| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 9:55:07 AM | I think if one wishes to put restrictions for age on who they will/will not date, they could be missing out! I have seen some wonderful looking men 10 to 15 years older than myself. Then again, I have seen some 10 years younger who look ready for the rocker! It is all based on the individual I think. Approach life with an open mind! | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 10:37:04 AM | Yep - hands up 50
Was married to a man 9 yrs younger what a lazy son of a ***** he was, (everyone thought he was older than me, tee hee)
Went on a date with a 50 yr old, and went for a walk, he moaned about his health and moaned about walking and he generally moaned about everything, he was overweight and tired and gathering ill health symptoms (I wonder why)?
Men cant live with them cant live without them, age is just a number, it is the man that is turned down, not his age. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 10:42:05 AM |
Approach life with an open mind!
Too much work.
People think in stereotypes for a reason!
Besides, now I have enough work to fill my former timeslots for bad sex. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:18:53 AM |
Besides, now I have enough work to fill my former timeslots for bad sex.
What? Is that like a schedule that you are filling up? If it's bad sex, do you have lots of openings, cause of course, it wouldn't take long to have bad sex.
I'd think you could only schedule good sex a couple times a week, to give it your proper attention and stamina. How many women can you schedule per week for bad sex?
I won't even touch the "slot" remark.
Curious,
MS | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:32:38 AM | Hey all you 50 somethings!!
I have to agree that ALL age groups have their eccentricities. I enjoy chatting and finding out what they might be...however...dating is another issue. I've dated a 35 year old that is totally great,,,but,,he has no stamina to do anything but work and come home...watch a little tv...then off to bed.
I was in a deadly boring marriage for two thirds of my life,and,if I'm going to date someone,,,I'd like someone to put a little effort in to that date.
I like someone who is older,having more in common with my 50 year old mind...lol....but,please let him have a little energy to go out on occasion for a nice dinner,or show.Whatever the activity might be,,try to stay awake long enough to see it through..lol. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:35:04 AM | Is that like a schedule that you are filling up?
Now that's something you don't see every day....
A 45+ woman on PoF with a sense of humor.
Yes, I have a schedule to fill.
I used to fill it with work but marriage changed many slots to bad sex.
Which was mostly my fault, I thought I could change my inclinations.
If it's bad sex, do you have lots of openings, cause of course, it wouldn't take long to have bad sex
Oh, ho ho ho.
Then you have not exprienced truly bad sex.
Bad sex can last for hours and hours.
It's torture but NOT in a good way!
No, I have no slots available for bad sex, those slots are taken by work now.
Torture, yes, but I dig it.
However, I do have openings for good sex on:
Saturday from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Sunday from 10:00 am to 6:00 pm
If you're near San Jose aiport, I could squeeze in 30 minutes of quickie sex.
Offer limited, hurry before it expires.
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:45:58 AM | There's a similar post from a female asking why "old men" list their "eligible to date" age down into the 30's, even the 20's .... apparently it's a universal language that if it disgusts you, nobody should do it - I prefer to leave it up to the individuals. If they think you're too old for them, keep looking - if you end up hooking up with one of them they'll just find a "boy toy" to keep them "happy" . . . | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 12:17:48 PM | | oggers Thinks that is a little imaginative the age of 27 there laughing but what ever grabs you, or is it just a bad picture? | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 12:20:51 PM | broward
proud of you for coming out and saying you changed your inclinations, not a lot of men would say they turned gay while married, proud of you for sharing that with us... Hugs | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 12:30:41 PM | saying you changed your inclinations
I said I couldn't. 
I did try.
Being gay would be so much easier than being kinked.
Although I suppose that being both would really suck. Or... not, I guess.
I can't believe I'm fifty this year.
I was in a meeting yesterday and I had an epiphany.
Everyone else is mid-30s, I'm easily the oldest.
But... I've never had this happen before...
Not to this degree...
But it seemed like I had instant authority and respect in the room simply by virtue of my age and resume. It's kind of neat in a way. Kind of sucky, too, I'm not sure I can meet their expectations. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 3:12:17 PM | How old - how young? I chose NOT to put age restrictions on my profile. I do search and widen out the ranges every once and a while (both upper and lower limits) just to see who's out there. I try not to message those where they are SO young it would be creepy. I haven't not messaged someone who is too old. I've also respected anyone who says I'm out of their age range.
