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Posted: 1/8/2008 7:00:49 PM | You're in the adult entertainment industry and you have to ask what was going on?? Post #2 hit the nail on the head
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Posted: 1/9/2008 1:34:50 AM | | what does my line of work have to do with what i am asking? | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 10:49:14 AM | Forbidden, I would definitely talk to him first. Catch him when he's sober and tell him you didn't appreciate his behavior, and let him know that you are offended and felt he disrespected you and his wife. Tell him that if anything like that ever happens again, you'll speak with his wife about it. Maybe that'll be enough for him to realize he shouldn't mess with you.
You're a good friend... such a wonderful quality for a person to have :)
~Posies~ | |
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Posted: 1/10/2008 9:07:35 PM | I can understand why you said the line that sorry nothing is happening here cos i repect your gf but in my mind that never meant no as such. The line is what the fook you doin to me? Yuk sort of thing lol
Id tell your girl friend, she may not be surprised. I do agree with a poster earlier that said she shall probably want you gone.
I was friends once with a couple. First the girl, Julie i had been friends with since I was 5 at school. The guy she married and had kids with was my friend id met at a job club and me and him were really close friends. They met on a night out as they were both invited. I got them together. I knew he was keen on me loads but i never felt the sameso when they got together i was pleased. Years later, married with kids me and him went for a drink, with her knowledge. We never got drunk, just chatted bout life and i trusted him. On the way home he pulled in a lay by. Told me it was me he wanted etc. I told him i wasnt interested years ago and certainly wasnt now. He took me home and I felt rubbish. I didnt know what to do. If i never spoke to julie again she would wonder why. I told her. I know she believed me but obviously she wasnt going to trash her family over it. Years later I was in a hairdressers and the hairdresser knew julie. Told me that he had had an affair and the womans husband found out bout it all and commited suicide. Still julie stood by her man.
My point here is that I think you cant really be friends equally with a couple. Loyalties get tested. One confides things to you and your in the middle. Id cut your ties with them as a couple. Perhaps keep in contact with her after wising her up on all this and sayig youd like to be mates with her but dont wanna cause trouble and you dont want him after you. I wish you luck x | |
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Posted: 1/11/2008 5:19:41 PM | You didn't tell him that you weren't interested and to stop what he was doing because you didn't like it. You just said you couldn't do that to your friend... well I'm assuming
he probrably took it as you were interested... but the friend kept you from it. Maybe he figured you'd give in eventually?
Plus, I understand you were out with your girls... but you stayed at the bar where he was the whole time... and none of his actions made you feel uncomfortable enough for you to decide to leave and go to another place? And where were your other friends the whole time this was going on? You said they saw what he did... but obviously he didn't care to stop .. even if they saw. You would think his girlfriend or one of your her coworkers would have seen the attempt to kiss you, or his physical attempt to get into your shirt.
I don't mean to sound like I'm blaming you... but I suppose those would be questions I'd be asking you if I was your friend and girlriend to this guy.
I don't think you should tell your girl friend unless you think it's worth possibly sabotaging their relationship. And... you'd be taking a risk of possibly losing her friendship as well.
I suggest you simply stay away from the guy. If you want to continue to be this woman's friend then do that... just be her friend. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2008 6:02:45 PM | "apparently I talked to her and she had to rush him to the hospital in the middle of the morning cause someone at the bar had slipped something in his drink when he wasn't looking "
You need a shovel for that pile.....thats a bunch of crap and she is covering up for him and enabling his bad behaviour.
RUN from these two.......trouble will only abound | |
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Posted: 1/12/2008 2:57:27 AM | | NO NEED TO POST ON THIS FORUM ANYMORE , ITS A DONE DEAL , LET IT DIE IN PEACE :) | |
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Posted: 1/12/2008 12:54:32 PM |
NO NEED TO POST ON THIS FORUM ANYMORE , ITS A DONE DEAL , LET IT DIE IN PEACE :)
Good luck with that one. Be prepared, every word you post will be forever in the annals of searchable data ....unless this thread should get deleted, it's not going anywhere anytime soon, FD. Sorry. Why don't you tell us what you figured out? | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 5:49:03 PM | LOL I don't care what they say about you, Fairmont, I like ya. 
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