| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 9/7/2008 9:33:14 PM |
I wouldn't consider doing that in front of a woman, nor had I actually considered that ANY guy would do that. Apparently, though, something good has come of these guys doing this, or else why would they continue to do it?
True..however, I think some of them are just exhibitionists..and some think women respond to looking at one the same way they respond to seeing naked female parts...it's happened to me once or twice in my lifetime...personally, along with the unsolicited pix of them...I am more likely to be impressed by one because of who it is attached to, rather than what it looks like?..lol... | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 12:14:35 AM | ^^^zangie , I would agree with your 'assessment' of these men. I experiensed to be a chosen spectator several times when I was 10-20yr old ...in Europe, and it was taking place in...a park...public pool...public transpotation or main entry of my condo...so why not a date! There is a definition of this psychological deviation:
EXHIBICIONISM, known variously as flashing, apodysophilia and Lady Godiva syndrome,[1] is the psychological need and pattern of behavior involving the exposure of parts of the body to another person with a tendency toward an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to attract the attention of another in an open display of bare "private parts" — i.e., parts of the human body which would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances. Some researchers have claimed that telephone scatalogia is a variant of exhibitionism.[2][3]
A research team asked a sample of 185 exhibitionists, “How would you have preferred a person to react if you were to expose your privates to him or her?” The most common response was “Would want to have sexual intercourse” (35.1%), followed by “No reaction necessary at all” (19.5%), “To show their privates also” (15.1%), “Admiration” (14.1%), and “Any reaction” (11.9%). Only very few exhibitionists chose “Anger and disgust” (3.8%) or “Fear” (0.5).[4]
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 12:18:45 AM | | ive got a rule that i never take my own clothes off whenever im around a woman, kind of like how newly weds drink wine. me to her, but never me to me- it makes me feel creepy, and this way i know when its right, if ever | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 2:00:29 AM | The last time l told of my "willy-whipping out" experience most people didn't believe me. A lot of people thought there was no way that it could happen! Nice to see (well no, not nice to see but l think you get it) that l am not alone! I had a *cough**ahem* "gentleman" take me out for what was to be a date. We went to a local pub and no word of a lie, we got our drinks, sat down and l looked down at my drink and took a sip.....in that time l looked back over and this man had his stick in his hand, going to town. I could not believe it. He actually had the audacity to phone me the next day and tell me what a great time he had and could we do it again?!?!?! Like WTF? Is the guy serious?
Yes it does happen and l have no clue what in the world makes some of these men think that is okay or even remotely attractive! Wierd and creepy | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 7:49:37 AM | Did anyone see the "Naked Man" episode of "How I Met Your Mother" ? It reminded me of this thread.
Like I said ages ago, when this thread appeared: At some point this must've worked for them... so they kept doing it. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 3:51:59 PM | This happened to me... shame too - nice guy, lovely... er, equipment - tackle, Hank and the twins - whatever... didn't believe that anyone could shock me, but he did. Had he waited longer than 75 minutes from the minute I met him, things might have turned out different...
From now on out, I've even posted this on the profile, if they want to show me their "endowment" - it better be a hospital wing or school.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 4:32:03 PM | This has happened to me a couple of times. One was on a first date! We were sitting in a booth at a restaurant talking, and out of the blue, he took my hand (my first thought was "how romantic") and he put it on his semi-rigid****that he had taken out of his pants. I recoiled in horror, and he got mad and called me frigid. I went home and never saw him again. The second time was with a guy I had gone out with a couple of times. We went out dancing, (what is it about dancing that makes a man think he can whip it out anytime he wants?) and he unzipped his pants when a slow dance came on. I felt something poking me, and when I reached down, there it was! I sort of laughed, and wondered out loud where the rest of it was. He got mad- but my feeling is that if you don't respect me, I don't owe you any respect either. Oh, and by the way, both of these men were 40 and over! Silly men. You do not impress women by whipping out your junk if no one's asking to see it.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 4:52:06 PM | Hahaha, this is the funniest thread i've read. It has happened to me a few times, and it made me so incredibly uncomfortable. I'd say it's happened to probably about 50% of women judging from my friends and other women i've talked to.
These guys are so disgusting and crude. I can't imagine what makes them think it's ok. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 5:14:25 PM |
These guys are so disgusting and crude. I can't imagine what makes them think it's ok.
I'm a man and I feel the exact same way. How a woman would even consider putting up with a sicko like that..
But I know that there are men who've thrown all conventions to the wind and think that there's nothing wrong with what they do. They might even enjoy shocking the person.. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately Posted: 11/28/2008 5:33:08 PM | I apparently did this accidentally on stage in front of 250 people without even realizing it. I only found out a few months afterwards when I was hanging out (ha ha) with some theatre folks and they were all relating their most embarassing moment on stage and when it got to be my turn, this lady answered for me...
Obviously, it's something we must do subliminally...
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