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Posted: 5/1/2008 8:02:08 AM | sweety you r young and there r a lot of std's out there im sure dont feel so bad about contracting one as someone else pasted it on to you, maybe they should have been as honest with you, you are 21 remember condoms, if its not on its not on. this doesnt mean you should feel any less of yourself and he shouldnt make you feel any less, my advice is move on your a beautiful girl who can do much better than him, maybe he has you convinced that you cant get on with out him and it feels like torture, trust me you can do better, and who knows he may come running back. leave him alone and go forward, cause its not your fault and too many people in these forums are to quick to judge without realising they were once your age but never had to think as much as you about stds when they were 21 yrs old. screw the negative and listen to the positive on this forum, live and learn you have so much of that ahead of you. good luck in all you choose to do in your future but please choose more carefully. tis all i have to say too you.   life is good and you have only just began. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 8:05:01 PM | | This is an old thread but I thought I'd post anyway. I don't know how old he is, I will assume your both young. NEITHER of you showed much restraint about sex, yes you were better than him waiting 1 month to his week. Let's face it, if you two had feelings enough to stay 1-2 years, than you should have checked your self for a while before getting involved with someone else, BOTH of you. If it's a distance and time spent together issue, you both should have talked it out, worked it out or split up. Many women made mention you had a right to do what you did(sex), how many of these same women have advised others to take a break from dating between relationships? No matter what ANYONE says you did the right thing about the std. However IMO telling someone or confessing about what happened or what EITHER of you did when broken up WON'T help. Confessions ONLY help the person doing the confessing. By unburdening yourself you shift your guilt or feelings to the other person. Clears your conscience and leaves the other person to deal with issues that weren't his/hers to begin with. These feelings (probably same you had when he did it) probably caused the reaction of asking to prove things. I expect you both felt betrayed, used, cheated and uncared for whether you both had a right to these feelings or not. Your both young as you get older you'll develop bounderies of what you share and what you don't. Especially if your NOT in a committed relationship when you do something. My 2 cents, Bob | |
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Posted: 5/3/2008 6:10:05 AM | How do you know you have changed? I think you need to spend sometime without a date or partner for awhile. Take some time for yourself right now. The STD should be a wake up call that you were heading down the wrong path. I don't blame him for being sceptical about you and your intentions, your actions contradict your words.
Give yourself a little time for reflection, you haven't even given yourself time to think without filling it with thoughts of others.
Your young, slow down alittle! you have so many years ahead of you. Make some friends, spend time with family. Get to know yourself alittle more. You don't need to convince anyone but yourself that you have learned from your mistakes.
Good Luck! | |
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