| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 12:50:01 PM | Good question. I went out with a girl last fall who I actually really liked who disclosed to me that she "had a past." I admit it bothered me, but I guess fortunately I didn't really have to deal with that since it didn't go anywhere.
Not sure what I would do if I ran into another similar situation. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 2:43:54 PM | | I'm a girl so I shouldn't be answering in here but i had to!!! I think if a girl was slutty in her past, but realized WHY she behaved like that and changed it, or if she did not view it as slutty at all, then she'd be an ok girl for life. A lot of my girlfriends that are crazy super slutty have wicked low self-esteem and HATE sex!!! which is so weird!! they use it as a means to an end, and that end is always BAD LOL, never ends well. So if they get their s**t together and stop doing that, they'd be awesome wives and mommies yay! | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 2:44:23 PM | | Sluts ARE cheaters.They all want their cake and eat it too.They will sleep with married men,your best friend,your boss,your girl friend,your best friends bosses girlfriend, and not understand why its wrong because sex means nothing to them other than a ego boost and a good feeling.Never Marry one! | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:11:19 PM | Well its a little ironic how women are more hard on "sluts" then men are generally speaking of course. Lots of guys like women who like sex so it's logical to see how they might be interested in a slutty type girl. The whole problem with all that however is that they get involved with these people and become emotionally attached and expect them to suddenly become un-slutty. Which is really kind of unfair in a sense.
If you sleep or get involved with a person who is "slutty" (man or woman) you ought not to expect more then that. That makes pretty good sense if you ask me.
With regards to marrying?.. I won't be getting married.. ever. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/5/2008 6:29:51 PM | | been there, done that (minus the marriage, we only got to the engagement part when a different reason broke us up)...would I do it again...possibly, probably because she never did cheat on me, that I know of. I'm too dam trusting tho... | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:32:10 AM | only a virgin or with maximum 1 or 2 partners. if more, than chances are she won't be faithful
if NOT more, chances are that she is still very curious... | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:38:19 AM | if NOT more, chances are that she is still very curious...
Couldn't agree more. All these supposed anti-slut posters are just trying to cover up their own insecurities. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:42:45 AM | | Let those among you who have not slutted before cast the first puritanical stone. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:53:18 AM | Let those among you who have not slutted before cast the first puritanical stone.
Never say that in the middle of a trekkie convention :). | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 12:39:02 PM | | I know this is ask a guy, but really, who cares if someone used to be promiscuous? What matters is that they are not doing it now. I'm a monogamous person and would want that in my mate. I definitely had female friends in college who were majorly slutty back then who have since become quite average in their dating habits. It is not accurate to assume "once a slut, always a slut." Most people's sexuality and emotional development changes quite a bit between the college years and one's 30s. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 4:20:42 PM |
I know this is ask a guy, but really, who cares if someone used to be promiscuous? What matters is that they are not doing it now. I'm a monogamous person and would want that in my mate. I definitely had female friends in college who were majorly slutty back then who have since become quite average in their dating habits. It is not accurate to assume "once a slut, always a slut." Most people's sexuality and emotional development changes quite a bit between the college years and one's 30s.
/agree
Don't bother with all the finger waving going on here anyhow most of them are just talking out their asses anyhow. The vast majority of men do not consider this real important. Many who are waving their fingers are playing the mister clean act trying to suck up and hopefully find a mate. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 6:02:48 PM | At my age a partner with a lack of a past would be more of a warning flag than someone who had one.
As far as what is a slut: Beats me and generally I don't care much about a woman's past unless she has a history of either cheating or being the other woman. Outside of that as long as she is drug and disease free I don't really care. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 9:21:49 PM | if she slept around alot because she liked sex would be one thing.
if she does it because she has low self esteem then thats quite another | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:11:23 PM | | This a trick question. SLUT is a derogitory term. If I thought of a woman as a slut then I would be casting a negative judgement upon her. Now her past sexual history is no longer in question, but rather my judgement. Why would I consider marrying anyone whom I have previously judged negatively? | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:19:28 PM | Short answer - yes and did.
Long answer - as long as she's not so bored with sex that all the stuff she did with other guys she won't do with me. That leads to being single. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 10:59:07 PM | how many ways are there of saying
definitely not,
no way,
you gotta be kidding | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/6/2008 11:41:07 PM | | kevin federline did. One dividing line is whether or not her status interferes with her career and/or income. In kevin's case, the sluttiness helped her career....it's when she got married that the career took a dive. It's almost like he killed the golden goose by asking her to straighten up. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/7/2008 1:26:44 AM | Went out with a slut for 2 years and she broke my heart big time.
Could never trust her as she cheated on me in the worst of ways.
Even slept with so called mates when I was at the same party. Your always the last to know and then the tramp would come back and sit on me knee after been sleeping with someone up stairs.
Was like she didnt care from the careless way she did it all the time but then she'd tell me her bullshlt lies and excuses.
Didnt realise it at the time but I had a very lucky escape.
Yeah I even considered marrying her when I was stupid in love. Not a hope in the world now ha ha.
Wouldnt trust a slut like that again. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/7/2008 10:23:52 AM | It totally depends on the woman and how she makes me feel when I'm with her...not her sex history.
If that woman was the town slut however, I'd think about moving to another city with her if I wanted to keep her. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/7/2008 3:27:08 PM | Yes, yes I would. Do you know any? Can I get their number? Got any pictures? hehehe
Slut is a term people (generally) use to identify someone else's behavior (although I do realize some women do identify them self with the moniker, although when this happens it is usually in jest). What is important is her behavior and commitment towards me, not what others judge her behaviors as denoting. Therefore I do not believe that a meaningful long term relationsip, or marriage, is mutually exclusive to someone being identified as a slut. | |
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