| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 6:12:17 PM |
I really think hes just trying to seek validation for himself. He feels somewhat "guilty" and is trying to find that woman who will prove him wrong. Eh. Whatever dude. No use crying over spilled breastmilk.
Speaking of spilled breastmilk... Disney/River/CaliforniaGirl.... Y0u were gone for a while, but are back with a vengeance. The hunk you were seeing didn't work out?
It's nice to to see your venom dripping all over the fora again. I mean that with all sincerity.
On topic... Johne, buddy.... Thanks for all the support in the many threads we've bumped into each other, and, well, I've never mentioned it before, but you really do need to learn a new trick, pony. Stop giving the Harpies ammo to slag you. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 8:11:20 PM | Iago:
See I am a big boy I can think for myself. I have my own thoughts and feelings on things. I will use a term I read in one of your posts a while back.
When "the Hens from he L L" asecend from upon high it does not bother me...see I am all about getting this loco parentis stuff changed and/or getting more to understand what it is about.
When I get slagged I fel as if those who slag me are just proving my point for me...when they start threads asking for advice and slam those that give valid feedback it proves my point for me.
I have started a few threads and funny how the hens stick togethger in many caeses.
I start other threads but put them in other forums and not one "harpie/hen" comments on them because they are not in a single parent forum..and those are far more contraversial my friend..if you ever want to read them let me know I will give you some titles so message me if you like.
See I see your situation as what is wrong with the law and the law (along with those who abuse it) are the real problem and the harpies/hens need to understand that. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 8:20:30 PM |
Speaking of spilled breastmilk... Disney/River/CaliforniaGirl.... Y0u were gone for a while, but are back with a vengeance. The hunk you were seeing didn't work out?
Wait. How do you make the connection to me and breast.milk? Why sweetheart, I didnt know you were following my love life. I feel honored.  I also didnt know you paid attention to me while I was gone. I know, its hard to forget me. No, we are still going. Im still juggling those 2. Yes. 2. Just because Im "gone" for a while doesnt mean that my love life went to the sh.itter.  I got sent to banned camp. I rock!
It's nice to to see your venom dripping all over the fora again. I mean that with all sincerity.
MMMM. I bet you do. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 8:22:33 PM | | You go Johne. You get that law changed. Cause you know, you are all about dating them single mothers. Right! Rock out with your c.ock out. Just make sure its covered. Wait. Wrong thread. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 8:54:24 PM |
Why sweetheart, I didnt know you were following my love life.
Following? Not at all, you just bragged about it in a post a month or two ago. I hadn't even thought about you until you showed up again a few days ago.
I had no idea you were banging two guys. Good for you. I prefer to keep a few different plates spinning myself.
Cheers. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 9:00:01 PM | Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. Eh. Ok. Right on, you go on wit' yo' bad self. I didnt say I was bangin them both though. But, if I need any advice, I will come to you, ya know, Mr. Intimate Encounter. 
I think its cute you think I bragged. I know I did bring it up in a few relevant posts. Just didnt know you were that perceptive to my personal life. Thanks darlin'. It means alot. Smooches! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/30/2007 9:01:31 PM | So when the dust settles what then? Some men prefer to aviod dating single mother's? Why should it bother the OP?
Why does the father of your children not want to date you? If you kicked him to the curb..why should someone else pick up the slack? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/31/2007 3:35:53 AM | Owww eeee.... excuse me, that slack you are refering too are two very precious human beings who quite evidently would be far too good to allow you the priviledge of ever crossing their paths!!! It works both ways you know, and who says my children would even want to meet a numpty with opinions like yours!!!
I agree children do require some additional relationship commitment!! I would not judge any man who is honest that he does not wish to make that commitment we are not all right for everybody..... I respect and value honesty and feel that (whether we single parents like it or not) there is a certain maturity about an unattached man who can put his hands up and say I can't deal with a single mum..... would rather that than one that gives it little thought and then messes both me and my children around!!! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:21:30 AM | Happyshopper:
My point about picking up the slack is not about the children..it is about any adult in a relationship (maybe I should have made that more clear..sorry about that.) As adults no one owes us a romantic relationship and no one owes it to a child to act as a parent other than their biological parents...Iam I clear on that now?
