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 outtamycave

Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 126
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/6/2008 5:04:57 PM
So...is that true...do you men think a very experienced woman can please a man better than a lady who is not as experienced? Curious to know...


Well, how does one generally improve their skill at a particular activity, but to practice? If we were talking about anything other than sex I don't think anyone would question the old adage "practice make perfect."

Though I guess practice does not necessarily have to come from a high volume partners.
 dawn1114

Joined: 2/27/2006
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/6/2008 5:10:30 PM

Glad you said whatever definition.

Among men, paticualrily real men, a slut is a women who uses her boobs to make trouble.

Among women, paticualarily pathetic excuses for women, a slut is the girls who likes guys, trreats them right, and, as a result is always able to score a date.

Looking at that a real man would marry a womans definition of a slut but not his own definition of a slut.

I like this answer. I like it a lot.
 Whole 9 Yards

Joined: 6/6/2006
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/6/2008 5:36:04 PM
I was in love with a woman who I believe surpassed me in sexual experience.
But she lived in a small town and between her telling me that I dated "this dude/that dude" aand some of the snickering I could hear, I knew what was up. I didn't care, but after a while she started to mention these trysts regularly, although we were attached at the hip. Like I really need to hear about her sleeping with another dude(even if it was mentioned in passing)?After a while I couldn't deal with it anymore. So it was more about her past being shoved in my face at every turn. We weren't running into my one night stands regularly. So I would marry a slut, if I didn't HAVE to know/hear about it every damned day.
 MD-Jeff

Joined: 2/27/2007
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/6/2008 5:39:40 PM
Short answer YES.... Long answer HELL YES. Promiscuous women are the best! I mean if you are into the whole have a lot of sex thing. I do know what you mean though I married the neighborhood hoodrat… But damn she is still sexy just divorced here after 15 years… Good luck!
 Deborah2

Joined: 4/16/2006
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/6/2008 9:49:00 PM
I know all of these guys are telling the truth!!! My husband is extremely charged up when I wear sheer tops and tight slacks when we go out. He makes sure we go to crowded bars and clubs where the guys are rubbing, caressing, sometimes grabbing and feeling me every chance they get. Sometimes he will just drop me off! He tells me to have fun! He says," It doesn't matter who starts your engine, as long as I get to drive." Its a frame of mind!
And my husband does not call me a slut, but rather a****hound. Just like like in comparison he is a tit man. And I would never deny him of his turn-ons. We are partners and best friends. His desire is my passion.
My two cents
 The Kiwi

Joined: 2/8/2006
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/7/2008 2:57:11 PM
I think the term "slut" can be used as either a negative insult or the exact opposite depending on the situation (often by women themselves during sex - in my experience anyway). And there lies the problem for me - there is no clear definition.
I never call a woman a slut, even if she has referred to herself like that in the heat of the moment. It's sort of like using the N word for a caucasion.
Being horny and experienced doesnt qualify for the term nor does someone who simply isnt afraid to dress to get others admiring attention.
For me i tend to think of it in reference to someone who cheats, or is untrustworthy. Therefore its a gender neutral term ( for me ), and most guys if they are honest are sluts... oh sorry i meant to say "dog's" or "players".
So based on that i would have to say i wouldnt marry someone who was a slut.
And i feel sorry for the poor mofo's that have.
 jed456

Joined: 4/26/2005
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/7/2008 3:12:59 PM
First my definition of a slut.....You have been going out mutually for over a year,you then find out she is sleeping around but still going out with you,that is a slut or player.

Another type to avoid the drunken one who hangs on every guy looking for a drink and when turned down moves to the next. So no thank you!
 unknownartist

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 133
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:47:37 PM
The answer is no. The reason is that in order for me to consider some one this they must be unfaithful. And needless to say that I think that some one with a history of being unfaithful will probably continue to be so when married and thus defeating the purpose of marring this person. If you reverse the gender I feel that the same should apply.
 Boomstrike

Joined: 12/1/2007
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/7/2008 6:46:14 PM
I'm not a slut and I'm attracted to women with similar morals and respect for themselves and others. So no.
 Maybe1nce

Joined: 2/5/2008
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/14/2008 4:28:30 PM
nope, loll maybe its coz im kinda the jealous type. If its u (not sain it is for a minute but general advice for any gayl reading) dont lie but just refrain to mention if u are/where promiscuous. Even if the guy genuinly dont mind itl always come up in an argument n p**s him off and hurt ur feelings. Keep it quiet ;)
 hamiltonlad36

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 136
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/15/2008 8:00:28 AM
Gee asking that question opens up wondering minds
 HappyGilmore2

Joined: 4/30/2007
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/15/2008 11:19:48 AM
Why would anybody want to drive a Ferrari with 2 million miles on it when you can drive a brand new Lexus? Besides, which car do you think is more prone to mailfunctinos?

