| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/8/2008 2:19:39 AM | | no; i dont want a woman that has had a lot of hands on her; from a personal level as well as an STD danger. no | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/8/2008 3:01:54 AM | | I'd rather be ignorant of the fact. If I knew I'm not sure I could trust her | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:21:50 AM | I think the original question implies that you would know that she was a slut and could therefore make an informed choice as to whether you'd marry her.
I'd love to marry a free-spirited woman who enjoyed satisfying her sexual urges with others and I'd actively encourage and support her in doing so.
The problem is where do I find such a woman?
I have never seen a personal ad from a woman who was looking for a partner but also wished to continue having sex outside of the relationship. If you know of any such ads or can give me advice as to where I can find such a woman then please get in touch.
I live in south Hampshire. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/11/2008 2:27:50 PM | | If I knew she was a slut then this means I banged her in which would also measn her and I aren't getting married...This probably doesn't answer your question so back to the beginning...Like an alcoholic, once a slut, always a slut! | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/11/2008 2:30:23 PM | "If I knew she was a slut then this means I banged her in which would also measn her and I aren't getting married...This probably doesn't answer your question so back to the beginning...Like an alcoholic, once a slut, always a slut!"
sluts have a lot of "experience." | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/11/2008 2:33:49 PM | no.
there was a time in my life when i was naive enough to say yes, because i believed in women and in good nature in them, now i am far more practical. its not the STDs, if you are geting married then you have been togetehr long enough for anything to incubate and have enough trust and are mature enough to get test results from a doctor. and its not the past that bothers me, everyone has one of some sorts, but the future. i couldnt live with a woman that could and would go off and cheat on me at every opportunity.
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/13/2008 9:29:19 PM | "slut" is relative to the listener like space time ;)
please define it and I will tell you if your definition jibes with mine.
do you mean a literal prostitute (0ne who accepts money for pay)
or do you mean "slut" as a euphemism for a really easy chick to score, who has been scored by legions of men without requirement of payment (at least in direct monetary terms)?
please , clarify. ;) | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/14/2008 6:43:02 AM | | Slut - sexually uninhibited, many past partners: wouldn't even register as an issue for me (the term wouldn’t be involved either). Slut - confirmed history of infidelity, happened more then once: no. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:54:01 AM | ok... My take on all this...
First, 'Slut' does not automatically equal 'cheater'.
Second...
I am seeing a woman who has been a swinger. She's had sex with multiple guys and women at the same time and not just once, but several times. She's also acquired and been treated for several STD's...
Several of the people she slept with before me are local, meaning I run into them all the time.
She's had very low self-esteem issues which she is working on.
She cheated on me with her girlfriend a couple of years ago...
She says all she wants is to be monogamous now and to settle down with me. In truth, she's a very very nice person.
If it wasn't for issues dealing with her past, we'd probably have been married by now...
However, her past has left her with baggage... ( not the least is that she can no longer have kids because of her past )
A part of me says, take her at face value and believe in her and her desire to be monogamous.
The other part of me says, she's finished having her fun and now that she's done what she wants, I have to live with it... | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/14/2008 10:40:59 AM | m_church,
You don't have to live with it, sounds like you don't want to...make the brave step and look for what you feel you deserve, don't settle even on the slightest doubt...if you do, you will regret it.
much success | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:21:22 AM | oh hell no!
i would'nt waste my time on someone like that.
besides if i wanted a ho,i'd be on plentyofwhores.com an not pof! | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 10:24:19 AM | If I wished to get married, it would probably be to a slut.
As I would only get married for the experience and would look for someone who would be very willing to get married then get divorced soon afterwards.
Very efficient way to cross that experience of my checklist before returning to my homeworld. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:34:30 PM | | Didn't Jesus let a prostitute wash his feet? What would Jesus do? | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 12:54:52 PM | I find it curious how quite a few men here assume a woman with any level of sexual experience is a slut and therefore unworthy of their time.
