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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:25:42 AM | | Well let me tell you OP, at 1st, yes. No one and I mean no one looks at another person for the 1st time and says "Wow....He has such nice Morals!" It is at 1st always about looks...At first mind you. I personally don't go introduce myself to someone I don't find attractive. Yet there have been many situations where unexpected great women, I would never have approached somehow do or say something that throws whatever I originally thought, right out the window....So the short answer I think, is Yes, then hopefully later, no. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 3:14:42 PM | I do not have a terrible time getting a date, but would like to know how I can meet more women as to settle down someday. I have met a few online and one went out with for 3 months. Decided she was a little nutty. Any suggestions would be helpful. Maybe I am just to old and ugly.? | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 3:23:55 PM | | Well it looks like you're not a 9 or 10. Since that is the case you want to put up an 'image.' I'd suggest getting some tatoos, an earring and reduce your vocabulary to about 10 words(yo, babe, wat up) etc. Plus if you have a job I'd lose it quick, move in with your mom and make up this story that you just got out of jail. That should do it. Good luck. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 3:23:57 PM | | Girls check guys out just the same as guys do girls. There has to be an attraction of some sorts. And yes we fantasize about movie star looks and six packs but that doesn't mean we would want that for a partner. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 3:44:42 PM | so where do all the super ugly people find love?
everyone's saying looks play some part, so if you look like something that's not fit for me even to have on the bottom of my shoe, does that mean you are condemned to a life of solitude? or the ugly people just wait until everyone with a shred of good looks is paired up and they attempt to scoop up one of the rejects?
there's gotta be someone out there for everyone.
and in closing: moley-moley-mole! it's a big fat mole no one's supposed to talk about, but it's winking me in the face, i just wanna cut it off chop it up and make some guaca-moley! | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 11:10:13 PM | they sure do
either you have them or you don't.
And if you don't you kind of get bitter as time goes by, I know how it is. To be told that you do not have the looks and as time goes by your become bitter and cold.
It is harder when people, especially women, tell you to just chin up and keep on going. I can keep on going, but the whole idea is still on the back of my mind.
oh well, chin up i guess | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/7/2008 11:35:28 PM | I didnt read the previous posts so bear with me;
Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Absolutely not...but most definately a person needs to be appealing...so things like a great smile & just facial animation in general will get their attention.
After they've done the whole visual thing (YES women are visual)...then we'll head towards our next list of requirements (whatever they may be)
What do I need to do to even get a chance?
Im gonna be exceptionally literal here...*does the whole profile review thing*...
Get a haircut...your hair...umm...sucks
Because you're receding ontop...go with something really drastic like the shaved look (is attractive to alot *not all* women) and if you can stomach it...try some thicker facial hair (NEVER a full beard) and always make sure its kempt.
Dont wear red...it doesnt do anything for you...kinda washes you out. Go black, green, navy, white. Contrast..thats what you need.
And get new glasses...the shape on those are good...but because you're fair *coloring*...they dont do anything for facial definition.
Oh ..and work on your profile a bit...its a little ordinary. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/8/2008 3:39:06 AM | | Lets all be honest here. Looks are of some importance to us all. We all have our limits. I say looks are not important to me but you must have a good heart. But i have my limits. I dont want anyone shorter than me or someone whos face is covered in acne with green puss. Basically i dont want to feel sick when i look accross my bed each morning and see whats lying next to me. A plain guy is ok and fat is ok cuddly much better than skinny. Sorry skinny short guys whith bad acne its just my taste. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/8/2008 4:16:27 AM | Well looks matter initially. A relationship won't work unless there's some degree of physical attraction.
Just because some ladies aren't attracted to you, doesn't mean ALL won't be. You will be the worst possible date candidate for someone, but the man of someone else's dreams.
Just hold out, you'll find someone special :) x | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/8/2008 4:21:54 AM | | I hate to say this but because this is the internet looks do matter a lot. Your pics are what's going to get someone's attention. This is true for both men and women. Fortunately it's not so difficult in real life where you can get to know someone and show them your personality first. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/9/2008 2:24:27 AM | | Keep your head up man! it dose not matter what some feel! It only matters that you know your value and you do have value so keep polishing your heart and those who are attracted to you will manifest in your life. Keep the faith brother. The final chapter of your life is not over. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/9/2008 2:31:16 AM | | Yeah! I can understand why you say this but there is more to consider here. People are attracted to different features or characteristics plus they tend to change their minds. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 1/9/2008 8:24:23 AM | Look at the success stories and make your own mind up.
Why do people refer to the success stories to prove a point? A very small percentage of people that have ever used POF have posted on the success. I don't think you can make any accurate assessment from a very small sample of results. To answer the question, very few people of either gender would date someone they think is completely ugly. Looks aren't everything or necessary the most important thing, but needs to be at least some physical attraction and looks are often the first thing you notice about another person. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 2/21/2008 10:33:53 PM |
Why do people refer to the success stories to prove a point? Well it does prove a point. It proves that ordinary-looking people have success here. Very simple really. | |
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| Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what?
Posted: 2/21/2008 10:54:35 PM |
Just seems that way to me. I hardly get any replys, and no meetings so far
And that's the fault of the women here, because we're all just into looks.
Seems to me you've had lots of replies to the contrary, and many of those giving you good advice.
You could take some of that to heart and do something about the things that are limiting you, or you could keep whining and moaning and blaming the women who aren't interested in somebody who has given them nothing to be interested in.
Looks like you've already made your choice, OP. Good luck with it. | |
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