| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 1:27:17 PM | | Hi there i have a tattoo on my boobs, that i am not a shamed of as well as i have a few more tattoo's, but i think you can still look smart out at dinner, you don't need to where a dress to go out to a smart dinner, i am proud to have my tattoo because they represent me in a way, i dress smart in every day life and i have no problem with people who don't like tattoo's, but personly i think it is personality that is far more important then looks. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 1:38:59 PM | Well, I suppose a tiny tit-tat is designed to draw the eye?
Nonetheless, nope, tacky as heck, I think.
Although I quite like a tiny, tasteful tattoo on, say, a shoulder, where it's not a blatant 'Look Here'! | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 2:38:35 PM |
your statement was not about liking tattoos or not, it was about, and i quote you, 'women sending out negative signals', and i clearly stated that something like a tattoo on a womans breast has no 'signal' or 'label' that it can send out
My post concerned answering the OP, actually.
As for the negative signals, that is a personal opinion, in the same way that yours was. There isn't a right answer, and the OP acknowledged this.
I make such judgements all the time, and I suspect that others do, too
you suspect? are you talking from personal knowledge? who are these 'others' that you speak of?
I make judgements based on looks all the time. Whether it's a bike, a painting, a building, or a woman, and I cannot believe that I'm the only person alive who doesn't make those judgements.
I used the word 'suspect' because I cannot prove that offhand.
you are speaking from experience? I like mine :-)
One poster on the first page said that she doesn't like hers, and the fact that there is a treatment for removal of tattoos proves that others don't like theirs either.
sure your views are old fashioned is that clearer?
Slightly.
The narrow minded comes from your statements to what you believe tattoos to be about. You can't seem to identify even if you disagree that they are art and people have them for personal reasons such as a landmark in their lifes.
I find them unattractive, and think they send out entirely negative signals, regardless of the reason why someone is wearing one.
so why be as bold as to make the statement if you are going to pass on it?
I didn't 'pass' on making the statement - I passed on providing examples of those negative statements.
Not only are tattoos a form of art but can be smybol to that person whether it be a dedication to a love one. A mile stone in someones life. Or merely just an appreciation of something..Tattoos have a history to how it began it's not just merely art. It has a tradition and many meanings. It's not just a simple tattoo!
I fully agree, but it doesn't make them any less unattractive! | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 2:47:53 PM |
As for the negative signals, that is a personal opinion, in the same way that yours was. There isn't a right answer, and the OP acknowledged this.
I'm only going to address this part of what you have said because basically you keep refering to negative signals yet you won't clarify what they are. So prey do tell what these negative signals are for as far as i'm concerned their is nothing negative about a tattoo or what it says about a person. Infact i believe they are making a statement which is quite positive. Like i said it's not just about the way they look but can be symbol or an event . A birth of a child. A respect to a mother/father.
I don't have an issue with you finding them unattractive each to their own. The issue i have with you is how you seem to believe that it reflects negative things about a person. Personally i believe it's a cheap shot.You say negative i say positive but i can demonstrate the positivity from it. I'm still pending your negative signals that you seem to be unable to clarify. Oh and you did pass on explaning yourself. on this pointer. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 3:26:33 PM |
you keep refering to negative signals yet you won't clarify what they are.
Yes, and I've already given my reason.
For example, if I said that one negative signal was that it told me that the woman was born under the sign of Aries, and that I hate all Ariean women, then the thread would be full of women who state that they have a tit-tat (great name, btw) but they are of other star-signs.
In other words, people would respond to my comment and the thread would be in a right mess. I can guarantee that would happen, because it occurred in the earlier pages of this very thread!
So, take it from me that a tit-tat sends out 100% negative signals, as far as I'm concerned, and that I'm not going to state what they are.
The issue i have with you is how you seem to believe that it reflects negative things about a person.
Fair enough.
Personally i believe it's a cheap shot.
See what I mean? I haven't even listed what those signals are, yet a poster with a tit-tat is already feeling that I've made a comment about her.
You say negative i say positive but i can demonstrate the positivity from it.
I've explained why I'm not going to give details, and you've already demonstrated why I am right not to give them. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 4:10:24 PM | you know..i suppose this cuts both ways...
those that feel tattoos give off 'negative' signals...well that speaks volumes in itself.
everyone has a preference on what does and doesnt look good and is free to make judgements on stereotypes, misconceptions and the likes....
Those that like tattoos will simply date anyone and those that dont...well they wont date someone simply because of some body art that may or may not indicate that they are a good/bad/common/classy (delete as appropraite) person.
