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Posted: 1/24/2008 2:03:50 PM | | That is the Chinese who were the first Asians coming to the US, landed in California. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 10:18:04 PM | and some came even before that =) in fact, there is historical evidence that shows trade between the americas and china for many centuries.
being a 4th gen. california chinese on my dad's side- i find it so hard to relate to this thread in a lot of ways... but i imagine things are different in different areas... =( but americans are americans. that's how i see it - no matter our origins, we are all of the american culture first and formost!
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 1/31/2008 3:27:54 PM | | As was already said, " If you're really interested in dating interracially, look in your local telephone book (Yes, the Yellow Pages) and find your local chapter of the " Baha`i Faith " call them and tell them that you'd like to attend a fireside or meet with a member of the faith to learn more about it. If you're Asian, they'll find you a whitewoman in no time. Just let them know that that's what you're interested in finding. That goes for anyone else whose reading this. If you're a white guy and always have wanted to be with a blackwoman, they'll find you one who will love your socks off. What ever blows your hair back, they'll find it for you. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:30:35 PM | smileee4u were you referring to me with; " How old are you? My male friend is sixty. He takes Viagra. Sometimes it works, sometimes not."
I was 21 at the time if you must know. And back then, I could handle my business. The woman was a nymph. I wasn't going to go over to her house everyday, she'd kill me; and she was 47 at the time. She did wear me out. They didn't have the blue pill back then. Moving all the way from England, she wasn't going to behave like a normal person. She had a serious agenda and a sexual addiction, apparently. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/11/2008 8:51:13 AM |  My question to you "theoldpiano" might be....How many attractive asian men do you see with caucasian women???.. I find asian men appealing ...but only if they are attractive...so that question can be turned around and asked the other way as well... I also find that asian men hardly date outside their ethnic group..at least here in the states anyway... | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/11/2008 9:36:04 AM |
I also find that asian men hardly date outside their ethnic group..at least here in the states anyway...
That's only true for FOBs/first generation Asians and that's primarily because of language/cultural differences. Not an issue for 2nd+ generations. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 9:51:04 AM | Personally I don't find Asian or Indian men attractive (I'm not racist..it's a preference just the same as I don't like long hair on a guy)
I get an awful lot of mail from them though.
The one thing I find which is almost 100% the case worryingly is that they cannot/will not take no for an answer.
I will be civil to a point but if I get mail after mail telling me give me a chance, let me tell you bout me, meet me, marry me, we can make beautiful love together...er..sorry...two or three emails in...and I have said I'm not interested?!
I would love to know why they don't have any respect and don't listen.
Rant over!
This rarely happens with caucasians | |
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Posted: 2/11/2008 11:01:12 AM | ^^^You assume ALL Asian or Indian men behave that way? That's a bit racist, isn't it? 
Personally I don't find Asian or Indian men attractive (I'm not racist..it's a preference just the same as I don't like long hair on a guy)
Whether you are racist or not depends on the reasons for your preference. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 1:27:51 AM |
I also find that asian men hardly date outside their ethnic group..at least here in the states anyway...
That's only true for FOBs/first generation Asians and that's primarily because of language/cultural differences. Not an issue for 2nd+ generations.
I am a first generation Canadian (though not of the FOB variety), and I can tell you with absolute certainty that I have dated more Caucasians than Asians. I do make the effort to break the racial barrier though. The thing is, some Asian men don't date outside of the ethnic group for the exact same reason some Caucasians won't date Asians. There's always resistance in everything we do, it's up to the individual to make the effort to overcome the hurtle. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 1:32:54 AM |
The one thing I find which is almost 100% the case worryingly is that they cannot/will not take no for an answer.
I will be civil to a point but if I get mail after mail telling me give me a chance, let me tell you bout me, meet me, marry me, we can make beautiful love together...er..sorry...two or three emails in...and I have said I'm not interested?!
I would love to know why they don't have any respect and don't listen.
Probably no different than many Caucasians who also don't have any respect and don't listen. But that's likely not the answer you want to hear. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:16:04 AM | The reasons for that preference came about last year.
