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| A Very Differant Broken Heart, Is there really plenty of fish in the sea ?...
Posted: 9/23/2008 7:40:00 AM | While I do not condone cheating or extra-marital affairs I do sympathize with both you and the mother over your loss of your son together. Even though your (legal) wife has done some pretty bad things to your marraige and made it worse by running off with another man I doubt she willingly put her oldest son in danger by putting him on a bike without any basic knowledge of how to ride it.
Tragedy can happen anywhere and to hold in anger and blame will only further your own anguish and pain over the loss. She cannot be held fully responsible as there was a driver of that vehicle, there was probably a circumstance which made this event happen where and when it did out of anyones control. Did you expect her to shelter him from ever evenaccidentally entering the street?, it does happen and it is very sad but try to understand she is probably grieving as well and maybe even blaming herself for buying a bike for him or letting him outside ever.
I (IMHO) think you need to talk with her rationally to grieve and put your son to rest. You are torturing yourself with the memory of his death instead of cherishing the memory of his life and the joy you did have with him.
Your hatred for your wife and the situation of your lost son while very sad is going to scare away any potential dates and ensure you are going to be alone for a very long time a bitter and angry old man. You will find no peace in love from another when you have no love to give. Your heart is filled with hate, anger and rage by the posts you have up and rightfully so. You have been betrayed in the worst way.
Please for your own sanity seek council and learn to love yourself, once you realize you can be happy again with yourself and love who you are without feeling hate for those you loved you will be able to move on and meet someone special again who will bring you joy and maybe some new feelings you never experienced.... like true love , trust and devotion you never got from your current wife.
Be good to yourself and find peace. | |
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