I also find it curious how many married men try to pick up women whining about how their wife doesn't want any/doesn't want it enough/isn't kinky enough/doesn't understand his "needs"/etc.
Buyer's remorse? | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 3:42:40 PM | She has to have a slutty mind set before I would ever date her and she had to be slut to and for me for me to want to marry her.
Of course the problem is it is semantics on what we consider a slut.  | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 6:38:22 PM | No I wouldn't. A slut; guy or girl; shows a lack of control and smarts. The STD rate among teens is 25% and there are millions of single mom's due to lack of responsibility in using protection.
I don't want to blindly trust that person. I don't want a girl with a lot of hands on her. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/25/2008 6:52:33 PM |
With my ex it wasn't the sex, it was the variety she liked
...Dude, hook me up!!...
but seriously... I've always defined "slut" as someone who has sex for the pure fun of having sex, whereas "whore" is someone who has sex in exchange for something.
So if a slut were to exchange sex for a lifetime of commitment she would actually be a whore, not a slut. (a high-class, whore, that is...)
and yes, I'm implying that anyone that is a wife is a whore...
and yes, I'm implying that women are either whores, sluts, or a combination thereof... which shows you what a sh!tty deal women get in the label department.
A little off topic, I know, but I applaud any woman that has the guts to be a slut. To go and have the fun you want and not give a sh!t what closed-minded people might think of it. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/26/2008 7:24:40 AM |
I find it curious how quite a few men here assume a woman with any level of sexual experience is a slut and therefore unworthy of their time.
I also find it curious how many married men try to pick up women whining about how their wife doesn't want any/doesn't want it enough/isn't kinky enough/doesn't understand his "needs"/etc.
I find it curious how many men assume that because a woman was a slut that she will be open to sex all the time. She might be so jaded that she simply doesn't enjoy it anymore and it is just a chore to her.
The reasons for her past behaviour may be the 'baggage' that is a deal breaker, not her actual behaviour.
Finally, assuming you marry her. The rest of your relationship together, she may be comparing you to her past lovers. Which means you may not 'measure up' and she may move on regardless. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/26/2008 9:19:29 AM |
I don't want a girl with a lot of hands on her
this logic cracks me up...first and foremost, if you ask a girl how many guys she has been with your an idiot...
1. she will lie to you
2. any number is to big for you...
what is a slut?...too many hands and worried about stds?....
ok...so what if a girl has had 5 b/f in her life?...all meaninful relationships that just ended?....
what if a girl had 3 one night stands in her life with 1 b/f as meaningful relationship?...
who is more of a slut?..
point is....I dont ask about a womens past, your asking for trouble....if you know a girl has slept with a lot of dudes your not gonna look for a relationship anyways....
sleeping with ONE guy your whole life can get an std just as much as sleeping with 10...
get a std test before sleeping with someone if your so worried about it.....
stop bieng niave | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/26/2008 12:38:25 PM |
sleeping with ONE guy your whole life can get an std just as much as sleeping with 10...
get a std test before sleeping with someone if your so worried about it.....
stop bieng niave
This is true. However, the more more guys, the GREATER the chance. The problem for most people with getting tested is waiting 3 months, to have a second set of tests done. One set of tests means nothing if someone was sexually active within the last 3-6 months...
The other side of STD's is that a woman may have problems from a previous STD after the fact.
A couple of examples...
1... She may be unable to have kids due to damage from Chlamydia or other STD's.
2...She may have or get Cervical cancer from a previous exposure to HPV. Watching the love of your life die from something she got from a previous lover(s) would not be a pleasant experience. | |
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| Would you marry a slut?
Posted: 5/26/2008 1:20:56 PM |
However, the more more guys, the GREATER the chance
the point is how will you know how many and who your partner has slept with?.....
If you ask a girl your dating how many guys she has "been" with your gonna get lied to....period...
and even if she answers you and says "4"...are you gonna beleive her?....
Its just the guys logic of "i dont want a girl with a lot of hands on her"....
he doesnt know how many, and he will NEVER know | |
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