| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 9/7/2008 9:33:14 PM |
I wouldn't consider doing that in front of a woman, nor had I actually considered that ANY guy would do that. Apparently, though, something good has come of these guys doing this, or else why would they continue to do it?
True..however, I think some of them are just exhibitionists..and some think women respond to looking at one the same way they respond to seeing naked female parts...it's happened to me once or twice in my lifetime...personally, along with the unsolicited pix of them...I am more likely to be impressed by one because of who it is attached to, rather than what it looks like?..lol... | |
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imbir
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 12:14:35 AM | ^^^zangie , I would agree with your 'assessment' of these men. I experiensed to be a chosen spectator several times when I was 10-20yr old ...in Europe, and it was taking place in...a park...public pool...public transpotation or main entry of my condo...so why not a date! There is a definition of this psychological deviation:
EXHIBICIONISM, known variously as flashing, apodysophilia and Lady Godiva syndrome,[1] is the psychological need and pattern of behavior involving the exposure of parts of the body to another person with a tendency toward an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to attract the attention of another in an open display of bare "private parts" — i.e., parts of the human body which would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances. Some researchers have claimed that telephone scatalogia is a variant of exhibitionism.[2][3]
A research team asked a sample of 185 exhibitionists, “How would you have preferred a person to react if you were to expose your privates to him or her?” The most common response was “Would want to have sexual intercourse” (35.1%), followed by “No reaction necessary at all” (19.5%), “To show their privates also” (15.1%), “Admiration” (14.1%), and “Any reaction” (11.9%). Only very few exhibitionists chose “Anger and disgust” (3.8%) or “Fear” (0.5).[4]
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 12:18:45 AM | | ive got a rule that i never take my own clothes off whenever im around a woman, kind of like how newly weds drink wine. me to her, but never me to me- it makes me feel creepy, and this way i know when its right, if ever | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 2:00:29 AM | The last time l told of my "willy-whipping out" experience most people didn't believe me. A lot of people thought there was no way that it could happen! Nice to see (well no, not nice to see but l think you get it) that l am not alone! I had a *cough**ahem* "gentleman" take me out for what was to be a date. We went to a local pub and no word of a lie, we got our drinks, sat down and l looked down at my drink and took a sip.....in that time l looked back over and this man had his stick in his hand, going to town. I could not believe it. He actually had the audacity to phone me the next day and tell me what a great time he had and could we do it again?!?!?! Like WTF? Is the guy serious?
Yes it does happen and l have no clue what in the world makes some of these men think that is okay or even remotely attractive! Wierd and creepy | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 7:49:37 AM | Did anyone see the "Naked Man" episode of "How I Met Your Mother" ? It reminded me of this thread.
Like I said ages ago, when this thread appeared: At some point this must've worked for them... so they kept doing it. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 3:51:59 PM | This happened to me... shame too - nice guy, lovely... er, equipment - tackle, Hank and the twins - whatever... didn't believe that anyone could shock me, but he did. Had he waited longer than 75 minutes from the minute I met him, things might have turned out different...
From now on out, I've even posted this on the profile, if they want to show me their "endowment" - it better be a hospital wing or school.
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susi65
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 4:32:03 PM | This has happened to me a couple of times. One was on a first date! We were sitting in a booth at a restaurant talking, and out of the blue, he took my hand (my first thought was "how romantic") and he put it on his semi-rigid****that he had taken out of his pants. I recoiled in horror, and he got mad and called me frigid. I went home and never saw him again. The second time was with a guy I had gone out with a couple of times. We went out dancing, (what is it about dancing that makes a man think he can whip it out anytime he wants?) and he unzipped his pants when a slow dance came on. I felt something poking me, and when I reached down, there it was! I sort of laughed, and wondered out loud where the rest of it was. He got mad- but my feeling is that if you don't respect me, I don't owe you any respect either. Oh, and by the way, both of these men were 40 and over! Silly men. You do not impress women by whipping out your junk if no one's asking to see it.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 4:52:06 PM | Hahaha, this is the funniest thread i've read. It has happened to me a few times, and it made me so incredibly uncomfortable. I'd say it's happened to probably about 50% of women judging from my friends and other women i've talked to.
These guys are so disgusting and crude. I can't imagine what makes them think it's ok. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 5:14:25 PM |
These guys are so disgusting and crude. I can't imagine what makes them think it's ok.
I'm a man and I feel the exact same way. How a woman would even consider putting up with a sicko like that..
But I know that there are men who've thrown all conventions to the wind and think that there's nothing wrong with what they do. They might even enjoy shocking the person.. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 5:33:08 PM | I apparently did this accidentally on stage in front of 250 people without even realizing it. I only found out a few months afterwards when I was hanging out (ha ha) with some theatre folks and they were all relating their most embarassing moment on stage and when it got to be my turn, this lady answered for me...
