| |
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/23/2008 6:24:55 AM | It may not seem like a “Big Deal “ on most days, but wait until we need to
shut down a volcano, fend off a locust infestation, or end an eclipse !
Then we will all be glad we know how to find Vinny. | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/23/2008 12:09:49 PM | I think the good thing about virgin it that the guy and the girl are virgin. The two discover it together. But I think you can use more preleminary and lubrifiant or vaseline. Don't know never make it with a virgin. But a old women say it to me someday. "If she virgin try vaseline" | |
|
| |
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/24/2008 9:06:20 AM | I am a virgin (big surprise!) And I am not ashamed to say that I am. It just means that I haven't found the guy that I want to be with forever. (sappy I know) But I was raised to beleive that you should only be with one person for your whole life.  | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/24/2008 9:42:21 AM | Virginity is not over-rated or something to covet, it is simply a right of passage everyone decides how to take on their own. I held out until I was 29 - not sure why, but I had countless opportunities - I just held out. Then one fine night a girl 'friend' blew me and that was awesome, but looking back, I kick myself for all of the great opportunities lost FOREVER!!  | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/24/2008 10:17:42 AM | | really? cause i always thought that guys liked the idea of a virgin girl cause of her innocence but didnt want to deflower her cause of the emotional attachment or something.. at least, that's what i heard. | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/24/2008 11:08:45 AM | | Nothing really, I held out until 22, I briefly started dating a woman I met at work and that's how I lost it. The relationship was short-lived but neither of us were interested in anything long term. Looking back I also had many opportunities but was either too scared or too shy to take advantage of them. | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/24/2008 5:42:55 PM | Muffen330: You're welcome  And...try Florida, much warmer climate down here 
Angelaberg: There is in most cases a definite attachment to the "de-virginizer"...you never forget your first...even Alzheimer's pateints (that are coherent) remember their first...it is a life-changing experience.
If one approaches this special time in a woman's life properly and TALKS with her about the potential feelings that she will likely have AFTERWARDS, you can both enjoy yourselves freely and without guilt or "issues" which also tends to make for a MUCH more satisfying experience. It should truly be "All about the Virgin". Decades from now there will be women telling their granddaughters..."There was this one really sweet guy who showed me how to really enjoy myself..." and it will set a standard for them to find men that will help them to feel wonderful about sex. And that is what I believe it's all about. | |
|
| |
sitfr
|
Joined: 7/23/2007
Msg: 86 | |
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/25/2008 1:14:32 AM | | In my late teens(17) I was one of the later(of my peers) to becoming a non-vrigin. I remember my first, he was older and it was wonderful. There was no pain, no anxiety, no emotional boo hoos. Had a few in betweens that were so-so. Then I got married for over 20 years and sex is not much different. It's what you make of it, we had our highs and our lows. Then seperated and after (a year or so) without "it" I felt like a virgin again. (It's wild, it's wonderful) With the right partner it feels like the first time. For you guys out there wondering what's the difference? It depends on you, your partner and Que Sera, Sera. Experience isn't everything, but what your experience meant to you, is. | |
|
| So what's the big deal about virgins?
Posted: 1/25/2008 2:17:01 AM | | you cant be a virgin when you are old because once you pass your teens if you date someone its a rule you have to live together and be serious and stressfully committed...but if you never got to have your fun as a teen how can you be expected to dive into that? i live at home for a few reasons 1 im socking away my money...another 5 years and ill be freakin rich and 2....i genuinely like my family and would be sad to leave them....and my cat and all of my comforts ive established here. if i have to give all of that up for a woman she had better bloody well be worth it. | |
|
Home
login 