Lou
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 5:20:38 PM | i must kinda dissagree mine didnt hurt haveing it done but about 5 mins after it really hurt i have a few tats and that was the most painfull....
i like tattoos on the boob im not sure y i dnt regret haven mind done or never will!!! | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/6/2008 10:24:05 PM |
Yes, and I've already given my reason.
For example, if I said that one negative signal was that it told me that the woman was born under the sign of Aries, and that I hate all Ariean women, then the thread would be full of women who state that they have a tit-tat (great name, btw) but they are of other star-signs.
In other words, people would respond to my comment and the thread would be in a right mess. I can guarantee that would happen, because it occurred in the earlier pages of this very thread!
So, take it from me that a tit-tat sends out 100% negative signals, as far as I'm concerned, and that I'm not going to state what they are
Then why bother saying it if you are not going to back it up? Isn't that the whole point of a debate?
See what I mean? I haven't even listed what those signals are, yet a poster with a tit-tat is already feeling that I've made a comment about her.
Your point would be?
I've explained why I'm not going to give details, and you've already demonstrated why I am right not to give them.
No you've explained why you won't back up comments you have made in reference to why tattoos give negative signals. When you have been asked to why you feel this you point blank refuse to back them up. You believe they give off these signals so all i've asked is for you to back up why you believe they send out negative signals to what that person is about. A person who is entering into a debate wouldn't have an issue backing up what they are saying if they truely believed they had a strong case to say why.. You refuse to do that. Which can only sugguest you don't have a reason other than you don't like them. Which clearly gives the impression you don't have any reasons for making that statement orginally. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 1:20:02 AM |
Which can only sugguest you don't have a reason other than you don't like them
Sometimes, people just don't like stuff!
I like tatts, but I don't like the multiple-tatt "I look like a sketch pad" look. I do like the multiple-tatt "I put some thought into this" look.
Some people don't like tatts full-stop. Maybe they don't like the look, maybe they don't like the fact that tatts are permanent, or maybe they just think they look cheap and tacky. To each their own.
I would never, ever date someone who had certain tattoos on his face (I was going to say any tattoos but then I remembered a gorgeous bloke and his lovely Maori tatt). That is my choice. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 2:20:35 AM | I am really confused. This thread showed at the top of my page and had a look.
Why would any tattoo be a negative, saying that facial tattoos would be the only one's I would have an issue with. Live and let live, we are ALL individuals. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 4:25:53 AM | Then why ask people's opinions? Whats the point of having a bloody forum if you cant have an opinion and we are supposed to 'live and let live'?
People generally do unless people ask someone's personal opinion....
lost on that... | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 4:33:49 AM |
Whats the point of having a bloody forum if you cant have an opinion and we are supposed to 'live and let live'?
Can we not do both?
We're debating, not shouting across the playground. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 4:45:55 AM | "Can we not do both?"
Well of course we can... Why ask? People ask the most silliest of questions.
My personal opinion is that tattoos make a person look cheap.... My opinions have absolutely no bearing on as to how I would treat someone with tattoos....
Moo - you come across a little age-ist with your 'gobby little girls and shouting across the playground' remarks....
Just because someone is young does not mean that they are not experienced or educated.
I treat people dependant on how they treat me, regarless of colour, sex or individual trademarks.... Its what makes us all different, but no one can argue over taste....
Its a simple as someone liking/disliking a painting. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:46:00 AM | You know Bona you have the prettiest face but it just doesnt match your personality. Do you have to say such vile things to people - and Im not just talking about this thread. Yes you are young and maybe educated but you still have a lot to learn in life.
If you treat people as they treat you someone somewhere along the line is treating you like shit. A little respect for fellow posters wouldnt go amiss. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:48:38 AM | How tattoos make a person look cheap if they are tasteful i will never know.
A nasty mouth and spiteful words are far better at cheapening someone.
I have 4 tattoos, none on my breasts and you know what? I couldn't give a monkeys whether someone thinks they make me look cheap.
I know I am not, I know I have self respect and that my tattoos are all relevant to me and tell a story of something I have either lived through, experienced or hold dear to my heart. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:51:20 AM | Cheap cheap cheap cheap....
Need I say more?
Sorry i missed your point? What was it again?
Moo - you come across a little age-ist with your 'gobby little girls and shouting across the playground' remarks....
Just because someone is young does not mean that they are not experienced or educated.
I treat people dependant on how they treat me, regarless of colour, sex or individual trademarks.... Its what makes us all different, but no one can argue over taste....
Its a simple as someone liking/disliking a painting?
You can argue the point you seem to have a distaste for people in general to be so critical. :-) | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:58:52 AM | Right lets get one thing straight - with the people that seem to have a problem with me...
This is a discussion forum....
