), and she would ask me to help her take care of her child when she was busy (like feed the baby, get something for her). It began to look as if she was getting to dependent on me for everything. So it just came to a point that I couldn't be around that anymore. Its now a preference of mine to date non-moms, just as a preference of women to only date taller men. Why be bothered by it, someone don't have this preference out there, you'll find them soon.
I've seen some women's profiles that say "Don't want kids" while they have some of their own, and some that has "Not looking for men with Kids". It goes both ways on this issue. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:18:07 PM | | I've been single for 5 years now and it is hard to find a good guy when you have children. I've had a couple of "serious" boyfriends and we split for other reasons not involving my children. One of them had a son he really didn't pay a lot of attention to, which upset me very much. I am very cautious about my children and the possibility of interested men really being pedophiles. I have pretty much resigned myself to staying single until they are grown, and just dating occasionally. I'd rather be single than be with the wrong man. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 3:50:53 PM | fears of loco parentis...I am not a pediphile and do not wish to have some single mom assume I am one until I prove otherwise...no wonder some single mom's can't get a date..some assume the worst before meeting a person.
I understand you need to be careful but that is why you should get to know your dates before introducing them to your kids. Too many single mom's have tried to force the kids on me too soon. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 4:30:04 PM | Because what he is REALLY doing is hoping that through pity some weak willed, broken spirited young thing will try to "prove him wrong"
Either that or a single mum has offered him a shag if he hits the 400000000000000 mark
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 5:49:16 PM | ^
I really think hes just trying to seek validation for himself. He feels somewhat "guilty" and is trying to find that woman who will prove him wrong. Eh. Whatever dude. No use crying over spilled breastmilk. | |
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