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 Nyctobello

Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 51
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:11:34 PM
Wow, everyone has done better than me here!
I have been here for 9 months... and 0 dates.
 lassiter

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 52
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HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:14:05 PM
just being true to thyself. no different here than anywhere else
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 53
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:16:43 PM
in 15-30 mins you can tell if you want to work at it or not.


See I see it as that first 15 minutes actually BEING the "work". The rest is the "play"....... coasting off of the first 15 minutes of rowing you put in to set the tone..or pace. Why put in that work if you are not going to sticka roudn to reap the rewards?

I dunno.

I know what ya mean though Buc.

I, personally, just try to make sure I am having a good time on a date.

I dont fake it.

I see your point exactly though. Different strokes for different folks.

I STILL wish you a hapy birthday ya know!!

Wanna meet up for coffee or dinner perhaps? ;)

haha, good one hu?
 e_craig_here

Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 54
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HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:24:41 PM
Been on here just over 3 months. Sent out a bunch of E-mails, talked with a few people on the phone and IM, but no dates from here so far.

I was going to meet one when she suddenly and kind of mysteriously disappeared. First said she double booked that night, but maybe the next day, then said she got "bad news" from the doctor and I never heard from her again, but she has still been online here. Weird, I thought, but what are going to do? Keep looking I, guess!!! Sooner or later I'll find "miss right"...
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 55
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:25:06 PM
Aw, shucks, frosty, I was hoping you'd offer to pop out of a cake!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 56
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:32:38 PM
To prince of persia.....Listen handsome!! I wouldn't consider any of us "doing better". We're all still here arent' we? Just because we've had some dates that we wouldn't want to repeat? No, I think you're better off because you probably spent the time that I know at least I wasted (I'll only speak for myself)doing something more productive like regluing your insoles, cleaning your gyroscope, dusting off your lexicon, or a million of those tedious housecleaning tasks that NONE of us seem to have the time for.


Thump thump...is this thing on? How come most of the time the reply thingy doesnt work for me?? I feel sooo silly!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 57
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:39:21 PM
If 15 minutes of conversation is WORK, then that's definitely the wrong person, I am going to assume you are joshing around. And reap what rewards? Look doll, sex isn't a consolation prize for an hour of conversation that a woman may or may even be entertained by. (although I've HAD sex that seemed like a consolation prize...)

You don't fake it frosty, because men CAN'T fake it. And I don't mean sexually, I mean men can't fake having a good time, women have too good a radar for that. Unless you wanna go out with one of the desperate singles from the good girls finish last thread. You could pull almost anything on one of them and it's be "just fine".
Different strokes? Ahem...as a woman I'll reserve comment on that. I'm sure my strokes are WAY differenta from yours. Hey, I was talking about painting, ok? Geez..
And thanks I'm hoping I'll have a great weekend. If not the kids will be on the poopie list!!
 Julya13

Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 58
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HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 1:19:16 PM
I think you are so adorable Frrosty. There should be more men like you. Don't leave us, all the females on this site well miss your wonderful insight into the male brain.



Julya
 aradienne

Joined: 12/31/2004
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/24/2005 1:20:21 PM
forever....none
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 60
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 1:25:29 PM
Look doll, sex isn't a consolation prize for an hour of conversation that a woman may or may even be entertained by.


But great food, good mini golfing or go carting or a bungy jump may be....no?


You don't fake it frosty, because men CAN'T fake it


YOu apparently don't know my buddy "Holtzi"


Hey, I was talking about painting


exactly where my mind was too pretty Ms.





forever....none


beer n a burger please?

*shrugs*

I dunno.

AAHH I GET IT!!
 beaverchase

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 61
six from this cite
Posted: 5/24/2005 1:32:41 PM
Actually I am all over the place and have had a lot of invitation. I have tried a few women that past every thing my sweet little mind could creator. My problem is I can not find that one girl that will start dancing the minute the song comes on no matter where she is at. A girl that can match my dare for dare when we’re romancing each other. A girl that can kiss like me and really enjoys life as the world becomes out of focus. I like to be vocal and often women are so protective that I just walk away. My best first day ever was when China did not like US and I met this gorgeous girl who took me deep into her country. Yes it could have cost me my life but the high with her was super, super high. It really leaves behind my other first date when we went deep sea diving and I had never had a tank on. Call it crazy but I love that kind of female. I look for that girl that can get a hundred year of living in one day and not live one day in a hundred years. I’m afraid that the US just does not have that woman anymore.
 Ezzee

Joined: 7/26/2004
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/24/2005 1:36:37 PM
Well, I've been here for like 2 years and had no dates. In fact, I have only gotten one woman to even respond to my messages.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 63
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 1:48:54 PM
ezzee..check your headline...not your headlights...your headline. Now, go read ALL the threads about nice guys and finishing fast, um, I don't know something like that. I tend to not off...Anyway, do that and your eyes will be opened, you shall see the light, brother....whew.. do I get an amen??
 gurlznotgrey39

Joined: 12/12/2004
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/24/2005 1:51:45 PM
Holy cow....I have been here since August......04, Got my account deleted...(Think it was a lil mistake) signed up the same day again!