Its asks for people's personal opinions.... I dont call people names directly and Once im asked for my personal opinion - I give it. If people can accept it excellent, If they cant then its tough... Sorry!
It doesnt matter what people think of your tattoos foxy, most of all me... because its just my opinion - worth nothing to anyone else other than myself. Its not meant to offend or upset people but If people are offended by it Im sorry... Im not a people p[leaser and Im not going to say I like/dislike something just to make them feel better.. otherwise there would be no point to discussing something....?
I have a friend who's covered in piercings, arms, legs, penis... covered in tattoos... He's the nicest person you would wish to meet...
Do I like his tattoos? Hello no. Do I have to? NO.... But I like him and thats what counts...
People can plainly not accept people's opinions on things...
and thanks for the comment on my "pretty face"... but it really isnt...goes with my personality which you obviously think is shit..... x
But do I care? No, because I respect what you think, right or wrong. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:05:01 AM | | Im not criticising your opinions, as you say you have every right to express them, it's just the way you express them that makes me cringe. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:06:12 AM | Its asks for people's personal opinions.... I dont call people names directly and Once im asked for my personal opinion - I give it. If people can accept it excellent, If they cant then its tough... Sorry!
Yes people ask for an opinion or a view. They do not asked to be critised :-)
It doesnt matter what people think of your tattoos foxy, most of all me... because its just my opinion - worth nothing to anyone else other than myself. Its not meant to offend or upset people but If people are offended by it Im sorry... Im not a people p[leaser and Im not going to say I like/dislike something just to make them feel better.. otherwise there would be no point to discussing something....?
I quite like the fact people celebrate parts in their life with the form of art. Tattoos are just that a form of art. However as much as you do not like them their really no need to purposely offend someone. Maybe a matter here is that you are quick to judge someone. I could sit here an assess you but i'd rather not lol
I have a friend who's covered in piercings, arms, legs, penis... covered in tattoos... He's the nicest person you would wish to meet...
Do I like his tattoos? Hello no. Do I have to? NO.... But I like him and thats what counts...
I couldn't agree more but are you really that polite to your friend as you are to strangers on a debate?
People can plainly not accept people's opinions on things...
But people can they cannot accept others being rude about it. Massive difference. Really their is no need for it. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:19:05 AM | I guess i dont understand how a good tattoo can make someone look cheap!
My comment was to people who make sweeping statements about people looking cheap purely because they have a tattoo. If combined with a fake burberry tracksuit or scraggy hair with 4 inch long black roots with blonde ends, maybe a tattoo might look cheap.
But i fail to see how a tattoo alone can make someone appear cheap.
My tats are all personal to me, i can promise you, each one tells a story.
I have a couple on my back, one on my calf / ankle and one on my wrist. The last one is the one which means the most to me. It is of the Breast Cancer Ribbon with MUM written down the side of it.
I had that done for ME, a memoriam to my Mother who died from the disease. The ribbon is a symbol of the fight against the disease to many, many people. It is something that unifies a lot of people, both men and women. I also have so many of the pins and the keyrings which carry the symbol. My tattoo is there for me and to remind me just how strong my mother was. Might make no sense to others but it makes perfect sense to me. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:19:54 AM | | I have tattoos but have to admit where as i like most tattoos on other people i dislike mine now, i'm not to keen on them on breasts but that goes with lower arms, hands, necks and facial tattoos, its just my personal taste. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:21:51 AM | Its asks for people's personal opinions.... I dont call people names directly and Once im asked for my personal opinion - I give it. If people can accept it excellent, If they cant then its tough... Sorry! Get with the program girl, you're only entitled to an opinion if certain people here agree with you. If not they will gang up on you. | |
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| Tattoo's on boobs...attractive or not?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:24:18 AM |
I know there may be exceptions to the rule , but most of the women i've ever seen with " Tit-oos " ( ive just invented that word btw lol ) were either
a) fat
b) desperate for attention
c) going to a westlife concert next month with her mate " shaz "
d) butch
e) wears tracksuits
I have 2 tattoos myself , but i think a lady with a tit-oo lacks class , and thats a major turn-off.
It just says " cheap n nasty "
Using my own particular brand of logic, I have deduced that as I don't have any titoos, or even tatoos, I am
a) not fat
b) not desperate for attention
c) not going to a westlife concert next month with my mate "shaz"
d) not butch
e) not a wearer of tracksuits
also - oozing class, a major turn on, and very expensive and nice.
I don't actually like the look of tattoos on very many people at all, but there are some tattoos that are works of art. I am lucky in as much as one of the most highly regarded tattoo artists in the country (or so I've been told) works locally, so if I decided to have one done I would go to him for it. And it would be well hidden. | |
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