| Laughing together
Posted: 1/9/2008 12:06:52 AM | | Laughing is a part of sharing intimate experience together. Joy, laughters and tears and concerns - if you're truly close to your love, you can share anything with them... | |
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| Laughing together
Posted: 1/9/2008 12:10:28 AM | I love to laugh...mostly enjoy making ppl laugh.
Ex once said..."Life to serious to laugh" WTF...NOT!!!  | |
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| Laughing together
Posted: 1/9/2008 12:56:35 AM |
Being able to laugh together is one of the best parts of being in a relationship!! There are the little jokes that nobody but the two of you would get.
I agree....I love laughing with someone you care about and sharing jokes....keeping the humor inside a relationship is a must for me....
Love women with crazy or sarcastic humor.....
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Posted: 1/9/2008 1:02:29 AM |  is for me like a fresh breath. BTW, it is the best remedy to all ailments. But laughing together could also bring tears to my eyes and this kind of "crying" feels so wonderful. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 4:10:47 AM | It's pretty hard to imagine a good relationship where the partners DON'T laugh together, at least once in awhile.
Why do I keep thinking of the Sam Neil character in "The Piano"...? | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 5:56:20 AM |
I find it hugely important, and as binding as any other intimacy you share.
Me 2 and 3 | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:00:46 AM | | Laughter is like the sun shining in the core of the soul and Yes, I love to have a man with a great sense of humor and see the fun side to every problem . The ones that laugh together usually stay together. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:22:57 AM | OP...........Laughter is more important in a relationship, or any other part of life, than most people think. Man is the only animal that, as he grows older forgets how to play, and have fun. The saying, "Laughter is the best medicine", is not just a saying. It promotes health and well being. When you are laughing, you can not say anything abusive.
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Posted: 1/9/2008 8:06:35 AM | Laughter is like the sun shining in the core of the soul and Yes, I love to have a man with a great sense of humor and see the fun side to every problem .
How profound! Laughter certainly is a blessing from above. There are some "problems" where I can't keep myself from coming up with some sarcastic humor that makes even me laugh - when I'm able to do that, the predicament/problem seems to lessen.
Man is the only animal that, as he grows older forgets how to play, and have fun.
I refuse to allow that to happen. I actually don't think I have a choice. - it's not my personality... I don't ever want to grow up if it means I'll forget how to laugh and play! 
"Laughter is the best medicine", is not just a saying. It promotes health and well being.
It's so true. Ever notice how those who have no sense of humor about life start to look older than their years? A smile, a giggle, a good belly laugh not only light up the face, they light up the world around you. Smiles and laughter are contagious. When I hear someone laughing - reallly laughing, I don't even have to know what their laughing at - it either makes me giggle or at least puts a smile on my face.
Couples who share that level of intimacy in their lives are more likely to have a healthy and solid relationship.
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Posted: 2/2/2008 4:45:10 PM | | Laught is an effective and fast way to heal. A natural remedy against all those things that can rot our soul, our life. A way to settle diferences, a door who opens only good feelings. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 5:08:29 PM | Even if you have two totally different senses of humor there are going to be times when you just have to laugh together. Like the first time she sees you naked....
If someone never laughs with you..... they probably have a serious issue that needs to be address and you should run like h*ll quickly before you find out what it is.... | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 6:04:23 PM | Sounds like alota fun...Wunder whur do ye find a feller that kin laff with a gal like at? hehehe! | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 6:33:21 PM | Laughter is one of the most important things in my life. I use it to keep myself healthy, and sometimes it is all I can do to keep from bursting out laughing in public. The trick is to deliberately set my face in a frown and just keep on walking. It's a shame really that outer displays of happiness are socially unacceptable if you happen to be walking alone. Best to put on headphones and pretend you're on a cell. For all you know, half the people who are saying "oh for sure, I'll be there Saturday night...looking forward to it" are talking to a 'Dial-a-Prayer' recording anyhow.
In a relationship, however, I think it's crucial to understand when a partner is laughing at the situation as opposed to at you. We are all sensitive to feeling we are being made fools of, and sometimes we can just be too close to the situation -- or taking the whole thing far too seriously for our own good. I've been crushed over someone saying he thought something was funny -- and I know I've quite unintentionally done the same thing to others. Being on the same page is worth the effort in the long run, IMO. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 7:07:25 PM | I have a robust laugh... .an infectious laugh I have been told.