I have been on 3 dates!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 65
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 1:58:45 PM
Listen, please don't anyone do any comparing here. Don't think that's the point. This is not a hey I got more than you nah nah kindergarten thing. And if it is then frosty started it....
NO..hey JUST JOKING!!
It's comparing apples and oranges. You couldda had 3 dreamy dates and I couldda had 8 dates that would make godzilla look like a prince.
OK, maybe I'll ask you cuz you're a girl. I started to put a fur coat picture, not as racy as some I've seen here, just a little bare shoulder and leg...but got a red IF YOU POST NUDITY YOUR ACCOUNT WILL BE BANNED, or something like that!! It's NOT nudity at all, I take tasteful pictures. THe only body parts that are showing are knees and one bare shoulder...wooowoo...do you think I should post it or is there someone I could send it to to tell me if it'd be ok to post or not??
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 66
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:23:48 PM
^ send it to MichaelGrecco for his opinion, he is a moderator.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 67
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:30:47 PM
And how do I do that. Is that his screen name?
 Chatpilot

Joined: 9/5/2004
Msg: 68
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:32:08 PM
Online for over a year. Talked to a few people on the phone. Have not met any in person.
 Speshul_K

Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 5/24/2005 2:37:56 PM
A few months -- 2 guys
One I dated for about 2 weeks then he disappeared. The second disappeared after 1 date that went well?!! Men!

oh and by the way... some men on this site are hypocrites!


he can't walk the talk


I think this is the main reason why so many chicken out or find a way to disappear when a date is the next obvious progression in your conversations. (and one of my biggest frustrations) Heckl; if you can talk it so well, EVEN IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IT, you probably CAN walk it pretty darned well too!!

Just go for it for Gods sake.
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 70
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:41:23 PM
You finally figure out a lot of men are "shopping". It's usually someone new, and they probably send out a ton of emails, and the first few that respond, they act like they wanna meet or something, then when you've emailed and set something up they magically disappear. Either they can't handle all the responses (which is HIGHLY unlikely) or they found someone else more to their taste and just aren't polite enough to tell you. I've had guys that just up and disappeared write me 6 months, up to 3 years later, like nothing happened and they just wanna pick back up. Whaaa?? Do they think I have amnesia or I'm that gullible?
 Chatpilot

Joined: 9/5/2004
Msg: 71
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:42:44 PM
hmmm. I just logged on tonight for the first time in almost two weeks and didn't have a single message (not even junkmail) in my Inbox.

So I can honestly take myself OUT of that category.
 adonsia

Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 72
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:50:25 PM
BUCS....

I don't think that would be a problem..

When I started.. I've seen Nasty pic's online here..

and then there's some girl really giving out her Ass view..(rofl)...
I consider that real Nudity w/ a THONG...

But anyway... you might wanna send it as recommended to the moderater...

As I see it.. i don't think your acct. would be deleted.. if that's the cast he/they should ban half the ppl I''ve seen thus far... I think, I'll start observing their Nics' from here on...

Mommy2 has some new ones on her undie and well... I do not think a Bare shoulder is nudity.. i've got one and posted it up but, I took it down..:)...Ciao../ Good luck!!
 bucsgirl

Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 73
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 2:56:12 PM
How do you write the moderator? I did a name search for the guy frosty said and it came up blank. Do I send it to bigfish who runs the thing? Maybe I'll try that. Trust me, it's tame.
 adonsia

Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 74
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 3:36:21 PM
I do not know....

I think you should post it...

put it up.... i'll take a look at it... then if it's risky i'll let ya know..

I don't think they'll delete you so fast...

I could tell you stories in what i've see here...
 pluckyduck

Joined: 4/28/2005
Msg: 75
HOw long have you been here and how many dates have you been on?
Posted: 5/24/2005 3:50:14 PM
I think anyone with further questions needs to consult my "Ten Commandments of Online Dating" on page one of this forum. Ladies forward this to guys; guys check it out. I'm gonna write a book about this subject check it out on "New York Times Bestseller List". Talen don't come cheap. You're welcome!
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