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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/6/2008 1:47:39 PM | "Any chik who calls you "the one", 9 times outta 10 is Bi-Polar"
OK what about guys who say this then????
We're just trying to get into your pants. By the way, we've never met, but I believe we may be meant for each other.
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/6/2008 1:52:28 PM | I've been called "The One" once. Married him. I guess he was not "The One". Divorced him ten years ago. LOLOL
I've met "The One". Unfortunately, he was 20 years too young to BE "The One". Such is life. | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/6/2008 2:49:04 PM | AHAHAHHAHAHA .. "the one" that's funny! HAHAHAHHAHAHA YA RIGHT! Personally NEVER have I been called "the one" so so funny! I believed in "the one" a long long time ago... unfortunetly none of them thought the same..NONE! Still laughing!!
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/6/2008 8:00:18 PM | ggirl, Interesting question, and my answer is "not yet", even if I believe that a previous responder to this OT was referring to me as her "the 'one' with whom I wish to share my life & your question made me consider if this is truely the case & I can now say, yes, he is..." and I am fine for her response ...as it tells me that she's seriously considering our being one together. I've been "one" on my own for most of my life now, although I was married briefly and have a few friends here and there, but learned the hard way once about taking someone too seriously too quickly. Actually, I gave a girl the benefit of doubt for over a year after she 'proposed' to me on my second day of college, and I couldn't say no for all the creative possibilities that I envisioned w/ her other than to wed ...and start a family.
Long story, and one not done being written or produced yet for my vision then, but I keep it in mind and move onward w/ my life as I can. I finally started a family after the start of the new millennium ...and loved it enough to wonder what gotten into me so many years before, but that has since been ripped apart by a selfishness that I could not have envisioned ...and trust me, it was not mine. I am not completely unselfish, but I definitely lean towards creating happiness w/ another and others who might also care. This, I believe, is the operative word ...as it is the foundation of any worthwhile relationship. From reading others' posts, I sense that too many others have figured this out also, but opted only to say before truly do. I sense that the earlier responder does care, and it's endearing her to me.
I later dated a girl who'd just graduated from medical school before we met, and despite her 'bragging' that she'd been proposed to by six other men, I went along w/ her. Why? She needed a friend to help her acclimate to IRL from 'in-theory' and teach her how to build a fire so that her lovely a$$ didn't get too cold where she was going to do her residency. If she'd told me that I was "the one", I'd have still wished her good fortune when we finally parted company ...as I'd learned by then that she'd more to learn than I could teach her.
The earlier responder to this, who was hopefully referring to me, just might be "THE ONE" to teach me all that I've yet to learn for love, life and being so very human in a good-and-caring-of-others way ...beyond her own pain and limitations. God put a fire in this woman, and it's burned as true as she's so far been able w/ those she's known, but I believe that she'll burn even truer in the right air and company. I care to be that for her, and yes, the best is yet to be when we accept that besides our all being the fools for love, we are also the fuel for it. Hope that I've not confused you too much. | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/6/2008 8:13:14 PM | I've felt it once, and not until about 3 years ago. I've been told several times, but until that last time when I felt it too, I ran. The others said it too soon, before I knew them or they had a chance to know me. That's just scary.
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/7/2008 5:40:15 AM | I heard it from 1, I said it back and meant it, I'll say this, it took her a hell of a lot less time to get over me than vice versa haha.
I'll say it when I mean it, but for your part you can only tell them how you feel, sometimes you can't help that they don't return your feelings.
Well, at least I hope I get another shot at it, but regardless I'm still a bit more choosey about who I say crap like that to, I gotta believe it when I say it, sorta makes me come off as a bit unappreciative sometimes though because I won't compliment a woman either unless I really mean it and I think doing it too much makes it disingenuous. | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:10:19 PM | ggirl, I've been further convinced for the direction that a 'happy accident' has brought about for both of us a few months ago via POF, and neither of us are bi-polar or too pretentious to say it, but "The One" and I are poised to get together soon, but not soon enough.
Otherwise, this is a 'line' and not to be taken seriously. Sorry if y'all have heard it or said it to another ...and it came up false positive. | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:36:26 PM | Lonestar...
I dunno. Me thinks your posts on this thread was meant more for Cata than this thread in paticular.
I don't think I could grasp exactly what you were trying to say but my gut tells me this:
Cata thinks you are the 'one'.
Lonestar has had some disappointments in his love relationships and needs to 'allow' Cata into his heart otherwise he is going to screw up a really great thing.
Your picture of the both of you speaks 1000 words. It's simply beautiful. The two of you look so meant for each other.
How off the mark am I with this assumption? | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/8/2008 3:30:36 AM | More than enough times that it has no meaning.. now I think about "Lord Of the Rings" when it is said to me...(of course the line is "One Ring to rule them all.." but my mind tends to wander when cheese is involved.)
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/8/2008 3:38:18 AM | ggirl, Not caring to go off-topic or 'chat' here, but thank you for your insights and compliments. Thank Cata, the guys who keep 'hitting on' her (w/ several not being kind for that hitting), and Admin for not deleting the pics that we've opted to post for our showing to others that POF can work for each possibly finding that special someone who's eluded us otherwise. You're not far off "the mark" for your assumption, and I've let Cata know that she may be my "The One" if she wants to be.
For others, it's best not a line to be spoken ...or one to be taken w/o much consideration. Both Cata and I seem to have this and the essential caring in our make-up. And, no, I've no intention or inclination to screw up what's actually more than a "really great thing".
It's a perfect thing that belies description other than being a real/true love ...in the process of becoming something even greater.
PS, Cata and I have only been together on two occasions, even those have both been longer than what others might consider as dates.
I sensed (knew) that there was something so very special and good about her before we met, and I followed my also yearning heart to remove the geographic distance between us for our first meeting. I've no regrets for that expense. During our second occasion as one together, after she'd closed the same distance in my direction, I found myself in great physical pain ...something that she's endured on her own long before we first 'met' here. And amazing she was for her being here for me. There's much to be said w/o the saying ...for the caring and putting another's needs ahead of our wants. Thank you Cata for accepting that I'm mortal too ...and being a comfort. | |
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/8/2008 6:32:19 AM | A few too many. It creeped me out, as they always seemed needy and well, if its way too soon, even if you LIKE them, are ATTRACTED to them, it surely makes you squirm and want to be elsewhere, if they go on and on, and you know, have that starstruck look, hang on your every word, smile constantly.
Dang, this one guy was like MR CONSTANT eye contact, and wow, he was intense, drove 2 hrs to meet me, first day, swore he found his "one" felt so lucky, on and on,
and dang it he just wouldn't leave. HAHAHA. I got to email him while he was driving home, and told him he was a bit much and well, the feelings just weren't mutual. He wrote back, said, oh, so you are telling me, if I start over, and go slow, that I have a chance???
HAHAHAHA Dumb & Dumber all the way baby.
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| How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'?
Posted: 1/8/2008 12:13:30 PM | | Never, and I don't believe that there is only "one" for evereyone. And I find it HIGHLY unlikely that if there WERE only "one" for everyone, they'd find that person living close by. | |
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