| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/8/2008 1:26:19 PM | Safe to say trust is pretty popular, it’s my personal experience that puts trust at the top with our need to breath, BTW trust has a shelf life it needs to be taken down and used periodically.
And of coures these, Thanks T
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| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/8/2008 4:37:48 PM | Smoking is a deal breaker, I'm sorry but I can't deal with it. I don't want to date an ashtray. Smokers do smell -sad but true. For me its both the smell and the health risks. Dying because you cannot breath is not a good way to go..trust me on this one...my husbands lungs failed from MD. It is not a good way to go.
Honesty is a big deal breaker too. So is the porn bit. I hate it when I guy wants to cam you for sex or sends you a non solicited photo of everything south of the boarder.  That is an auto delete and block to me. I want the guy to have some integrity about himself and some respect for me. That has happened to me more than once from guys on POF. YUCK!!! | |
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| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/8/2008 5:39:02 PM | | Don't smoke and would prefer someone who does not, too. But it is not a deal breaker because sometimes that person is very considerate with it and may be trying to break the habit. There are ways he can keep from offending you. Although there are times when nothing works. My concern would be that caring for him I would not want him to continue going down that road with all the scary things about smoking. It's not just about the offense to me - it's also about him. Something about a person who smokes, I've noticed. Many are good thinkers while smoking. Good people - very bad habit. | |
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| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/8/2008 6:46:43 PM | Immature women who do not understand men and women are different and have emotional intelligence. If I was a woman I would say immature men .... so substitute men or women when you read what I am saying, this applies to both sexes. I am seeking a woman so I will carry on using "women".
People who do not develop themselves as human being, lack affection, understanding and are not patient want instant results ... oh those who write ... "I want someone with out baggage" ... ummm means they only want to be with you when the going is good and are fair weather friends, the kind I can do without. Those who are unable to to commit for the long term.
I think reading books like Men are from Mars and Women from Venus - by John Gray helps me to understand myself and women more ... gosh only if I knew that before. I want to meet those who want to invest in a relationship and grow .. well the one and only.
Deal are not broken they just don't happen when people do not make effort on both side. A relationship will always be a work in progress as far as I am concerned.
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| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/8/2008 7:12:32 PM | Smoking is certainly a problem for me also. Someone who asks for money or who sends me pornography. You know, thinking about this a guy who does nto [sic] take care of his teeth. ~ tmreed
> No one has ever sent me pornography or asked me for money.
> Of course, I'm not a woman, and only women have those kind of problems.
> Peter. | |
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| The one thing that breaks the deal in forming a relationship
Posted: 1/9/2008 12:00:30 AM | well one was when a man paul told has in his profile divorsed ha
and has a son
well first thing i asked this guy was when did you get your divorse , he said 3 months ago and added byt i have not seen her for 2 and a h alf years
well after chasing me for 2 months c alling me every night and at lunch
winning my trust in every way stating he wanted to be re married
and blabh albh
i find out the schmuckkkkkkkkkkk is not divorsed and was with her a few months ago and get this
SHE IS MISSING SHE CHEATED ON HIM HE TOOK HRE BACK AND NOW SHE IS MISSING
HE KILLED HER THE POLICE JUST CANT FIND THE BODY
MR PNV30535 FROM CANTON MASS
I THINK THOSE ARE THE NUBMERS SO PLEASEEEEEEEE BE CAREFUL
another one is instabiltiy
this guy emailed me i looked at his pic and im very psychic but yudid not have to be to notice he looked very GAY SORRY BUT HE DOES
and then i read his email to me and said said he was looing for a
non smoking non drinking STRAIGHT WOMAN
WHO THE HECK PUTS STRAIGHT WOMAN ON A HETEO SITE
then i looked at his profiel and he had put in
he was a non smoking non drinking non drug addict andddddddddd straight male
???????????????/
now i was concernedbut insteaed of just assuming
i decided to ask him why
he putin straight those 2 times
OMGGGGGGGG HE WENT NUTSSSSSSSSS ON ME ACCUSING ME
OF BEING SOMEONE WHO ASSUMES WHEN I DID NOT I TOOK TEH TIME TOASK WHEN MANY WOMAN WOULD ASSUME AND MOVE ON
AND HE JUST BLASTED ME OVER ANDOVER
AND THEN HE SAID HE WORKED AT BU AS A PROFESSORE AND AT NORTHEASTER AS A TEACHRE
AND WHEN I SAID MY BRO WHO IS A REAL PRO THERE
THATS WHEN HE ATTACKED ME AND RAN OUT
SO DID HE RUN OUT CAUSE HE WAS GAY
AND GAY PEOPLE ARE VERY USING TO USING THAT WORD
GAY MAN OR GAY WOMAN
AHEAD OF THEIR NAME
SO FOR HIM TO USE STRAIGHT WOMAN STRAIGH TMAN
WAS ODD
SO WAS IT HIM BEING GAY OR BI AND ME HITTING NERVE OF WAS IT ME BAGGGIN HIN IN ALIE ABOT WHAT HE DOES
LOOOOOOOL
OR BOTH
BUT THATTTTTTTTTTTTTT WAS SURELY A DEAL BREAKER
SO I LEFTRHERE AS YOU CAN SEE WHY
BUT I COME BACK FORR THE POST
AND I TYPE IN CAPS CASUE I HAVE ARTRHRISTI AND ITS EASIER TOO
SOOOOOOOO AND YOU CANT YELL IF YOUR ALREADY IN CAPS LOL
AHAHHA
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
CAREFUL AND HE WAS NAME PAUL
TOO
I NOTICED HE TOOK OUT LOOKING FOR STRAIGHT WOMAN AND I AM A STRAIGHT MAN OUT OF HISPROFILE SINCE
TOO BAD I SHOULD HAVE NOT SAID A WORD AND LET HIM LET THE CAT OUT OF THE BAD HIMSELF
NOW I FEEL BAD FOR ALL THE UNSUSPECTING WOMAN WHO WILL FIND OTU THE HARD WAY
FIRST HE SAID OH I ONLYH MEANT THAT AS A NON DRINKER NON SMOKE
BUT I REMINDED HIM HE SAID
NON DRINKER NON SMOKER ANNNNNNNNNNNNNND A STRAIGHT MALE
SO THEN HE SAID OH
I JUST MEANT A WOMAN WITH HER HEAD ON STRAIGHT A GOOD THINKER LOGIAL AND DOWN TO EARTH UNLIKE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU LISA
WHAT A SICKOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
LOL
I WISHED I COUDL REMEMBER HIS NIC
AND NOOOOOOOOOO HE IS NOT A PRO AT BOSTON UNIVERSITY
OR AT NORTHEASTERN
SOOOOOOOOOOOO
THAT MADET HIS WHOLE PLACEA DEAL BREAKER FOR ME
SO IM ONLY HERE FOR POSTS
HOPE YOU ARE ALL DOING BETTER THAN ME
GOOD LUCK
AND YOULL NEEDIT
A MIRICLE TOO | |
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