| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/7/2008 2:33:51 PM | | this guy is a serious control freak. most likely he will be an even bigger one as he ages. control freaks are that way because they have so little control over "things" in their life. unfortunately women and children become easy targets. hopefully you have learned about this type of personality because in the beginning they are all nice and complimentary. when the relationship starts is when the control issues start. do not make this mistake again. you and your future children will thank you for it. | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/7/2008 2:42:33 PM | | I don't think he is psycho, a little weird and insecure....That comes from 2 things....Still being a virgin and young...When they say women mature faster it is a truth I have learned...But I would say to let him go, you are still young and these are lifes learning lessons...It was wrong of him to try to get you to not spend time with your family on his part....But it sounds to me like he has trust issues which again I think come back to his insecurity....However, something like that can get abusive given the right circumstances...Good luck | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/10/2008 6:58:33 PM | This guy sounds just like my ex husband. WOW! Like everyone has said-RUN! Run far far away like a bird (Forrest Gump anyone?).
No one deserves to be treated like this-no one! He is emotionally abusive and should be put in his place-even yet left alone! That is a dangerous weapon (emotional abuse) that men use to alienate us away from everything that we love or makes us tick.
**Now men don't get your panties in a wad. Just generally speaking! There are some really great men out there that know how to treat a woman with.
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/10/2008 7:32:41 PM | I agree with all the advice given, but I am just wondering who slashed your tires?
You said you had your tires slashed - do you know if he had anything to do with that?
If he didn't, what type of life are you leading that has someone else in your life doing that to it? | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/10/2008 7:50:55 PM | "He didn't want me spending any time with my family at all."
"His exact words: "What, so you won't blow off your family for me?""
"he was determined to catch me "cheating""
Can you say "control freak"? | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/11/2008 4:58:58 AM |
...slashed tires...If he didn't, what type of life are you leading that has someone else in your life doing that to it?
whoa--waitaminute.
why does she have to be "leading a life" that would cause someone to do something like that? that's a little presumptious, don't you think?
ever heard of random acts of mischief? it happens. frequently. and frequently random. | |
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Nona37
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/11/2008 5:14:03 AM |
"Are any of your friends single? I'd like to meet them.
That was his way of "getting" at you! I wouldn't even give him another thought, he's an abuser, I recognized the signs right away from what you were relaying to us. Abusers do like to isolate their victims, that way he/she is cutting off your support line and basically leaves them free and clear to do what they want to you. You did the right thing, he's a waste and more than likely has a history of abusing women. | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/11/2008 5:14:43 AM | He accused you of cheating, so you took pictures to show him...rather than just walking right then?
I guess taking pictures was easier than admitting this guy wasn't dating material...for the time being. | |
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| And you thought your relationships had problems...
Posted: 1/11/2008 6:08:01 AM | he is a control freak, user and wants to make you hate men so you won't be able to trust any of them again.
get away from him. have nothing to do with him and maybe go to some counseling so you can recognize what a control freak is, he has severe mental issues. stay away from him... go get some counseling or at least some books so you can spot one in the future. | |
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