| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/18/2008 9:15:56 PM | | This may be slightly tangential to the topic of discussion, but I'm trying to figure out how to respond to a man that I've been corresponding with for some time, met once (with one brief good-bye kiss), like a lot, and who (unsolicited) just emailed me a full-color photograph of his penis. Any suggestions? | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 3:55:50 AM |
This may be slightly tangential to the topic of discussion, but I'm trying to figure out how to respond to a man that I've been corresponding with for some time, met once (with one brief good-bye kiss), like a lot, and who (unsolicited) just emailed me a full-color photograph of his penis. Any suggestions?
Oh PsychDoctor... do I have the thread for you!
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8590321.aspx
We really must get that POF calendar happening. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 5:28:14 AM | | LOL i dont mean to laugh at this thread but i damn near fell out of my chair for 2 reasons. I've done it-just whipped it out unexpectantly-but wasnt looking for sex.I also think it shows how inconsiderate some guys can be. I've done it to get a reaction out of em-i always enjoy gettin that Oh know he didnt look on their faces-more to ligthen the mood verse start sexy time. I'll flash or walk around butt naked in the wierdest of moments-but its harmless and everytime i done it-it was looked at as just that.I usually do stuff like that if we're intimate or things seem to be leadin to that point.Just pullin ur willy out and expecting a gal to jump on it cuz its there is a lil trifling--ya gotta put a whole lot more effort into it then just pullin it out | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 5:28:17 AM | AAA not sure where your getting you men but I havnt ever done a move like that unless she initiates....or we kiss to the point that it progresses...and no i never just whip it out....ends up usually she is very happy first then I might get my satisfaction...if shes not purring and sleeping very content....like I said...not sure where your getting these guys....lol. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 11:49:45 AM | Unfortunately, yes, I've experienced this once. It was like "Dude, you've got to be kidding me."
I think as somone else pointed out earlier, they do it in hopes of getting laid... not very seductive and lacks originality... | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 4:26:29 PM | | PsychDoctor, if someone that I wasn't intimately familiar with *cough, cough* sent me a picture of their genitalia, I would print it out, write my own critique on it with black marker, complete with circles and arrows, tips for improvement, comments from my friends, scan it back in and send it right back. They were looking for a reaction, right? | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 4:34:43 PM | Pretty common, yes
Shocking, yes
rude, yes
2nd date, slim to no chance
Inappropriate, hell yeah
I have even had a guy that asked if he could on first meeting, I didn't care at the time but now I'm like what was I thinking? No decent guy would do this upon first meeting someone. At least wait a couple of dates.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 4:55:38 PM | | That is so disgusting. IF a man pulled that stunt on any date. I would walk right then and there. And also announce to the man to put his prick back in his pants as loud as I could. I don't think he would pull that on another woman. There is a time and a place. And in public is not one of them. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 5:02:40 PM |
This may be slightly tangential to the topic of discussion, but I'm trying to figure out how to respond to a man that I've been corresponding with for some time, met once (with one brief good-bye kiss), like a lot, and who (unsolicited) just emailed me a full-color photograph of his penis. Any suggestions?
Yes-please send me a copy.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:21:39 PM | I think this needs to be handled with extreem harshness on the part of the woman. Let him know that in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS is this behavior acceptable. WTF!!!!
I wonder of these A$$ holes become sexual preditors because they think it's ok.
I am stunned at the replies that indicate this is not uncommon. DO something to stop it, right then and there. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 6:33:31 PM | I went to a bar with a guy on our first date, and we had a few drinks and decided to brave the food. We went to a table in the back...it was kind of dark, but it was quiet so we could talk. He grabbed my hand and I'm thinking "I'm really not interested in holding this guys hand so soon." But, lo and behold, he wasn't interested in holding mine either. He had a nice, erect penis unzipped out of his pants that was "all for me, baby..." or so I was told.