Here's my list of questions:
1) 49 year old woman who asks "NO ONE OVER 50 PLEASE!" I've seen this more than once. Am I out of line messaging them to say "I'm that old, but I'm not that old."
2) Is there a true "lower limit" for someone my age (54)? Can I send a message to a 39 year old?
No flames please. I'm pretty sensitive. I just want to gain knowledge. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 3:46:28 PM | | I've never dated a man older than me - but for a good reason. Only the younger guys ask me out. I never get asked out by older guys - - EVER. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 4:22:18 PM | FancyNanci! Will you be my mentor? LOL!
Go ON with ya bad self! 
You are proof that (some) blondes have more fun! (Wonder if I should change my hair back to blonde...)?
--Liz | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 10:48:53 PM | I'm 51, so I jumped the 50 hurdle last year. We "Nifty Fifties" should all be giving ourselfs the ole' High Five  for accomplishing the task of surviving society this long. Everyone in this club, stand up and say YEA!  | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/11/2008 11:03:45 PM | Broward..
I was always told that bad sex is still sex..and any sex therefor is good sex. No?
Sex at 50/+ is a dream of mine..careful now..tread lightly. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:34:04 AM | I was always told that bad sex is still sex..and any sex therefor is good sex. No?
Sex at 50/+ is a dream of mine..careful now..tread lightly
I'm very creeped out right now.
I had two different women, 25-30, try *seriously* to pick me up tonight.
I really don't get it.
I'm fricking 50 years old.
I didn't come on to them.
They're WAY too young.
The younger one.... holy shit.... it was THERE. She was all over me, hugging me
and grabbing me and drunk off her ass. I drove her home and dumped her off
with her friend. She wouldn't get out of my car.
Do yo have ANY idea how hard it is to resist some juicy, wet 25-year-old
drunk chick that's all over you? Goddamn it!!!!
DAMN.
Now I'm annoyed.
Just annoyed at the whole thing.
NO!
Bad sex sucks!
Try it sometime.
I did it.
It's like a job that never ends.
Sigh.
Why is it like this?
Lisa was there tonight, too.
She's spanish, a little taller than me (aren't they all?).
Late 30's, very sexy, very.... dominating in a quiet way.
We played a couple games of pool but she's hooked up with another guy now.
I played him and won.
There was a strange tension between the three of us.
We all knew it.
Sigh.
I'm so tired of the sex thing.
Why is it like this?
Why is it so complicated and weird and crreepy?
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:44:42 AM | | B--two women tried to pick you up and couldn't? Sounds like it is time for the treadmill........ | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:29:49 AM | A person who puts limits on how old/young they miss out.Your attitude
in life is either Positive or negative. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:38:09 AM |
But why would a woman who posts a profile on an Internet dating site who says she is 50 or older tell a man who is 55 that he's "too old for her"?
I have a theory that men and women aren't all that much different in many ways. If one can believe profiles and posts on forums, it seems that women think that "most" men want "younger" women and I am sure there is a pretty high degree of accuracy there. My observation is that many women want older men and a pretty large number want a younger man and they are separated by two age groups: younger and older.
When we were younger, we wanted the "experience" of an 'older' partner and as we age, we want to retain--or regain--the youthfulness we had "back then." | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:42:10 AM |
I could squeeze in 30 minutes of quickie sex.
30 minutes for quickie[i/] sex?? Isn't 30 minutes like record-breaking sex? | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:44:11 AM |
I've never dated a man older than me - but for a good reason. Only the younger guys ask me out. I never get asked out by older guys - - EVER.
I would. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 5:56:36 AM | Broward..
I wished I could give you the advice you seem to be seeking. Some great words of wisdom. In my own experience..getting asked out by the youngsters..isn't always easy to turn down..but I do manage as well. You have ethics and morals that apparently supersede your testosterone levels. Not many men/women would mind having someone that young jumping all over them..being they were over 18..adults. Maybe..try to find a place to go where there are no youngsters..or a time when they won't be there? I leave the clubs and bars to the kiddies..they seem to fill them nicely..especially after 10pm. JMO
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 6:00:16 AM | | I thought a quickie was actually called the 10 minute quickie..for a reason. Now I have to start re-thinking it..cause I'm sure not getting it. | |
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| The magic age of 50?
Posted: 1/12/2008 6:18:28 AM | apparently alot of us are not getting it quick or otherwise....................
apparently it bothers me twice as bad as I thought it did........... | |
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