| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:16:08 AM | | Maybe some men do this because it actually worked for them once or twice. Maybe the woman was drunk, stoned, horny, or "easy". Keep in mind, I'm not advocating this behavior in any way. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:25:47 AM | anyone ever heard of William Jefferson Starship Clinton, Democrat of Arkansas?
according to several witnesses, said democrat often used the "whip it out" technique
to impress nubile females...and yeah it is shameful, retarted but par for the course
in Mystery Babylon/Amerika. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:31:17 PM | I have this horrid mental image of Bill & Hillary, on a date...
Secret service agents around
And Billy boy, whippin it out.
Hillary, in her Blue dress..saying,
"Oh Bill, Let me help you with that, You know, it's NOT sex"
AAAGGGhhhhhhhhh.....  | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/13/2008 3:18:44 AM | | I did it once in a strip club. Does that make me a creep? We were in a dark private corner and she was topless rubbing all over me. I think she was trying to make me pop in my pants because she was rubbing on it good. I couldn't stand it anymore so I unbuttoned my pants and let it stick out. She said " boy what are you doing" but didn't seem too upset. I was lap dancing with another stripper and talking to her some, she said she had guys try and put it in her before. I suppose men are just stupid. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 2:03:53 PM | After taking a 2 second break, to read your lengthy profile....
The fact that you went to a strip club, and the fact that the woman was clearly upset...
Looking at the Majic 8 Ball ....
All signs point to yes. | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/13/2008 2:27:35 PM | I HAVE HAD THIS HAPPEN TO ME TWICE WITH DIFFERNT MEN BUT BOTH ON A FIRST DATE THEY BOTH USED THE SAME LINE. A KISS GOODNIGHT IN THE CAR AND I WAS ASKED "WANT TO COME BACK TO MY PLACE?" IN BOTH CASES I SAID NO THANKS. THEN OUT IT CAME AS THEY WERE SAYING ......."DONT YOU WANT TO SEE WHAT YOU ARE MISSING?"IN BOTH CASES THE ANSWER WAS NO BUT THERE IT WAS. ONE OF THEM ACTUALLY HAD THE NERVE TO CALL ME ABOUT A 1/2 HOUR LATER TO SEE IF I "CHANGED MY MIND" DOES ANYONE HAVE AN IDEA WHY THIS HAPPENS?
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/13/2008 2:27:45 PM | I recon these men do it because they're seriously perverted and enjoy flashing women or they believe that it works for some men. (Key word some).
Likely most of the woman you'll hear from here have had a ugly gameless perverted crustwad do it to them, and thus the negative results. I'm sure a lot of woman wouldn't respond well to this regardless of the protruding members sex appeal.
However, on the flip side how many ladies are going post that when Mr. Perfect pulled out his Johnson they rushed the Salami. Not many, guaranteed | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/13/2008 5:42:06 PM |
amazon_baby wrote: Maybe next time I'm on a date
I'm just going to like I dunno, whip out my boobs and
just act normal...I wonder what my date would do...
I interpret it as an indicator of interest. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 11:49:18 PM | Yep, it IS embarrassing, and if you are taking a poll,...it happened TWICE  to this girl too. (And YES, two different guys.)
Now don't get me wrong... I'm all for seeing the equipment at some point and time in a relationship... however ... and guys, pay attention here... a KISS is NOT an invite to whip it out ... in fact, she will be much more impressed if you actually keep it IN your pants until a much more appropriate time (if ever) to be determined LATER!!!
Just my take on it.
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/14/2008 12:38:39 AM | just hang his coat on it and escort him to the door. if it slides off, then that will be even more embarrassing (for him)! only happened to me twice and long ago. once, in a cab, "carpooling" home from a jazz club in nyc. he was a famous musician, drunk and alone shortly thereafter. i so loved his music, until that moment! i pulled the cab to the curb and hailed the next one. that was my last "stupid" venture during my single years after my first marriage. i chalked it up to my youth.
once before that i went to a board member's home to "work". this was one of my first "professional" jobs after grad school. i could not believe my eyes. he greeted me at the door in a smoking jacket and then he flashed me. he was way sorry after that, as i told the other board members and also made sure to expand that he was way "too small" and had bony knees-- which set everyone roaring and him quite mortified, as he was there as i told the story! actually he wasn't really (small), but i figured that was the best way to get even for the way he felt that he could treat me. another "big shot"!!!
but even funnier, another high level and very "prissy" professional vp of one of our constituencies did fall for his act and "dated" him for years! i was married at the time i had to deal with his behavior and also remembered that in the background he had a table with a salt and pepper shaker shaped like penises. that too was info that i made sure to circulate. my ex shook his head, in amusement, and said that the man did not know who he was dealing with. later he saw him at a conference and just burst out laughing. but i just don't get how this prissy woman found this attractive. i guess i fall for a classier or perhaps more gracious man!  | |
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Posted: 1/14/2008 1:49:09 AM | Believe me jd28spot....yes some men ARE that stupid,lol.
One guy did on a first date...it was his last with me! I barely knew the guy and he seemed to think he was going where none had gone before, lol. Wrong!!!.
The other guy wasn't a date, but a friend of mine I've known all my life. He's never been in the least bit bashful about his body or showing it, to him it's as natural as breathing, and would shuck his clothes to go skinny dipping in a heartbeat. But I have to say, it DID shock me when he whipped it out one day while talking to me about mundane daily things....wanted to know if I had a paper towel or something he could use, lol....yep...he sure did!!! lol....but, you'd have to know the guy to understand, and luckily I do know him and have for most of my life, otherwise I'd think I had a perv on the loose. He continued with his conversation and took care of business all the while, never acting as if anything was amiss. Lol, ya gotta love people with non-challant ways, lol...told him before he left, he'd have made a hell of a manager at a nudist colony, which he found particularly funny, kissed me on the cheek and left. Guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round. If he'd insinuated in any way that he wanted ME to service him...I'd have been royally pissed and offended (given the way it happened and who it was), but with him, it was no more than saying, I gotta pee and taking care of it, lol. Gotta say it's one of the singularly strangest things that's ever happened in my presence. It took the better part of the afternoon to recover from the shock, lol.