I just need someone to laugh with now, someone to hold on tight to and be relaxed with. Laughter is such a great release of spontaneous emotion.  | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 9:05:23 PM | Laughing and fooling around with your partner is a key ingredient in any relationship, and it's something that I always set out to establish from the off. I'm a bit of a Joker anyway and if I can't laugh with my girl, then the alarm bells start ringing.
I'm all up for a serious commitment and all that jazz (when I'm ready for it of course, which at the moment I am not), but relationships are just no fun whatsoever without Humour.
Bottom line, if your partner happens to be a damn good friend too (and friendship is VITAL for a long term relationship anyway), then laughing with them comes completely naturally. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 9:49:50 PM | Just like everyone else on this thread ... I believe it's true! Laughter is a very important cornerstone of a solid relationship. You have to share a sense of humor ... or you just won't make it.
Laughing at yourself is so much easier if your partner laughs along WITH you (not AT you). Mind you ... I laugh at myelf ALL the time ... whether anyone is laughing with me or at me ... it doesn't matter!
I find life to be a pretty humerous thing!  | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 10:04:12 PM | I so need to laugh much......and I truly work hard at making that happen for not only me, but those around me........
A good date and wonderful time will be had if we are both laughing, and enjoying each other, and that makes the next part even better.........
If there is one attribute that I enjoy others saying that I have, it is that I make them laugh and at ease, and that can be as sensual and sexual as anything else you may think of when enjoying the company of another.......
Just my opinion.........   | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 10:16:52 PM | Very important. It's taken me half my life to realize it, but if I have to always explain why something is funny to me, and I'm consistently disgusted or shocked by what he thinks is funny, it ain't gonna work.
Yes, I said half my life. I'm funny. I never said I was quick. | |
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Posted: 2/2/2008 10:31:36 PM | Oh it's a must for me.. I LOVE to laugh and make others laugh and I laugh daily and quite often be it at others or myself.. I don't think I could date a woman that wasn’t funny and laughed at me and with me. It’s Huge in my book and a very important part of a relationship I feel. and if she can make me laugh all the more better.
I’ve dated women that had little of no sense of humor and I got bored and frustrated very quickly and did not enjoy the relationship for long..
(Quote) Ex once said..."Life to serious to laugh" WTF...NOT!!! (Quote/)
I got in trouble with an ex before to.. she said you piss me off everytime i'm mad you make me laugh? WTF? | |
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Posted: 2/3/2008 12:03:17 AM | I think ya got laugh or it all gets a bit hard.
I think igot a problem though, they always laugh at me....da ya think it's got something to do with me size? mind you when they laughing i ate it.....they dont seem to notice but i end up with hairs in me teeth. H
Is any of ya qualified to make a diagnosis?
I got a serious problem...i cant stop laughing.
Love life to da full
Firm And fair
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Posted: 2/3/2008 1:17:19 AM | RE: First part.
Its definitely important. I dont know if its a deal breaker. Ive felt less of a connection to women who laugh at different things than me. But its never prompted me to break up with her. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2008 1:29:13 AM | Msg 70: Have you met suckafish?
You guys should get together. Nobody undertands her, either. | |
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Posted: 2/3/2008 2:51:36 AM | Loved Frankie Howard's schoolboy humour... This is in response to msg 35 btw!!
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Posted: 2/3/2008 3:07:42 AM |
I can always remember my parents having a tremendous of fun in general and definitely having some big laughs together.
some of my most fond memeories as a child also .......my parents holding each other laughing.
laughing is a big part of my daily life. I'm hooked it's like a drug.
so load me up and put me all the way out.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/3/2008 5:42:27 AM | I desire laughter ,even in my everyday life. I grew up with laughter & to this day, I sit and laugh with my 82 yr old parents each time I visit them. My mother & I get on the phone and laugh each time we talk. Those "laughing" times with her, will be very good memories to look back upon. I have a dear friend who I chat with on the telephone, who laughs with me about our struggles in life. I feel much better when we hang up and everything seems not as bad as it truly is.
So...any man in my life has always had a great sense of humor. It was part of my attraction to him. Laughter to me in a relationship or in even simple dating, is something I must have. There is a time and a place for laughter and my serious side needs as much validation as my humorous side.
I dated a man who was a great laugher and jokster, but could not relate and refused to relate to my serious side. Therefore, the relationship was out of balance. He never wanted to deal with anything in life that required some sensitivity.
Yes...bring on the laugher's...I simply love it! But...bring on all the other emotions that go with human nature and reality in life. I want my life to be upbeat and mostly humorous, but on those days I need some TLC and understanding, then I hope he can handle that as well, as I would for him. | |
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