| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/10/2008 12:59:50 AM | "Honestly, how many women would put up with a man who's constantly trying to please them, waiting on them hand and foot? They would find him weak and needy, and draining on their energies. As I said, a good fantasy, but not something that generally works in real life. There are, of course, always exceptions."
Moi, Moi, Moi...and about 40 billion other women, according to multiple studies done.
:) But hey, listen to the 'so-called' experts -- NOT! Then, get my book, "The Male Dilemma", before you get in real trouble, hehe.
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/10/2008 5:55:16 AM | We all get down from time to time, and sometimes the reasons are unknown, why not take hold of her hand and tell her that you have noticed how down she has been lately, that you love her and for whatever reasons she is'nt herself right now, you are there whenever she is ready to let you in! It may start the ball rolling of getting to the bottom of it all, but then saying all this, you are such a lovely guy anyway so you have probably said this to her already!
Try asking her if there is something she would really love to do, something she hasnt done but would like to, do something out of the ordinary. If she knows you are there for her then she will be smiling again soon, you'll see, just give it time, you're doing all the right things, keep ya chin up, take care x | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/10/2008 6:05:57 AM | If she likes animals - take her to an animal shelter. Some little kitten or big brown eyed dog should get her thoughts going in a different direction.
Show her some pictures of babies. Babies are in a natural state of bliss most of the time.
Rent some really funny movies.
Get her down and tickle her until she pees her pants - laughing so hard. | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:56:16 AM | OP you don't know why your GIRLFRIEND is feeling down and want to cheer her up?
Oh I dunno...how about deleting your profile off of a dating site for starters??
Yep! I've read through all this and have to admit, this is the best answer!!!!  | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/12/2008 1:25:45 PM | Show her what a Scotsman does, or does not wear under his Kilt!
JUST KIDDING! 
This is a hard one because we don't know why she's down in the dumps! You weren't all that clear as to why she's down. Knowing the reason why she's down might help?
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:20:28 PM |
get 1,000 gramm of chocolate different tastes, and a bottle of sangria with oranges. or a "boiled red wine".
I am getting up a bus, heading to your house............ | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:25:28 PM | I am not sure if this is a long term down in the dumps? But that's really sweet that you want to cheer her up.
Since you cook for her all the time and etc (which is great)-maybe try something different? Do something together that she really enjoys but you two haven't experienced together yet? Try to do something together that you both never tried (doesnt have to be extreme-like sky diving or anything) or something?
Good luck! | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:37:23 PM | If she likes affection, give her LOTS of that. Give her hugs & kisses, and if she likes cuddling on the couch, then do that for her.
Also, ASK her if YOU could do something for her that she would like - you don't have to say that you want to cheer her up, since no one wants to be pitied.
Sometimes there's not much we can do when someone is down except BE THERE for them in whatever capacity that entails - such as watching a movie/tv with them, talking with them, listening to them, and just keeping them company. Sometimes it just takes TIME before someone will feel better, but as long as you do your part - however small or big - then that should enough.
P.S. OP - Why do you have this written on your profile under "First Date" - "Go for a drink, have a chat an see what happens!!" NOW I'm not impressed with you! If you have a steady girlfriend, then you shouldn't have this on your profile!! I'm now disgusted with you, as this is NOT appropriate behaviour. YOU said you have a GIRLFRIEND - so why are you on POF!!!! (No where does he say he's on here for the forums, plus he wrote the above sentence!) | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/26/2008 5:55:57 PM | Bring out the chocolate syrup and strawberries ;)
Honestly though, anything you do will just cover up whatever is bothering your gf. If you haven't already, talk to her about things and help her get through it. | |
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| Ideas on how to cheer up my girlfriend.....
Posted: 1/26/2008 6:42:40 PM | You sound like the man who already does this but ---- tell her exactly how you feel about her and why she is your sweetie -- why she is important to you like none other. That should cheer up any girlfriend.
Try planning your next vacation (like for next year or something) ---- allow both of you to dream about the future. | |
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