Other than that, no, no one has ever done that....several have grabbed my hand (at no provocation) and tried to place it on their package, and I would just pull away, say not interested, and would you please take me home. I'm not a prude, but that just ISN"T something you do when you barely know someone, unless the gal is being paid to do it, or has told him from the get go it's what she wanted, yanno?
I'm just going to like i dunno, whip out my boobs and just act normal...i wonder what my date would do... lol, you know, I don't think it would bother him, but I'd bet money you'd have the attention of every man in the room! lmao....
LMAOOOOOOOO@ harley.....giggles, too funny dude!
I can honestly say that I would never randomly pull up my skirt and spread 'em while smiling sheepishly at the man next to me. Dir!
Do any of you ladies do that? Hell nawwww! lmao...even my husbands had to fight a ton of clothes and buy tickets to see mine,
Goodness.... there goes my nice sheltered life! Thanks! Yeah, that's what I thought the day my friend's FRIEND made an unexpected appearance!!! | |
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Posted: 1/14/2008 2:50:54 AM | After reading this thread from start to finish, I can't say I'm surprised that some men just whip it out. What did surprise me though, was that two of you ladies didn't immediately bolt on the guy (eg: page 1, Cotter).
I think that if I was getting some extremely clear signals from a woman that she was very willing for our evening to take a sexual turn, then I might whip it out (somewhere discrete though, like a dark booth). Probably not though, Exhibitionism isn't on my list. It would have to be a really clear signal too. Not like "she smiled at me, that's a green light for sex!" More like grinding on me, or whispering something like "I hope you got a good night's sleep, because you won't tonight."
I imagine the "That looks like a penis, only smaller!" line would work on a lot of guys... I just had a funny (?) thought of a woman going to deliver that line, and ending up saying something like "That looks like a penis, only... oh my god. How do you get your pants over that thing?!?" | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/14/2008 8:26:53 PM |
I have never had a man "whip out his willie" on a first or second date, unless we get to that point equally. Sounds like you need to meet some new men.
Very true. Sounds like you have been meeting low quality men.
A true gentleman would NOT whip it out until atleast the 4th date !
I think that rule is clearly written in the gentlemans' book of dating ettiquette.
once, in a cab, "carpooling" home from a jazz club in nyc. he was a famous musician, drunk and alone shortly thereafter. i so loved his music, until that moment!
Ahhhhhh , he whipped out his other instrument.......his "skin flute." hahaha | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/14/2008 8:46:35 PM |
Honey, there are men out there that want to whip it out over the computer!
Cowards !
If a guy is going to whip it out , he could atleast have the courage and class to whip it out after the fourth date and in real life !
What is this world coming to ??!!
It's no wonder that women are asking "are there any good guys left ? " | |
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Posted: 1/14/2008 11:11:33 PM | this does seem to happen a scary number of times. Its happened to me twice ( i admit in disgust).
1st time- it was a first date and i was 17 and apparently gullible cos he lived not too far from me and we were to go out .. plan was id walk past his hse and wed go to where we were headin but he asked me to come in so he cud put his shoes on. Reluctantly i did tellin him to be quick. I sat on the couch, he got his shoes sat beside me and i dont no where i was lookin but next time i looked over at him he had a special gift for me on his lap. i was shocked just sat there for a minute and then stood up sayin 'im goin home now i dont want to go out anymore, ur a bit nasty'.. . no wise cracks really come up in the situation cos its always a shock.
2nd time was in a bar- not even a date- looked to one side and some guy had a big grin on his face and nodded down so i dont no what i expected but i looked down to see him holdin himself... i was like 'u are so sick and disgusting, you need help' and to my disgust he got even harder. i just said im reporting you to a bouncer and left after telling the bouncer that some guy was harassing me... didnt stay to see if hed put it away.
why men WHY do u do that ... please stop ! us women are just innocent bystanders- no driver by attacks please | |
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Posted: 1/15/2008 10:31:52 AM | | OMG I am glad there are other women out there that have experienced this. I've had this happen to me a couple of times, but was told I was leading them on, however, we just kissed and that was it. So a kiss calls for you to pull out our**** | |
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Posted: 1/15/2008 10:35:53 AM | What are you ladies saying??? Do you mean that you all don't suffer from penis envy and just fall in love with every penis you see?
Honestly, I just don't get the whole "whip it out" thing unless it has worked for some at some time and they are just trying it again. I know that the only "whip it out" that I've ever done is off to the side of the road because I've consumed more fluids than my little bladder could hold and there was no bathroom in site.
SuzzyQ2, perhaps being located in the cradle of liberty, your date just wanted some freedom for his friend and thought you'd appreciate it!  | |
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| Embarrassing question-whipping it out inappropriately
Posted: 1/16/2008 2:15:55 AM | | what if you were with your loving husband of x many years...relaxing on the couch watching a movie? is that inappropriate...or is it cool because you're married and maybe it might just excite you due to spontaniety....
on a firt date however....or anytime it is really inappropriate you should have the right to punch it as hard as possible and say "OH, I THOGHT IT WAS THAT GAME WHACK A MOLE FROM CHUCKY CHEESE....Do I get a hammer next round?!?!?!?!" | |
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A man has got to be pretty stupid to do that on a date.