| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 1/4/2008 4:11:22 PM |
Once I was so much in love and our relationship was absolutely perfect.
Yet it ended when she ran off with someone who turned out to be an alcoholic.
Will I ever feel the same again? - Is a second time round really a friendship only between compatible adults?
Jeeze man. Grow some balls for crying out loud! Look at it from the bright side, now you are free to do whatever the hell you want! Doesn't get much better than that! | |
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 1/4/2008 7:50:24 PM | Will I ever feel the same again? - Is a second time round really a friendship only between compatible adults?
I don't know. 8+ years and still single, and I haven't been in any serious relationships during those 8 years. I think you can get used to being single and being comfortable with it, and then it becomes a habit. | |
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 1/4/2008 8:55:09 PM | | I sure hope it's possible. It took the first half of my marriage to truly understand what it means to love - as opposed to being "in" love - and I grew as a person. I hate thinking about what happened to my marriage; but, I like to believe that somewhere there is someone who I can share those experiences - but without the drama and childish games - again. | |
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 2/8/2008 4:56:33 PM | | Divorce does not mean the end of our feelings to love again,it is not the end of the world,you do not let that feeling masters you ,you have a heart and start a new adventure,of course there is always somebody there could be the one to continue happiness with. | |
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 2/8/2008 5:23:49 PM | From my observations (here and in real life) it is just like any other breakup where people live together--- only with certain legal ramifications.
I would say that the second time around is the same.... though there appear to be a large number of divorced people that no longer believe in marriage. That's more or less the only major difference that I can see. | |
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 2/8/2008 5:41:46 PM |
After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
I think it's possible, but I think love is really unlikely whether you've been divorced, lived together or just dated.
Besides that the whole " in love " as opposed to " love " distinction to me just doesn't make any sense. It tells me that people are just so effed up about the whole LOVE thing.
I've gotten to the point where I really don't believe in " love " between men and women. I think people believe in the stupid sort of love portrayed in romance media.
And, if love does actually exist between women and men, it clearly has a shelf-life depending on the couple. It may be a month, a year or a decade, but it definitely has a shelf-life.
I'm pretty sure the expiry date is stamped on your partner right at the top of you ass crack near the tailbone.
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| After divorce - Can you ever fall in love?
Posted: 3/26/2008 5:09:17 PM | | My ex husband had an affair with a woman that was 1/2 his age it completely distroyed me. I said I would NEVER fall in love or marry again. BUT I met someone, not on a website, that showed me what true love can be and how a man should treat a woman!!! So having said that, YES you can fall in love again after divorce! | |
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