You comment about maturity is so predictable. See on these forums when a man sayds he perfers not to date single mother's he is called immature. I disagree, it is more mature not to have a child with someone that is not the right person and therefore when you meet the right person you stay with that person. I live in Canada and we have laws that require step parents to pay child support for ex step children. I do not agree with that law and aviod dating single mom's because of it. I do not see that as shallow I ee that as financially practical.
Why should I pay for a child that I did nmot create? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/31/2007 11:37:06 AM | I sent and e-mail to the Ministry of Justice and this is part of the response I got:
The Divorce Act defines a child of the marriage (a child eligible to receive child support) as a child of two spouses or former spouses, including "any child of whom one is the parent and for whom the other stands in the place of a parent" (in loco parentis). A person who has acted as a parent to a child of a spouse may be required to pay child support if the relationship that brought the person and the child together ends. This reflects the long-standing and well-established legal principle that sometimes children may be eligible for support from a person who acted as their parent. Laws in most provinces and territories contain a similar definition.
If you cannot agree on whether a person stood in the place of a parent, and the case is brought to court, the court will determine whether a person can be said to stand in the place of a parent based on the facts of the case. Generally, the courts will find that a person does not stand in place of a parent unless that person has voluntarily and knowingly acted as a parent. The term implies an intention on the part of the person to fulfil the office and duty of a parent.
Once it has been established that a spouse stands in the place of a parent, the Federal Child Support Guidelines (Guidelines) provide discretion to courts to set an appropriate amount of child support. Courts must take into account the amount set out in the Guidelines and the legal duty of any other parent to support the child."
Why does it make common sense to pay support for a child you did not create?
If you get serious and move in with a single mom you will pay support for her child even if she treats you bad and she leaves. This is one reason men do not like dating single mothers. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/31/2007 11:53:53 AM |
Why do yoou think this is a concern for you? You arent dating them anymore riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight?
nope , Johne102 doesnt date single women, he has made that point clear 1000000000000000000000000000000000000 times! | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 10/31/2007 12:56:03 PM | psssssssssst. you might want to cut and paste it here too.
now why would I post that on this site?
because you are nortorious for hijacking these forums and inserting cs and lp laws, even when they dont completely mesh with the original post. | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 11/1/2007 8:15:06 AM | Canoe:
I think it is great that you personally get dates. There are several threads started by single mom's asking why no one will date them. It is just too risky for many to take the chance.
There is a thread called First Family Firts that you really should check out.
You picked the wrong guy to have children with...why should someone else step in to take someone else's responsibility? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not Like Single Mothers?
Posted: 11/1/2007 8:21:19 AM |
You picked the wrong guy to have children with...why should someone else step in to take someone else's responsibility?
Ohhhhhhh let me take a stab at this one! Let me! Let me! (jumps up and down raising hand)
...cause uhmmmmmmm, uhmmmm, the man actually WANTS to? He loves that woman and child as his own? He doesnt see $$$$$$$$$ everywhere he turns.
Did I get it right? Huh? Huh? Did I? | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 11/1/2007 11:38:36 AM | | hi ya . agree wit some of ur coments , im a single father of 4 . 3 live wit smallest stays wit me every w.kend and all d school hols. the reaction generally by women is they run a mile, so its a 2 way street | |
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| Ever Wonder Why Single Men Do Not like Single mothers?
Posted: 11/3/2007 12:07:12 PM | few threads "First Family First" where the OP talks about how her ex is paying more support for his step children then for his own children is one reason why.
Another thread "loco parentis" will give you some more reasons why men do not like single mother's
The thread "Pating child suport for a child that is not mine" is another good one. A poster brags about taking he er ex to court for child suport to pay support for his step cildren. After reding those threads why would anyome wonder why anyome would want to date a single mom in Canada. There is just too much financial liability involved in getting serious with a single mom.
Why would anyone want to pay for someone else's children/responsibility?
That is why many will not date single mother's. | |
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