Just saying!
 smd83

Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 138
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/15/2008 11:50:57 AM
"You mean could I fall in love with woman with a reputation about town as being cheap and easy? Sure it's remotely possible I guess, but we'd have to leave town."

I'd say this speaks 100%truth
 nativechick76

Joined: 2/12/2008
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/15/2008 6:46:19 PM
why can't it be a high self esteem buddy when you dip your****that ain't slutty?
 oloroso

Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 140
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:36:26 AM
I think a woman could be quelled from her sluttery if she finds a GOOD relationship and gets everything she wants out of it . Though that's always a tough prescription to fill , especially these days .
 sam-spade

Joined: 12/2/2007
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/16/2008 6:41:12 AM
No.




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 spectemuragendo

Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 142
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:46:30 AM
I am a Pastor's kid (both parents, United Methodist), and I don't have a problem with promiscuity, so long as it remains in the past. I believe the bible quotes Jesus himself as saying:

"Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

The only thing I'd really worry about was whether the relationship was based on "love" or "lust". In my opinion, if someone isn't willing to date you because of your past, you don't want them anyway, they're just a judgemental "donkey", most likely unable to see their own faults, or if they are, they're a blatant hypocrite.
 ArmyGuyE

Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 143
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Posted: 3/14/2008 10:56:57 AM
I think everyone is a slut in one way or another. Everyone whores their selves in some fashion, not necessarily with sex.
 Mister Incognito

Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 144
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 3/14/2008 11:00:40 AM
I'd marry a slut.

But the signature on the wedding certificate would say "Johnny Carson" just in case i need a quick getaway and put the hook on someone else.

Boy Scout is always prepared
 TheLimey

Joined: 2/24/2008
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 3/14/2008 2:15:58 PM
I need to pay closer attention, I don't think I've seen "slut" listed in any profiles so far... There's a few thinly veiled prostitution propositions tho.
 zanzibar196

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 146
Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 3/14/2008 5:51:55 PM
I would actually prefer to marry a slut. Why? Well, she has enough experience to know how to please a man, she's comfortable with her sexuality, and if we're saying our I do's... she's going to be all mine for a long, long time!!
 Greg8002

Joined: 3/11/2008
Msg: 147
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Posted: 3/14/2008 8:50:38 PM
I assume slut to mean a woman who has a pathological psychological problem in terms of sexual addiction. Given people have very different sexual desires and needs, and these combine in complicated ways with their personality, I think we need to be careful in judging women who enjoy sex or who have had more than one partner in their life as human beings with no dignity and self-respect. Personally I don't think any woman who enjoys sex or who has had more than one partner is morally bankrupt. However, if she had a serious problem in the sense she slept with many different partners in risky ways because of serious underlying psychological problems, I would not marry her, not because she is unworthy of compassion or being seen as a human being, but because she has serious psychological problems which urgently need to be addressed by theraputic counselling. I would also not get into a relationship with such a person due to the high risk of her cheating in a relationship if she has no rational control over her sexual impulses, and also the risk of contracting an STD, and disputed paternity issues if she gets pregnant. Marriage is a very serious committment which requires demanding levels of trust and fidelity on part of both partners. If there is a very high risk one partner is going to cheat, it would ruin the chances that marriage would succeed. However, a marriage to woman who enjoys sex and is comfortable with sex, is very likely to be a happy one for the man.
 good guy75

Joined: 3/25/2008
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Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 10:35:30 AM
the old saying you cant turn a whoe into a house wife is true to me.
 testlogin

Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2008 11:58:44 AM
I wouldn't. I would be totally disgusted if I knew that she was a slut. I would think that she would be far more likely to cheat.
 borntoski683

Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 5/5/2008 12:04:54 PM
It would lead to heartache
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