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Posted: 8/16/2007 5:14:38 PM | When my brother was on the site briefly he met a woman who seemed very nice... they met liked each other and the second time they met she told him she had some kids ( over 18) who had some problems, and she was also having some financial problems... the third time they met, she has cancer and hepatitis... also herpes ( but wasn't active or broekn out and she was not contagious).... she said she wanted to be honest with him because she liked him and did not want to keep secrets or for him to run off later because of the issues.
yikes. she was nice.. a nice person .. BUT !!!! wow !!!
anyway,
he ran like a bat out of hell, dropped his profile and that was it for internet dating for him.
that was a pretty bad experience I guess.. more so for someones first online date. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 5:36:35 PM | | To the OP, I don't think it had anything to do with him losing a game of pool. My opinion is... sorry to say...he "just wasn't that into you" and he just ran out on you and "cut his losses." Some men are jerks and do things like that. Rude, I know! There's a fun book by Greg Behrendt, who currently has a talk show. He used to write for "Sex and the City." It's called, "He's Just Not That Into You" and it helps us women to recognize some of the behaviors that might indicate this. Of course, some of them should be blatantly obvious, but sometimes we refuse to see the "signals." Sorry that happened to you...but, you're better off without someone who acts like that! | |
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Posted: 8/16/2007 10:05:46 PM | I usually stay away from guys that don't show me clear head shots but this "stunner" claimed he was a young professional, ex-football player, 6', muscular, blond, blue eyes, and handsome. He even sent me pictures of his buff body with his face scratched out..
I drove to his apartment thinking, "we're just going to hang out then go out to eat." When I saw him, sure, he was blond, 6', and had blue eyes, but that ****er was at least triple my age!
I cannot believe I followed him to his apartment. I thought he was going to kill me. Anyway, he turned on the tv, started watching porn, then started jacking off. I wanted to puke. Then he kept saying "Come on, haven't you ever wanted to have sex with an older man." Oh god, I ran out of there when he went to the bathroom. I screamed as I drove down the freeway. And I smoked my first and only cigarette. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2007 8:58:34 PM | Well, I don't know that this would be classified as my "worst" date, but it certainly taught me a couple of lessons.... 
When I was new to this Online Dating stuff, I agreed to meet a man who only had one photo posted on his profile, and it was sort of dark, and mostly all I could see in the photo was his long blond hair and a nice jaw line... lol We'd developed some pre-mature chemistry and lots of flirting on the phone... (Ya, I fell prey to that once or twice! haha). The night before we met in person, I said, "Hey, this isn't really fair, because you know exactly what I look like from all my photos, but I've only seen one of you, and it's not very clear at that. For all I know, you could have a hunch back, crooked teeth and a wart on your nose!"
OMG... when I met him at a restaurant, lol, he had everything but the hunch back! He kept putting his hand in front of his mouth when he spoke or smiled (yes, extremely crooked teeth! lol), and then after about 15 minutes of conversation he finally said "Oh, and this isn't a wart on my nose, its... blah blah blah...." lol... I don't even remember what he claimed it was cuz I was dying inside and acted like I hadn't even noticed!! 
Lessons learned from that one? Try to see multiple photos of a person you're wanting to meet (and don't put your foot in your mouth by saying something derrogative which might apply to them!), and secondly, keep the flirtation to a minimum, lest you regret every bit of it when you finally meet in person!!  lol
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:30:53 AM | Not all guys are like that...... krys ahah you just dont find that rare albino yet haha...
seems to me this guy is fake ...... and its for the best anyways.... hmm.. i would kinda be upset if one of my friends was flirting with this girl im trying to hook up with... but i know, none of my friends would step on my shoe laces yet alone my shoes...
before meeting a guy off the net maybe you should talk to him for a while like on the phone... and really a club? how can someone really get to know you at a club....
haha sorry for laying it down how it is...
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Posted: 10/6/2008 9:33:39 AM | | I dont think iv ever had a bad date..... bad relationship in the end but never a bad date..... actually i got stood up once cuase im to mature and that shes like me but she didnt want a bf and that she was to young 20 ? im 25 whatever i dont like games anyways so | |
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Posted: 10/7/2008 9:09:15 AM | | We had this wonderfully long conversation filled dinner and then went for a long beautiful ride on my motorcycle per her request, found a nice quiet spot by a pond and watched the sunset together while kissing and snuggling. Then on the way home stopped for some icecream and traded icecream kisses and laughter. Once we got to her door she gave me a long goodnight kiss and said..I had a wonderful time..frank...too bad my name wasn't frank...then she closed the door and I left. The next day her roommate happened to see me and told me I was too nice of a guy. When I saw "miss dinner date" again..I found out I was dating a serial dinner dater instead of someone who was interested in a real relationship. I just happened to be Wednesday nights diner date for that week. | |
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Posted: 10/9/2008 2:16:28 AM | | I went on a date with this guy; and we went out to Mexi's for dinner, which I thought would be nice...however this guy got talking and he wouldn't shut up; but he was talking about people that we both mutually knew, but he had nothing good to say about anyone in the city; we lived in, it was a small city and he just kept talking non stop; about every person we both knew, saying bad things and just gossiping about people; and I knew all the people; and some things he was saying was not true at all. Then he got talking about how great and hot he was and perfect...and his mouth kept going on about gossip about the people we knew and just being conceited...I couldn't wait to leave! He wouldn't even let me say a word, I tried to hang out with him once more thinking maybe he was just nervous...but it was the same thing more gossip and lies about people; I knew...so I just stopped talking to him, then he started stories about me! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2008 7:53:07 AM | Not a BAD date, just a funny one:
Many, many years ago, before the internet, I met this guy at a Fireman's picnic in a neighboring town...tall, blonde, hot, etc. He asked me if we could get together the next afternoon and I said "sure!".
Well, I asked where we were going/what we were doing, and he said it was a suprise. So I put on my expensive designer jeans, leather boots and a silk blouse, did my hair and makeup...and he took me 4-wheeling on his quad! Down a river, no less! I will admit that once I got past the ruin of my clothing and hair I had a lot of fun, but it wasn't over yet...
He took me home to meet his mother. There I stood covered in seaweed and mud with my hair and face a mess. LMAO She looked shocked, then showed me the bathroom and supplied me with a robe & some of his sister's clothes. While in the tub (there was no shower) I could clearly hear her yelling at him about the way he treated his dates. Poor guy...he had no way of knowing what I would wear, since I had on beat-up Levi's and a concert T-shirt when we met! | |
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Posted: 10/9/2008 8:42:57 AM | Msg. 4 too funny. Sorry your Saturday was ruined.
One of my worst dates was when my children were younger and I had met this man at a public dance which myself and my girls used to attend.
He comes to the door to pick me up ( which is proper ). My son blurts out, " Are you going to kiss and have sex?" Mind you, I rarely dated so this came out of nowhere. He was only six at the time and I was so embarressed.
We continue on our date where he takes me to one of the local restaurants for a nice dinner. All he could take about was how his ex was always jealous and accusing him of cheating. Needless to say, it was our last date. I wasn't physically attracted to him so I never, and I mean never gave him any signs to suggest that. Oh, and he bragged about his job and implied how physically fit he was. I could never figure out where that came from. Let's just leave it at that. | |
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