I spent several months training a team of guys from Chennai.
The whole story is a long one but to cut it very short..
I was having problems with these guys..while I was training and teching them about something they would turn away and look at personla emails on their laptops, walk away, not do the task at hand..just simply not work on it at all while I was away in meetings/whatever.
I called a long time close friend who is Seikh to see if he could offer any advice on getting and keeping these guys attention as the timeframe for training was so short.
His suggestion was to constantly flirt. I tried being more 'flirty' to a degree and it did work but it's pretty hard to keep up when you are trying to relay important info on the companies finances.
One day I asked one of the guys why he wasn't listenng to me as he was looking at photos of animals he had got from a friend on his laptop.
He said 'I'm not listening because you are a woman'
It made no difference to him that we missed the deadline for training.
If he had listenened he wouldn't have got so frustrated and come up against so many problems which he wasn't even willing to try to investigate once I had guided him on what the problem might be.
There are a pile of other incidents I could talk about..but this post is long enough s it is.
EDITED: I don't presume they are all like that at all but the majority (I'd say approx 120 ish on here who have contacted me there have only been 2 who respected that I was happy to chat but wasn't looking at that time. These two also didn't ask me to move house so I could date tem, ask me to marry them, tell me they loved me and nor were they nagging for my phone number, email or address. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:50:08 AM | I've dated Caucasians. There was only one I would've stuck with. It didn't work out for stupid reasons I won't get into. Otherwise I think it can work out but there are some things that might need explaining like the sense of family duty. I can't say for sure but I am under the impression that Caucasian may perceive family duty as a weakness.
Personally I prefer Asian women because I find them physically attractive and I don't have to explain and labor over the little things that characterize Asians.
Ultimately I say go for whoever makes you happy. Just do it with eyes wide open and be realistic. Throw ideals about what things "should be like" out the window. Leave social experiments to other people and keep them out of your relationships...That is of course if you want to be happy. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 2:54:47 AM | | And apparently, being an Asian male isn't all that cool in the States. Of course if you happen to be half Asian and half Caucasian, then you're god ;-) What's up with that? Ha! | |
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Posted: 2/12/2008 6:42:29 AM | Dear soul union, author of message #44:
I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are so NOT smarter than my Asian/English/Arabic 5th GRADER!
At least she knows a proper ANALOGY when she sees one. This comment is so apples to oranges that it's sick: "You don't see zebras running off with donkeys, do you? You don't see the Red Admiral butterfly mating with the Swallow-Tailed butterfly? Only human beings do such things. "
And, since WHEN is being a racist politically correct?
Allow me to quote you: "The dilution of my origins..." Dude, you seem to have an awful lot in common with this guy I know named Adolph.
Why am I even trying to reason with you? You're probably off stoking your human furnace, laboring to re-institute apartheid in Africa, stealing food from children in Ethiopia, or somewhere close to there doling out cyanide pills to speed up the genocide.
Edit: I totally agree with the message above mine -- not that aging, bald, racist xenophobes don't turn me on... | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 9:51:18 AM | What the hell kind of question is this?!
why is it a "trap" to stick to one's race? why would you even consider dating someone who you dont find attractive - whether they are caucation or whatever?
boy you make no sense what-so-ever...
try being with someone who regardless of their race makes you happy, and you find yourself physically, emotionally, and intellectually compatible with... | |
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Joined: 2/4/2008
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 10:26:12 AM | | I was maried to an Asian man and he was a good man for his calture. He did told me years later into the mariage that is first though wen he saw me at the club. He say that I would do for a booty call. But he did not know that he would fall in love with me and did not end it. I try my self to end it but he did not want to. His family did not want him to be with me because I was not Asian. I not sure that made him want to be me more or not I could tell. I also love him. but what made the relationship hard was his family. We have 2 beautiful kids. But the family do not treat them like the rest of the kids that are full Asian and the kids wen they ware kids them self did the same put my kids a side because of the parents putting thing in there mind. He was first generation into to Canada. 3 years into the country he did not maried me until after he become a Canadian. So he did use me for that. | |
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Joined: 2/4/2008
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 10:35:04 AM | | Yes you have date Caucasians women but have introduce them to you parents. Ware they invited to Asian New Years at home. Thing like that. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 11:03:59 AM |
Yes, the Chinese were the first Asians on record to come to America. The first groups came over to work as laborers during the California Gold Rush which was before the Transcontinental Railroad.