Check, please!!!!!  | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 7:29:36 PM | There is NO inappropriate time to "whip it out"! If a woman asks, "Would you like fries with that?"; that's our cue to introduce her to "The Wild Chub". I for one can't think of a reason not to whip it out. You know you ladies love it! Hmmm. Wait a minute...I think this is a troll post; she just wants guys to send her pictures of themselves " Whipping it out". Your a sly one O.P.! | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/19/2008 7:59:33 PM | | being a guy i have never done this. nor will i ever. i'm the kind of guy that if it's the right time to bring out mr. winky ,she will be the one to take him out of the cage. but that's just me. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/20/2008 5:55:31 AM | Granted its only my opinion, and everyone has a different view of things. While I suppose that pulling it out on a first date would be mildly socially retarded, any man or woman that admits to getting to third base on a first date, can attest that whipping it out has worked for someone, somewhere.
Here is my thoughts...
1. Women tend to be passive about making the first move.
2. There isn't a "second base" for women to touch or kiss on a man.
3. In locker room talk, (which can be sketch yet true), We've all heard the story where it worked.
4. Its nostalgic. Ted Nugent eloquently quipped..."lookie here sweet young thing, the magic's in my hands.....When in doubt, I whip it out" (Free For All, 1976).
5. I do like the thinking if your pants get tight and you need to be comfy.
6. Some women do like it. Some women ask to see you to whip it out. Maybe I didn't take her to go meet mom, but its hard to say no to provocative moments.
I think this should be a dating consideration. A pre-requisite question that is asked along with favorite color. Honesty is important. Maybe a simple, "Are you going to show me your junk on the first date," would suffice as enough to defer it to a second date. Inform your potential date that your not into first date meat gazing. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/20/2008 6:05:33 AM | Oh, niiice, Puck. Now every guy on POF who whips it out will just say"Hey-I thought you might like a taste of nostalgia."
And I also just pictured your penis with Ted Nugent pubic hair and a camo condom on.
(I hope people who read that are familiar with something called a sense of humor) | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/20/2008 6:30:17 AM | the guy seems oblivious that he is doing anything out of line, like it is a normal thing that he would naturally do at this point of a date. Have anyone else experienced this?
Yes i actually have had this happen to me on a first meet. Was chatting to a man at my chatsite who i let talk me into a spontaneous meet that very day, in my town at a waterfront park. Ok,,,so i agreed tho that was my first spontaneous meet (albeit my last! lol). After walking the boardwalk just talking, we decided to sit in the lawn chairs id brought along. During a perfectly normal conversation (no flirtacious talk at all), he picked up the blanket i had brought along (for sitting on the grass) and covered us up. I thought that was kinda odd since it was a gorgeous day, but i thought hmm, maybe he likes me and its his way to show that or something. Well,,,suddenly the blanket was moving and i just knew, just had this feeling what he was doing so i looked under the blanket and there he was,,,wanking!! WTF? Needless to say, i immediately got up, packed my stuff and left. To this day i dont understand what led him to do that unless he was just a creep and did creepy stuff like that often!! | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/20/2008 1:10:43 PM | I posted on this site in the early days, and am shocked to see how many women this has happened to.
I think I may have taken the blanket off of him while he was in the act and left him there scrambling for cover. Would have served him right.
Do these guys realize that this is indecent exposure and charges could be brought against him? No of course they do not realize what the consequence could be because they are thinking with the little head and this never occurs to them. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/20/2008 2:37:40 PM | merry, From all that I'm learning lately for male-female relationships ...and how some act socially inappropriately (aka: manipulators or complete dumba$$es) they seem pent on having all go their way and others be damned.
I've no doubt that some men, who don't know how to converse beyond too often sexual talk, feel that most women are more visual creatures ...such as they are, whip out their pride and joy (besides the larger of their two brains), after they've figured that it's enough chit-chat for what they're not ISO w/ any woman.
"Ahem, but I'm bored w/ this conversation or this movie, so let me bring something out that's been on my mind all along ...and can't you see how wonderful it and I am for all that porn movies have taught me for the way to really be. Screw society ...and you if you let me. I'm being nonverbal wit chou here. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 12/29/2008 8:36:29 AM | | Oh my God, this happened to me a long time ago. This guy I knew, we was suppose to watch the football game and all of a suddon he whip this, what I call door nob out and ask me you like that baby. I just got up and left. Instead of laughing in his face I just laugh in my car and said I can't believe he just whip out his snausage at me. For those who don't know (snausage is a term I use for itty bitty d***). I really was shocked and I didn't want to ruin his pride, but we was just friends, you don't suppose to do something like that unless you have something to show.....lol | |
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