| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:13:11 AM | | heh, personally i could care less if the OP reads what I have to say, I just enjoy posting because I can usually make sense of things and I like that :P | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:49:28 AM | Please dont be offended by what Im about to say, but we used to call your type of girl a 3:30..meaning when you left the bar alone at 3:30...you see where this going?
You are obviously more into this than he is and IMO ..you are setting yourself up for a world of dissappointment...kick him outta your basement and your life before you really get hurt | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/12/2008 9:17:17 AM | This is going no where fast; you need to move on; this guy is not a long term answer. It's up to you to take control of this situation.
Love is action; not intentions or thoughts or words. Look at a persons actions. They dont lie. | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/13/2008 7:02:30 PM | 1. get over him
2. your his fall back girl
3. get his ass out of the house, he's like that old funky couch at this point, and certainly going to block new interests | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:15:16 PM | | Sorry, but I don't think he's that interested. He's too busy looking at other options. He went away once and ended up meeting you again once he came back, but none of this seems to be him going out of his way to be with you. I certainly wouldn't believe he's working on a relationship as I think that's an excuse. You deserve someone who does want you to be central in their lives. I'm sure you'll find that person once you decide that you deserve better than this. | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:20:21 PM | I agree with the others...you are the "go-to" lady when the others let him down. You are more-or-less an enabler for him.
Have him find a new place to live (yet, why does the basement seem apropos?), examine your own needs & desires, and find someone to fulfill those in a healthy way.
Good luck,
Annudder | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/14/2008 12:53:25 PM | he has told me he needs space and time - to learn to trust me again.
OP, please explain this. Why doesn't he trust you now?
Edit: Annudder! How nice to see you.  | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/14/2008 1:00:41 PM | | Well, looks like the verdict is in, OP. Most of us (myself included) think this guy's gotta go. He lives in your basement, stays out all night, puts you off about your "relationship." I think you see where this is going (or should by now, as seeing you posted this question about 6 months ago). Hope all's well with you. | |
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| Guys - tell me what this behavior means
Posted: 6/14/2008 8:31:10 PM | Sorry to say this, but I don't think that he's in to you at all. I see a Man who is just using you for a place to stay. He's telling you enough to stay with you, but not enough to have to commit; cause he never will... . Sorry  | |
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