Obviously, it's something we must do subliminally...
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 6:24:33 PM | Well I believe some men think that women think the same as men. Guys this isnt true! Most women are not turned on to visuals as men if they get the hint of cleavage we get excited. It's the hard up type of guys that do this type of behavior. They are hard up because they cant turn women on nor know how to. I would suggest getting a book and educate yourself on how women think sexually and what turns them on. Ever notice that some of the hottest chicks are with average looking guys or guys with a great sense of humor,, Humor is a turn on for most women not slinging out your****. Good luck to all in your dating relationships.. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 6:32:19 PM | excuse me while I whip this out... Maybe a hand job is the appropriate response? Never tried that one myself....but sheesh....seems a tad...hmm...forward. Certainly "to the point" huh? LOL! | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 6:38:48 PM | I have a story about a friend of mine. We were traveling around Europe. He is afraid to fly so he took some meds to help him sleep on one flight. I wasn't seated near him but in the next row over. Anyway, about 2 hours into the flight, everyone's sleeping. The 60 yo woman next to him screams "Oh my god...what are you doing????" Well, he was jerking off in his sleep. He woke up and ask her if she wanted to help him finish. Of course, I was blamed for not sitting next to him in the first place. For the rest of the flight I couldn't stop laughing. Good times. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 6:47:20 PM | I GOTA A GOOD TRUE STORY THAT FITS HERE !! I NEVER TAUGHT IT WOULD BE A COMMONish PROBLEM BUT......
A MATE OF MINE .... FEMALE... WAS HAVING WORK DONE ON HER HOUSE AND WOULD MAKE THE BUILDERS CUPS OF TEA AND STUFF TO BE NICE ....
THERE WAS A GUY THAT SHE HAD CHTTED TO ABIT AND HAD FLIRTED A LIL OVER THE WEEK ....
ON THE FRIDAY HE CAME INTO THE HOUSE TO SAY THEY WERE JUST ON TIDY UP AND WOULD BE FINISHED WITH IN HE HOUR SHE SAID LOVELY COME IN FOR A CUPPA WHEN YOUR FINISHED IF YOU LIKE... MEANING ALL OF THEM
THE GUY ARRIVED IN ON HIS OWN AND SHE SAID ARE THE REST COMMING IN HE REPLIED THEY WANTED TO GET GOING
SHE SAID OK SIT DOWN AND WENT INTO THE KITCHEN TO PUT ON THE KETTLE ... WHEN SHE CAME BACK HE WAS SITTING ON THE COUCH WITH HIS PANTS AROUND HIS ANKLES !!!
SHE BURST OUT LAUGHING AT HIM ... HISTERICALLY
HE JUST STOOD UP AND PULLED HIS PANTS UP SAID THERE WAS NO NEED TO LAUGH AND LEFT !!
THE REALLY WEIRD THING IS SHE KNOWS THE BUILDERS TRU FRIENDS ? | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 7:21:40 PM | in amovie theater inmthe middle of a movie he said here could you hold this for a minute ? I looked to see what he wanted me to hold I thought it might be his drink !! when I saw the "item" I put my drink upside down and rested the cup on it ! then left laughing like hell | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 7:31:52 PM | | This has happened to me a few times as well on dates. Both times they were of the attitude "look at what you did to me" like it is my obligation to do something about their raging hardons. The worst I've heard, a friend of mine invited this guy over for dinner on their 2nd date, and after the meal they went into the living room where he proceeded to "rub one off" in her presence while she protested the whole time. She described it as a visual molestation. Guys who do this (and I know you're out there reading this)- WTF are you thinking??! | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 7:57:47 PM | I had this happen once, and it wasn't even on a date. When I was in my 30s, I ran my own resume-writing service. A client comes over, I'm sitting down and on the computer, working on his resume. He's standing behind me. Then he comes up beside me with his d*ck out, and nudges it towards my face!
My teenage son and his friends were right in the other room, too. I told that jerk "What in the HELL do you think you're doing?" I told him to leave immediately, and if he didn't, he would have to deal with my football player son and his friends. He was smart enough to leave immediately.
Come to find out, he had done that with a couple of other women I knew, too. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 12/18/2008 8:40:35 PM | This has probably happened to almost every female...I know that it has certainly happened to me.
Once while at work actually. When I was working in a tech support call center a co worker who was sitting right beside me looked over at me and then bam, penis city. Thankfuly a manager saw this and he was escorted off the property and never came back.
Imagine my surprise later on that day when a guy in the mall reached down, grabbed "himself" and literally jiggled his junk at me(thankfully still with pants on).
I don't believe these men actually stop to think if it is a good idea to wip it out before they do it. I have found the best way to deal is just to say, seriously, you need to put that back in your pants now... But I am very glad to hear others are running into the same thing, they are very funny stories to hear lol. | |
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