Pfffft~ The Chinese have been in North American since 1412 AD when Admiral ChengHo took his fleet to North America. Sure the Vikings and the Romans have reached America hundreds of years before that. In fact, Columbus was really the last guy to reach America. It was just hushed up before that. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 1:02:07 PM | The Columbus LIE is now being exposed, at least where I teach, thankfully.
Doesn't change the fact that some of us find Asian men hot, whether they want to believe it or not.
The vikings suck. I HATE those little hats. Horns, shmorns -- NOT attractive!
Other than the Native Americans, who the white man decimated by 90% due to smallpox, the Chinese were, in fact, among the first to reach "America." You know, the "Liberty and justice for ___." population. Yeah, right...
Shame on U.S. ... I mean us.
Again: My Asian American daughter is so much brighter than the author of message # 44... And, SO much more attractive... | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/12/2008 6:08:30 PM | I'm not really sure what the deal is with people scorning interracial relationships. Besides it being the couple's business, if two human beings decide they like each other enough to start a relationship then their ancestry and race seem very trivial indeed.
"Ohhh snaps dude, check out that asian chick, the guy with her is black!"
"Yeaaah, dude, that is so totally our business, we should go let them know how we feel, I am certain they care. After all, everyone knows love requires matching skin color, culture and social status to exist, it is a very picky thing!"
"Totally, dude, we are so freaking smart right."
"Uhh huhhh."
Honestly, who cares? | |
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manoe
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Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 98 | |
| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/13/2008 10:14:23 AM | I always wanted to date a Japanes man. Maybe because I work for Omie of Japan Restaurent and I find them nice and good looking. But never came acrost one that would date me. Yes they would like to get me to bed but not date me.
Changing subject. Went I was married to my Philipino hasbund is future brother inlaw to be from the Philipine here for the first time in Canada stay with us until he got married. Well the night before the wedding my husband and is 3 brother wanted to do something for him so they ask him what he would like to do. He say with me and the other 3 sister inlaw in the room which I was the only white woman in the room. I would like to go to a strip club to see a white woman I never saw one naked. Well I felt like white trash at that moment and so ship. It was one off many time that family made me feel like that. i thing it is one of the reason that thing did not work. I always told my self only we could had leaved a way from his family it may have work. Well how now's hu. The worst of this all is my 2 kids they are beautiful but the inlaw did not like them and ware not nice to them because they ware not fully Philipino. If it was only me it is one thing but kids did not ask this so do not take it out them. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/13/2008 1:07:02 PM |
The vikings suck. I HATE those little hats. Horns, shmorns You'd perpetuate the viking-hat lie though? They never had horns on their helmets - that's just a modern-day invention for cartoons and the like. 
Anyway, don't bother responding to "44" - he's not technically trolling, but there's really just no point. | |
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| Asians and caucasians.
Posted: 2/17/2008 11:17:30 PM | What's up with this hang up on Caucasian women? I have seen many threads on here from Asian men whining that Caucasian women aren't interested in them or they can only attract Caucasian women who are not attractive. I have also seen a number of posts from Asian men complaining that when they write to White women they don't respond. I know from experience that some of the same men doing the complaining don't respond to e-mails from women who aren't White. What's up with that? Don't you think it's a bit hypocritical to complain about being rejected based on race and then rejecting OTHERS because they aren't White when YOU aren't even White. You're buying into some of the same stereotypes that are used to reject YOU!! What's wrong with East Indian women, or Black women or Latinas, or Middle Eastern Women? Some of you guys really need to get over yourselves and get real.
try being with someone who regardless of their race makes you happy, and you find yourself physically, emotionally, and intellectually compatible with...
Here here! :applause:
I couldn't have said it better myself. | |
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